Introductions

Angelina

yes so you're right, I would also like a young one who loves me for myself and not just my body.

i don't want to sound conceited now but i know that i'm pretty and my father knows that, too, and i've been approached by guys a couple of times.

it's really bad for me to know that a boy appeals to me and my only thought is that he shouldn't see me locked up. i'm just afraid how he reacts. besides, i'd have to keep that secret until i'm 18 anyway 🙁

my father does not wash me, he looks exactly as with you Vanessa only if I do anything with my hands. today, however, I may shower anyway only in chastity 🙁

today i have a bad day so far, today i am extremely finished . i can not imagine the next years to live so enclosed 🙁

Megan

Angelina i don't want to sound conceited now but i know that i'm pretty

Yes same here, i am very fit but still feminine with curves. That seems to be another common theme.

Angelina i can not imagine the next years to live so enclosed

This sounds abusive. If this does not improve you may need legal help.
just like Female Genital Mutilation. A horror from the Islamic world.

Raziel

Angelina
This is really bad to ask, but would you be able to wear a diaper if you still need thigh bands? You wouldn't want to make a mess during that time of the month.

Megan is right, all these devices are enough proof to put your father in jail for abuse. You could contact police to be released, but your father would most likely be separated from you if Europe is similar to the USA.

James

Vanessa I know what you mean - but a girl can still negotiate. Touching is out, and you might still have to wear it most of the time, but you can make allowances. It's all a trade.

For example, one of the belted girls I know rides horses, and she doesn't wear thigh bands during that or a chastity bra etc, as she would not be able to ride and do that.

Laura

James Exactly. If I need to have the belt off for something reasonable, I will have it off just for it.

James

Laura Exactly, which is the point I've been making. A girl should be able to have the belt off for something reasonable - if not that is abuse, honestly.

Sara2001

Laura Exactly. If I need to have the belt off for something reasonable, I will have it off just for it.

I think that's how it should be, but there are limits.

I would not get the belt of if I had the option to be on my own during this activity. It's also limited by my fathers ability to unlock and lock me. When he is not with me when I need to be unlocked, it can not happen.

Ines

James A girl should be able to have the belt off for something reasonable - if not that is abuse, honestly.

This is my household approach. To be protected is not be bullied.

Vanessa

Generally,I’m not allowed to have the belt taken off,with a few exceptions,like sports when it was mandatory,showering/sugaring(but supervised),going to the doctor...

I imagine if It was necessary for some activities(if I play tennis,or swim,or dance...),it may be allowed,but not sure and I should have a really good reason.And if it was for a sport/dance,it would be taken off right before going to it,and I would be expected to go right home to let my parents put in back on me as soon as possible.

James

Vanessa That would be fair Vanessa.

Sara2001

Vanessa ,it would be taken off right before going to it,and I would be expected to go right home to let my parents put in back on me as soon as possible.

I think I would not be allowed to do any spots or dance where a shower or things like that are needed afterwards. We have a small fitness room in our basement with a fitness bike and a walking band. I can use both with the belt on. So it would be hard to argue that it's only for my fitness. I think they would allow it if it is my passion to do something where I can go home immediately after it is over. Most probably my father would try to pick me up.

Vanessa

Sara2001 I think I would not be allowed to do any spots or dance where a shower or things like that are needed afterwards. We have a small fitness room in our basement with a fitness bike and a walking band. I can use both with the belt on. So it would be hard to argue that it's only for my fitness. I think they would allow it if it is my passion to do something where I can go home immediately after it is over. Most probably my father would try to pick me up.

I think it would be the same for me.If I want it to to be taken off for some activities,like sport or dancing,I would have to give a very good reason to accept that I do it,and so,without the chastity belt on.Like you,if it is a passion,they may accept it,but I would have to come back to home right after it,and the belt would be put back on me as soon as I'm home.My parents may pick me up right after it if they have doubts about I come home right after it,but they probably let me prove I can obey to them about it first.

Laura An ideal chastity belt must prevent only one thing.

Generally,it is used to prevent two things,masturbating and having sex.

James They think if they lock up a girl she won’t think about it

And it has the opposite effect,having to wear a chastity belt make us think of sex even more,generally!

Sara2001

Megan A horror from the Islamic world.

Islamic? I thought the chastity belt was invented in Europe. Most probably in Italy (they are not sure if it was Florence or Venice).

Megan

Sara2001 chastity belt was invented in Europe

The chastity belt was probably invented not long after ropes or early houses.
Chastity belts are actually good or at least beneficial.
Female Genital Mutilation is a horror from the Islamic world...
Someone making you unable to urinate or sweat or walk is abuse.
My Chastity Belt is not abusive, it is a part of my life now and I am learning to be without it sometimes and to marry As I am in my late 20s I do not take to sex and masturbation as easily but I am very attractive so there is that...

Sara2001

Raziel The system in Germany is different. I'm not sure what happens if they believe her that this is her own wish. Most probably they will not believe this. Than it is abuse and you are in BIG trouble.

Laura

Megan My Chastity Belt is not abusive, it is a part of my life

That's how it's supposed to be. An ideal chastity belt must prevent only one thing.

Sara2001

Megan You made the compensation with FGM.

A chastity bra and tight bands is not an islamic invention, too. So what is your point?

I think many wears of a chastity belt and most courts on this planet will see forced chastity as abusive, too. Especially for minors.

Sara2001

Laura That's how it's supposed to be. An ideal chastity belt must prevent only one thing.

My chastity belt prevents more than one thing

Masturbation and Orgasms
Sexual intercours (and virginity if still possible)

Laura

Sara2001 A chastity bra and tight bands is not an islamic invention, too. So what is your point?

I think these two things are abusive.

James

Sara2001 Yes, they would.

Sara2001 That is what a belt should prevent - but not without exceptions to allow for normal life. Putting a girl in locked box would also prevent that - but would be equally abusive and absurd.

Men really don’t, on average, understand how women think and feel. They think if they lock up a girl she won’t think about it. Girls don’t think like that, at all. Girls think about multiple things at once. The best way to keep a girl’s mind off sex is to keep her busy....which if a belt prevents her from doing sports etc she enjoys, then it’s not at all workable.

Sara2001

Laura I think these two things are abusive.

Most people and most laws would say the same about a chastity belt, too.

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