Introductions

Josephine

Ines Thank you very much. But I don't understand why my post was deleted and which rules were not followed by me?!?

Joh Der Joh, we started with some fetish stuff before marriage. And then it felt quiet good to give my husband the key once we married. I must say, I am very submissive and the belt as well as a lot of stuff with chains, spanking and control of my daily life made my wildest dreams come true and still does.

Joh In principle, for daily life we have a safe with a lock which my husband can control through internet. We simply do it the way that we set up a video call. Then he unlocks and under his supervision I can take off the Bra, Belt and thigh bands for cleaning. Finally, he sees how I put the keys back into the safe and that's it. For emergency, we have keys embedded in paraffin together with some color pattern from old candles this is unique. In case of emergency, however, I can easily remove them. But then the paraffin block is destroyed and my husband would notice. Everything else is trusting and knowing it would have a great impact on our relationship to cheat him.

Vanessa

Willingly wearer?

Yes, I am very submissive and I am very proud to serve my husband. Unfortunately, the demands of every day's life and the need to run the housework are against it, but about every second week I am prepared with additional chains. then my husband and master recommends me to wear sexy lingerie under my skirt, I wear high heels and a lot of chains between legs and ankles, we have a hook in the kitchen where a chain is secured ending to a collar at my neck. This is in addition to my chastity underwear. Wearing a gag all the time is not practical, but I wear until he leaves the house and again shortly before he arrives. That's what is letting my sexual fantasies come true. And mostly it ends in a lot of sexual pleasure in the evenings. But, as I said above, the demands of real life don't allow to do this more often.

Laura

Josephine But I don't understand why my post was deleted and which rules were not followed by me?!?

It was not deleted just closed. Because we have the topic already

Vanessa

Alma05 I'd say reluctant.

Sorry for you...

Alma05 it ends up actually protecting me from distractions

I don't think it should.

Ines And, if you accept, you have to have the last word if you want end the wearing.

Very important for willingly/convinced wearers,yes.

Alma05 I could simply say no and that would be it. Though I don't know how it would affect our relationship...

Not too much consequences,so?

Alma05 I'm always free to say no at any point.

Good.

Lana

More freedom presently,so,good!🙂

Alma05 I can imagine her trying to convince me day after day, and that would definitely break our trust and our bond.

You should agree that if it is a "No.",it should be accepted and not discussed again.

Laura She should think more. Her parent is better candidate

I agree.

Alma05 This way I can see them and the other women

So several women know she wears a chastity belt?

Alma05 how restrictive it is

Not that much if well fitted.

Alma05 if the wearer is able to stimulate herself locked if she can't help it...

Not much if secure enough.

Josephine Yes, I am very submissive and I am very proud to serve my husband. Unfortunately, the demands of every day's life and the need to run the housework are against it, but about every second week I am prepared with additional chains. then my husband and master recommends me to wear sexy lingerie under my skirt, I wear high heels and a lot of chains between legs and ankles, we have a hook in the kitchen where a chain is secured ending to a collar at my neck. This is in addition to my chastity underwear. Wearing a gag all the time is not practical, but I wear until he leaves the house and again shortly before he arrives. That's what is letting my sexual fantasies come true. And mostly it ends in a lot of sexual pleasure in the evenings. But, as I said above, the demands of real life don't allow to do this more often.

Wow,it seems even stricter than it is for @Sara2001!

The chaining to the hook part and the permanently gagged,I find it very dangerous.

Angelina the belt should be bought from the manufacturer and not from amazon.

Right.

Alma05 for some specific measures of me

Generally asked from main manufacturers(My-Steel,Neosteel...),so a good sign it would be a comfortable and secure one.

Alma05 look for a way to open it without the key hahaha (just joking)

Well,I think I should mention @BikelockFugitive,our martial troll👹!😉.

Josephine

Laura Hi Laura, sorry that i didn't find that topic. I used the search filed and ended up with about 30 results where punishment was a side topic. But now I saw that it was already a topic and I will go through it. Thank you!

Renita

Alma05 In the case of my mother, she has no one "forcing" her to wear

Then why does she need a chastity belt at all?

Alma05

Renita
I told you literally in the next sentece you quoted. She got close to that church where women practice chastity, both wives and widows.

Laura

Alma05 She got close to that church where women practice chastity

Chastity with belts?

Renita

Alma05 where women practice chastity, both wives and widows

And unwed girls?

Alma05 I don't know exactly how does her belt looks like

Why don't you ask her to show it?

Alma05

Laura
Yes, as far as I know (from what she told me). She couldn't have bought one by herself, because she doesn't even know how to use amazon lol.

Angelina

Alma05

the belt should be bought from the manufacturer and not from amazon. do you know where your belt will come from (i.e. where she bought it?)?

Alma05

Angelina
I mentioned amazon as an example that she doesn't have much experience with internet besides facebook, google, and looking random things at google maps haha.

I didn't actually asked that much about where it came from. The only thing she said is that "they gave her" the one she is wearing right now, and they are giving her the other one for me too. Obviusly she paid for them, though I don't know how much. I suppose they buy them somewhere on the internet, because they asked for some specific measures of me (we send them last week). My mother says hers fits very well, so they must have bought it with her measures, idk.

I don't know exactly how does her belt looks like. Once I have mine, I'll try to find it on the internet and look for a way to open it without the key hahaha (just joking)

Angelina

Alma05

I would be really interested to know what brand your belt is, because a cheap belt can quickly become uncomfortable to wear. 🙁

Alma05 Actually yes, because I asked her the other day if I could talk to any other girls in a similar situation. And this Sunday I'm going to meet some of the other members' daughters which are wearers too.

interesting, apparently a real chastity cult 😂 but it can help you to talk with other wearers

BikelockFugitive

Alma05 The Idea isn't that bad.
Often people cheap out on the locks, simply cause most people cannot beat them anyway.
But a screwdriver and a hairpin are enough to beat most locks. Even better: A combination lock. Those are so braindead that you theoretically even bruteforce them.

Josephine

Vanessa The chaining to the hook part and the permanently gagged,

Sorry if I wrote it in a way it might be misunderstood. I wear the gag while my husband is in the house, so that I don't disturb him saying something silly. When he leaves, it is removed. When he writes a WhatsApp that he will arrive soon, I replace it. Then I wear it until we go to bed. The only break then is our dinner, where I am not allowed to speak. This is however not done every day. Chains, gag and so on are something we do once in a while in a week or the other. Wearing a gag during my period, however, is something I started some month ago because then I am quite bitchy then. But I do it in the same way, wearing it during the time my husband is in the house, but not while he is away for work. My jaw muscles wouldn't tolerate that and I'm well aware of the danger.

Vanessa

Josephine

If you only wear gag or chain when he's at home,it is better(even if you put it a bit early when he's not at home and only tell you he would be at home soon,I think).

But he should be mainly in the same piece than you,not only "at home".

Alma05 some of the other members' daughters which are wearers too.

Reluctantly or willing ones?

Alma05 It's not like I'm gonna ask her to lift up the skirt.

Understandable.

Angelina I would be really interested to know what brand your belt is, because a cheap belt can quickly become uncomfortable to wear. 🙁

Right.

Alma05 it was made using my measures, so I think that's a sign of not cheap.

Probably,yes.

carg

Welcome!

Don't worry,fetishists are welcome here too as long as they respect other users and the purpose of this forum!🙂

Angelina i do that i reduce marriage to sex and that should definitely not be the criterion by which we choose our spouse.

But sex is part of it.

And I think too having some experiences before is not necessarily a bad idea.

Alma05

Renita And unwed girls?

Actually yes, because I asked her the other day if I could talk to any other girls in a similar situation. And this Sunday I'm going to meet some of the other members' daughters which are wearers too.

Renita Why don't you ask her to show it?

She showed it to me the first time she told me about it. However, I only saw the waist part. It's not like I'm gonna ask her to lift up the skirt.

Renita

Alma05 And this Sunday I'm going to meet some of the other members' daughters which are wearers too.

Then it's should an established keyholding procedure in your church.

Alma05 I only saw the waist part

And the lock. How it looks like?

Alma05

Angelina

Well, I prefer the word "church". The adult members I've met have treated me really nicely (I haven't already met any member of my age). And they all seem like good people that simply want to live the life they think makes them closer to God. I'm not a very a practicing catholic myself, but I believe in God, and as long as this path helps me become a better woman, I'm gonna follow it.

Sorry for the long answer haha, I think I got a little triggered by the word "cult". I understand that as a dangerous thing, and for now, they are not.

Alma05

Angelina I would be really interested to know what brand your belt is

I'll try to take a better look tomorrow, I'm gonna wear it during online classes (8am-14pm). Based on my very little experience, it fits really well. I could say 100% it was made using my measures, so I think that's a sign of not cheap.

Angelina

Alma05 Well, I prefer the word "church".

Alma05 Sorry for the long answer haha, I think I got a little triggered by the word "cult"

sorry i forgot to mention that i am a convinced anarchist, for me both are the same thing 😂

Alma05

Angelina

See? If I were part of a cult I would have called the Inquisition to burn you in a pyre. 🤣

Angelina

Alma05 See? If I were part of a cult I would have called the Inquisition to burn you in a pyre. 🤣

my strict christian grandma is sometimes on the verge of 😂

carg

welcome to the forum 🙂

are you beeing the carg of "Bondage in Bibs" ?

Alma05

Renita Then it's should an established keyholding procedure in your church

As far as I know, husbands are they keyholders for their wives and both parents are the keyholders for their daughters. About widows, I suppose each one finds her own solution. What I know for sure is that no one at the church is going to be the keyholder for someone outside their blood family.

Renita And the lock. How it looks like?

I dont know what to tell you, it has a padlock at the front of the waist. So it looks like a regular padlock...

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