Introductions

amber

Renita maybe yes, maybe no. It's secret. Is germany special somehow?
Angelina what can I say to her?

Renita

amber Is germany special somehow?

You write differently than the Germans

Angelina

amber

here are many from germany also me😉

I do not know what you should tell her I do not know her.

but speak in a calm and objective tone about what questions and anxieties you have. important !!! : do not scream, do not be cheeky, and no blame then she hears you too

Laura

amber maybe yes, maybe no. It's secret.

Let's keep your secret 🙂
What kind of belt do you have to wear?

amber

Laura What kind of belt do you have to wear?

Sorry, I don't understand, What do you mean by "what kind"? If you mean the model, there are no logos on the belt, so I dont know what model it is. if you mean what type of belt, then im not sure because I don't know what different belt types are there (I only know about hip and waist belts, i have a hip belt). Where can I look to know the type?

Ines

Hello all you girls,
My name si Inés, a Spanish girl.
I have a Neosteel belt, as my mother, I have to wear it only it in weekends and nights, due to I assist classesl, and nowadays in Spain it is not social aceptable at all.
In my case wear it is a semi-consensual agreement 😁 , in general I like the feeling of protection and care, and a lot of days I like fit it when I arrive home from school and make
homework, but some nights... Brrrr... I will cut down it in pieces, specially the thighs bands.
In my household, we are 3 girls and a brother. We, the 2 older girls wear belt, but the little one is a little tomboy, and she does not admit wear it, however she has it 😂 , a true Wildcat.
I hope I can add some feelings and experiences to the community. I will try my sister Teresa sign up The group, but in University she has not some many tome.
Sorry for my bad English.
Kisses and cheers for all you, girls.

Angelina

Ines

hello ines welcome here 😉

first of all i have an important question: does the belt do anything at all if you wear it only at night and on weekends ? in my opinion you still have enough time to become sexually active.

did i understand correctly that you all 3 girls wear a belt, or how is it with your youngest sister ? does your brother also wear one ?

to the tighbands, do you always wear them when you wear the belt or just out of punishment ?

so welcome here and I would be happy if you write back. my english is also not good 😉

Laura

Ines Hi, Ines. Welcome to the forum. How did you find us?

Ines I have to wear it only it in weekends and nights

Are you allowed to go outside without the belt?

Ines I will try my sister Teresa sign up The group, but in University she has not some many tome.

So, she is older than you and an university student already. Does she wear her belt for university?

Ines

Angelina brother

Angelina does your brother also wear one ?

No. My brother is a boy. Belt is a girls thing, way to live womanhood, real life boys belting is a nonsense.

Ines

Hello,
Well, I attend to a high standard institution with a busy schedule... I can assure you, my free time is very little until I arrive home 😅 .
My little sister does not wear belt, she is very reluctant to do it (still). 😁
Usually, when we wear belt we use bands, but my mother for job and my elder sister for university, never wear bands.

However, there are moments in which I dont have to use them, for example go cinema or going walk with friends.

Regards, girls

Ines

Kello girls,

Laura How did you find us? Well, boring local holiday. I just used Google 😄, in Spanish we have the term "Googleando" ("Googling").
And yes, Spain is a very sensitive country with all involving nre, so I do not go outside with belt, as my sister said : "belts are for summer" (there is and old Spanish movie "Bycicles are for the Summer"). A girl using the belt can suposse ruin for family.
My elder sister is in 20's so, she can use it easier, and yes she wear belt to classes, but only belt.

Laura

Ines My elder sister is in 20's so, she can use it easier, and yes she wear belt to classes, but only belt.

Does she wear the belt voluntarily or by parents' request?

strictfather

Hello, this is my first post here.
I introduce myself.
I am from Italy, I'm 45 (yes, i know you will think... uoooo.... he is old!!! 😛), i am a male and i am a father.

why am i here?
why my nickname "strictfather"? well... i'm on the other side of the fence! 😮

i am a father who i looking around for a chastity belt for my daughter.
My daughter is 16 and goes to secondary school (3rd year of 5 years of secondary school).

I would like to make it clear that I am not a father against my daughter "sex-life" only because is "sex".
I simply (simply!.. ehm... simple word for a difficoult task) want to limit her "sex-life" because of what my daughter did (bad!) and will do (very bad!) and possible consequences (nightmare!).

I explain it better:
before the school year-end (before summer) my daughter's school marks got worse, became bad marks. She had always been a brilliant student, high marks and now... bad marks. Fortunately she was promoted to the next class (4th year) beause of her previous good grades. but next year,if things continue she will be stopped to pass the next 5th year class and will remain to 4th year.
What happened? this question was the big question.
We asked her if there was some problem, if me and my wife could help her. But she always was evasive teeling us that she was studying hard and that was teacher fault bla bla bla.
Everithing apparently had not changed at all.
After the morning school she always stay in her room to study.
Every two days, as usually, she went out with her friends (mostly girls) for a walk, for an icecrem, for a cinema, to look at stores,....
2 months passed and i was more and more worried, thinking she had some seriuos problem. my wife also talked with her many times alone but no news, no information that could explain the situation. my daughter minimized all as a temporary problem.
This till the end of the school year.
We were happy she passed the year (altought very near not to pass it). she was happy for summer holidays. i was worried, very worried for the future... and i couldn't understand what was happening.
Then IT happened.
...
..
.
I was walking with my wife and we met a friend of my daughter. some day before my daughter went with her to the cinema. we asked her if she had liked the movie. she responded a timid "yes" that sounded more as a "Yes?" near to a "i don't understand what her father is talking about, tell him yes and everything will be ok". i felt my daughter didn't go to the cinema, my daughter had lied. there were 3 or 4 "mistakes", situations like this and i decided to ask to my daughter in the next weekend
BUT...
yes, there is a "but".
On friday (one day before the weekend) me and my wife were invited by friends of ours to a barbeque out of city (we live in a big city).
My daughter logically organized herself with her friends and didn't come.
We left the house by car at 10:00am so to arrive to barbeque for lunch at 12:00. the car trip was about 2 hours. at middle way... surprise.... we had forgot the present for our friends. ufff... what to do? i decided to return back. eventually we wold arrive 1 hour late for lunch,"it's a barbeque, is not a problem"
so 2 hours after my leaving i returned at home.
I opened door locks and i entered and took the present from living room. and... i heard it.
my daughter voice.
no.
better to say her "voice".
no.
"their" voices.
it was clear what was she doing in her room.
and that she wasn't alone.
I thouht for some time what to do. <<what if i open the door?>> <<no, it's a private matter, i can't do it>> i was going away when i thought "and if school bad mark, all lies are about a secret boyfriend, the man inside the room with her"? maybe is better to clear it NOW instead of tomorrow.
i returnet to the main door, i opened it and close it again with strenght "SLAM!" as if i was just arrived.
silence.
silence.
silence.
ah! they were trying to make me think the house was empty (thay had also closed the door lock from inside). Uff.... i saw her jacket on a chair and i told "uff... she never put this jacket in her room" and i entered in her room with the jaket in my hand (i'm clever).
You can imagine what i found. i can only tell that i immediatly exit , close the door telling "sorry". i imagined my daughter face becaming so red that the entire house would became red. i went away, returned to the car (where my wife was waiting) and we went to the barbeque. i told her what happended to my wife only at destination or the nightmare would start immediatly for my daughter (my wife, as a woman, is very strict about those things while i was more worried about possible a connection between what i saw in that room and schools marks).

when we returned at night we found her in the living room, waiting as the sentenced to death, low eyes, mute.

We talked for a long time, she became red, but in a few words ther admitted there was a boy and he was making sex with him for 3 month, right the time of school bad marks. i told her she lied about cinema and other thing and become clear she had been liying for 3 month letting us think she was with her friend when really she was somewhereelse. i let her and my wife alone to talk (without the father maybe a more free speech) and at the end she confessed that the "elsewhere" was "in a bed with that boy" making what you can imagine. and school mark worse and worst.
My wife told her to limit this because school is very important for her future. nothing. she responded she couln't avoid to stay with him, because she liked her "body" feeling (orgasm and so on...). Her mind was full of a concept only: sex. hidden under the concept "love" but it was really love for sex. and she is only 16 also if near to 17!

The confessed that the last two school months she spent almost all her time at the desk messagging with that boy by whatsapp, thinking to him, dreaming about next sex meeting.

So, not to be too long: me and my wife decided to protect her by herself and here the origin of the idea of a chastity belt. (the way to the chastity belt idea was not so direct, now i simplified it very much).
So i started to search on internet "chastity belt". mmm. almost all result by search engine where porn related sited, absolutely NOT what i was looking for, i found some forum talking about chastity belt but always form a "fetish" point of wiew. useless for me, i was looking for something more "real-life". At the end i found this forum (blog?) and i read it all in 3 days. read read read... it was a VERY interesting real-life point of wie about chastity belts in real family life (also if i feel that some ideas as the thight-bends are too much).

and now i am here.

because i need your help. i need your suggestion about what chastity belt to buy, what problems wearing it (i have already read about many of this problems in your discussions), what company choose to buy it and so on.... (also because i saw they are really expensive).

plese don't think "ahhhhh a bad adult that want put in prison a poor daughter". Please help me to help my daughter not to crush her future. my worst fear is that soon she could tell me "father... i am pregnant" and her school, her future... deleted. and for waht? for a single sex moment?

so maybe i will write something in your threads, but always to "understand". i need help.

thank you

James

strictfather Welcome to the forum. I guess the first not comfortable question is, are you sure she’s not pregnant yet?

I would also add she needs strict discipline; not just a belt, but done in a way that won’t hurt your relationship. Would you strictfather like to talk with me privately about this?

Angelina

strictfather

hi welcome to the forum ,

first you don't need to be afraid, no one here will judge you for age or sex.

you have written a lot but I can write you a short answer 😉

talk to your daughter about the possibility of a chastity belt, maybe she is ready to wear one she seems to be reasonable.

Manufacturers are neosteel or mysteel certainly even more but these are the most known

Laura

strictfather So i started to search on internet "chastity belt". mmm. almost all result by search engine where porn related sited, absolutely NOT what i was looking for, i found some forum talking about chastity belt but always form a "fetish" point of wiew. useless for me, i was looking for something more "real-life". At the end i found this forum (blog?) and i read it all in 3 days. read read read... it was a VERY interesting real-life point of wie about chastity belts in real family life (also if i feel that some ideas as the thight-bends are too much).

That's great you have found us as it's supposed to be. That's our goal.

BikelockFugitive

strictfather I already excuse myself for the langauge.
Honestly even if you put her in one and she doesn't go on a rampage and destroy your and your wife's lives, it isn't guaranteed that it will even remotely solve the problem. It might even make everything worse.

"We asked her if there was some problem, if me and my wife could help her. "

Has it come to your mind that she might be in a problem so massive that she cannot talk about it with you?
You were these situations yourself, you or someone else fucked up and somthing went horribly wrong. now you got the mess on your hands but you cannot tell anyone because either you are too afraid or to proud to do so. I can think about a million situations a young girl in her age could have gotten herself into.

There are reasons why there are psychologists, that specialise in treating minors and teenagers, they have special methodes they can use to earn their trust. I strongly suggest you hire such a person to figure out what is wrong with her, especially before you put a belt on her. It might safe your relationship and her life.

Also why the hell a belt? If she is such a rebel she will figure out that it will take minutes to lockpick it or seconds to cut it open. The only way you can prevent her from doing such a thing, is my making her a Belt that cannot be open'd once locked, but that isn't really possible for various reasons.

strictfather

after the confession a pregnancy check has been made and was negative. also an HIV test has been made and will be repeated in 3 months. she told they always used a condom. but will it be it true? we will never know it. This is the stronger reason to stop my daughter. is too young to understand situation. She likes so much to "feel good" that between the egg and the chicken she would eat the egg, later starving. Now school has begun again and we can't keep her closed in the house to keep them far from that boy. and we can't look at her always. so a chastity belt is a good solution. we close the door and no more problem.

Angelina

strictfather

as I said talk to your daughter and tell her that you want her to wear the belt, she sees that her notes get worse

James

strictfather Well good to hear that. However, how do I put this, don’t think like a man? We tend to think problems are solved but doing one or two things, but they can often create other problems. You need to change the way you are managing things with your wife to be firm but strict.

As the girls here will tell you, putting on the belt and leaving it at that doesn’t fully solve the problem. She will need strict discipline too.

strictfather

Angelina: i already told her about the chastity belt idea in a calm moment, in a calm way, after dinner, sitting in the living room.
you can imagine her reaction. she started to cry, to tremble, to to pray not to do it, to promise not to do it again. empty words because i now she continues to meet him.
that day after she prayed more because she checked online what wa really a "chastity belt" (looking at it is different from talking about its scope). but i didn't change my idea.
now a week is gone and i feel to have short time. my scope is to fit it as son as possible.

James

strictfather How do you know they are still meeting?

strictfather

I am ashamed to say it but one afternoon when she left the house saying that she would go out with her friends (females) I followed her and saw that they met in a square near our house (not very clever!). after seeing the boy's face that time I never forget it. i only saw they met then and i immediatly went away (i didn't follow them) but when she returned at homer she LIED teling that the icecream with her friends (females) was good. when i told her i saw them the become white. and when i told her "you see chastity belt is the best solution" she run in her room crying. i'm sorry but is better cry a little now than crying forever). notice that yesterday she tried to convince the mother to change her mind. wrong attempt because she had the chastity belt idea! and my wife told her "your word make clear chastity belt is the only solution for this situation". Moreover now she can't go with friends anymore because we forbid it: we don't trust her. With chastity belt the trust problem will be no more a problem. what a sad situation 🙁 🙁 🙁

James

strictfather Well, as I said, unless you want to lose your daughter, do not think that getting a belt on her is the solution.

Things got this way for a reason, and you and your wife need to change the way you're parenting and handling discipline. A girl does not do this unless there has been a breakdown in your relationship with her for a long time. If you want to talk with me about discipline in more detail, we can do that privately.

Angelina

strictfather

and that's where you should start. If she wears the belt, she is allowed to get out with her friends.

she will cry a lot at the beginning, so do I. but in time she will accept it. she will fight a lot against her belt i still fight when i get horny but it gets less

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