Yes,if they want to stay chaste until married,it would be more logical to be belted when together,but not sure it is what Raziel wants.
Welcome here Sara!It seems you're in a similar situation than many of us here;having to wear a chastity belt until married.And apparently we've the same one to wear.
Yes,dating,especially the first time,after we started to wear the belt permanently is not easy,especially as we know,that,if it became serious,we have to tell him/her about our device...I hope you'll manage to overcome this fear,even if I know it isn't easy.But having a significant other knowing it can be helpful,if he/she support you well.
How would you react if you fall in love,thinking about marrying him,and he tells you he want you to keep the chastity belt on after being married?
So you agree,at least partly,with them,about preventing you to orgams alone or with a partner?
Yoi can too ask soemone(locksmith,firemen...)to detsroy it,saying it is a sex game with your boyfriend,but he lost the keys...Humilating,and it would probably have bad consequences with your parents but less risked for them to have troubles.