Introductions

Chelsea

Angelina yes she does. She is totally fine with that but the distance is a problem indeed.

Angelina

Vanessa Right.It is a bit frustrating when we can't understand a single word in a talk...

you can use a translator, that's what I would do if you wrote french

Vanessa I hope it works better than Google trad!😉 I've results with almost no sense,when translating texts,sometimes.

i use deepl, is a bit better than google translator but sometimes it makes errors too 😂

Chelsea yes she does. She is totally fine with that but the distance is a problem indeed.

then talk to each other and try to find a solution

Chelsea

Vanessa Welcome!

Thank you so much! 😄

Vanessa Why do you want to stop masturbating?Do you feel you do it it too much,or do you feel guilty about doing it?

Uhm the main reason is because I just do it way too much during a day and I get distracted from work I should do
and a generell problem addiction kind of. I´m not sure when it´s actually an addiction but it´s definitely going in a not very helpful/useful or idk how to phrase this but not a very positive way

Saintprudence

Chelsea A chastity device feels to me like a bit of overkill. However, it would certainly be a secure solution to your problem. I just hope you’re willing and ready to live with the sacrifice of self-access in order to achieve it.

Here’s a possible solution to your long-distance keyholder: Utilize a device that can be locked with numbered plastic locks. Present your key holder with regular evidence that the lock hasn’t been tampered with. On cleaning days, take a time stamped photo just before breaking the lock and right after a new one so they can verify that you have not been released very long.

Alternate method that requires them to visit every so often: They keep you locked with metal locks and you have an emergency key in a sealed envelope that is marked in such a way they can tell you haven’t opened it. They come by every so often to unlock you for cleaning and verify the envelope is unopened.

Vanessa

Chelsea

If you feel negative about it and feel it takes you too much time,preventing you to do other things(more important ones,or ones you like),a chastity belt may be a solution.But it is hard.

Angelina you can use a translator, that's what I would do if you wrote french

I tried,but one of the sentences have no sense,even after translating it!😉

Angelina i use deepl, is a bit better than google translator but sometimes it makes errors too 😂

I may give it a try.

Lea

So they should understand it is effective enough to prevent you to dress very sexy,and discard the dress code.

Erik

Welcome!

Amira

Yes!🙂

Amira

It is a common feeling.Many of us think more about sex while locked in it.

Probably your urges grow stronger when you're close to your release because you expect to feel this pleasure again soon and "can't wait"!

Staying belted longer would probably be hard.And take care they don't think about it as a way to make you accept more easily to wear it permanently until you get married....

So,more than 3 weeks since your last orgasm,now?How do you feel?

Amira I got released every second friday for having time for myself.

The same frequency than @catherine98,except it was every other Sunday,for her.

Saintprudence

Chelsea I should add that although I sound like I’m questioning it, I respect and applaud your decision to join the sorority of locked women. Can you tell me why it was impossible to wear for more than a few days last time?

Lea

Vanessa Yeah they know it.

Angelina

Lea

so I don't understand why they're not giving up the dress code.

Erik

Hi, I found this forum because I am interested in the topic of erotisism. It's not that I scrounge the internet on the topic. But this so happened to come up.

It looks like it I have a bright idea.

Personally I don't wear chastity belts as it scares my willy.

Erik

Before I sent this to the email address in the faq.

Dear reader,

2 days ago I posted a reply here: (Erik) https://unwedchastity.org/d/238-chastity-for-unwed-sons/173
I have a question. Personally I don’t post somewhere, where this could possibly not work out.
What if I take on a more activistic attitude? This is something I consider. If this could lead to a ban Personally I would not start it.

Best regards,

Dear reader,

There was a typo in the previous email. A capital too much.

I did post something again. I am not saying it is that activistic what I said. By activistic I meant that it is possible to be more activistic. In a way that can cause emotions. Somehow this is not a strong point in fora. In my opinion having watched some fora for some time.

I really don’t go anywhere they could delete something I say or use bans. Even, I am not at all friendly with people who do this. At least unless they are willing to e.g. discuss this and not decide everything on their own. Or something similar somehow. By all this I don’t mean this is about- or has anything to do with any political color. So if there is a problem I hope you let me know.

But anyway, I am really a very nice guy that is also open to what moves people. In any case.

Best regards,

Amira

Hello all, anybody remember me?

Laura

Amira Of course. The Sirian girl living in Germany.

Amira

Yes, thank you for remembering 🙂
I was reading everything but didn't have much new to say as I got used to the belt pretty well except for the part that it gets more and more complicated to wait for the next time to get out of it. It feels like the urge is getting bigger the closer the day for the next release comes. I don't know if that makes sense.
So my Mom, Stepdad and I agreed that it may be worth a try to have me in the belt for a longer time to see how that affects my wanting to touch myself. We started with that after the release on April 9th and it is intended to stay on till the school starts again for me. I just wish I knew when that may be.

Angelina

Amira

hi of course I remember, nice that you did not forget us and get in touch again 🙂

how many times did you have your releases ? maybe the school will start in the middle of may, but i notice that there are always other infos and i feel insecure myself, maybe it will last until the end of the school year

I hope you're okay.

Amira

I got released every second friday for having time for myself. And besides of that for hygienic reasons as well, but that is not a time where I am really alone.
Hm, mid of may is still a while to go but I am not sure if school really will be reopened then. I miss school and my friends a lot but I guess it is more important to stop the spread of the virus.

I am very much okay and we're all in good health and I enjoy the Ramadan a lot except that the gatherings in the evening arent possible.

Angelina

Amira

Unfortunately I assume that it will take until summer, but I am glad that I have never heard of anyone here in the forum that someone has fallen ill.can you cope emotionally with the situation that you cannot touch youself?

do you have regularly monitored showers?

Amira

Vanessa

It is getting pretty complicated after these weeks for me, but I can bear it yet. It helps a little bit that I have learned how I have to move to get my littlest finger underneath from the back a bit. That doesnt give me orgasms or something, but I at least can remember how it feels to feel anything. Yes, for Muslims Friday is the day of gathering a bit like Sunday is for Christians.

I certainly hope that no one will come to the idea to make it permanent!

Erik

Vanessa Welcome!

Ok, thank you. Nice to be here.

Lea

Vanessa I agree!

Amira

Angelina

I don't even know anyone who got infected, I only heard about people who know people that got it so far. I hope it will stay that way. It is very complicated to not be able to touch myself, but I at least can reach a bit under it from the back with the littlest finger to at least remember how it feels.

Yes, I can either shower with the belt on or under supervision.

Vanessa

Angelina

It makes me wonder...If schools open only in September 2020,finally,how would it affect @Amira's chastity?Have to stay with no orgasms for several months?

Amira It helps a little bit that I have learned how I have to move to get my littlest finger underneath from the back a bit. That doesnt give me orgasms or something, but I at least can remember how it feels to feel anything.

Does it not make you even more frustrated?

Amira I certainly hope that no one will come to the idea to make it permanent!

I hope so too,but it wouldn't be that surprising...

Amira Yes, I can either shower with the belt on or under supervision.

Good that they took care of your hygiene.

Angelina even if you do not come to orgasm, you should be careful not to get caught. many parents react very badly to it and probably you would wear the belt permanently

Wise advice!

Angelina permanent wearing is very hard

I can confirm it!🙁

Amira I don't think I'd ever really agree to it.

I doubt they would ask for your opinion about it...

Amira

It seems chains are the worst rear,for many.

Amira How does the other back feel like? From what I can see I would say it pushes the buttocks apart, isn't that unpleasant too?

I've a cable one,the best one for several people;it doesn't push the buttocks apart,but is a bit like a wedgie,and you have to hold it a bit to the sides when going to the toilet(and use wet wipes).

David278

Welcome!

I personally think a chastity device is more painful and risked for a man...

In my case I'm already "taken",with a girlfriend!😉

@Laura:another people that would like a dating site for belted men and women!😉

David278

Have you a potential keyholder?

Amira She'll investigate what can be done 😀

Good for you!🙂

Angelina

Amira but I at least can reach a bit under it from the back with the littlest finger to at least remember how it feels.

even if you do not come to orgasm, you should be careful not to get caught. many parents react very badly to it and probably you would wear the belt permanently

better wait until you are free again, you don't have this possibility often, but unlike most, you can still touch yourself sometimes. don't risk this too much because permanent wearing is very hard

Amira

Angelina

I guess you're right I better shouldnt get caught when I do that 🙂 but it is hard to know that I can and still don't do it.

Permanent wearing seems to be really a hard thing but I don't think I'd ever really agree to it.

Tobbe

Amira Be careful! If you have the chastity belt model with anal hole, there is a shield to lock over the opening! Your parents can then lock this on the belt, when you go to sleep or should be alone!

Angelina

Amira but I don't think I'd ever really agree to it.

if you get caught, you may not have a choice, so please be careful

Tobbe there is a shield to lock over the opening!

that's not possible, she must be able to go to the toilet

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