Introductions

StephanieS

Hello, my name is Stephanie. Perhaps I should drop out of the forum. I joined without realizing that this is all-female. I am an almost full-time straight sissy under female rule, female led relationship. I have believed since the invention of these cages that all straight men with partners should wear male chastity cages where the key is held by their female partner. So I do that myself and am very lucky to have a strict female keyholder. My chastity is absolute and without end. I will say no more lest i break the "pornography" rule. Thomas of Aquila first defined pornography as anything which makes you feel something you do not wish to feel.

Although straight, i do makeup and high heels and much more feel to some extent female. It's just that i am not attracted to men at all -- we treat women badly IMHO. Men in chastity cages dressed as sissies (I think) by definition have a vocation to adore women not just physically but spiritually. I write poems about this.

Let me know whether I should just drop out of the forum for being the wrong gender. There are many of these fora for us sissies, and they all seem to be for straight men like me btw, hence my confusion. The sissies try to find the right cage that they can wear without hurting themselves for a long time, eventually for forever. They cry (being girls) over not having a girl to lock their cages and own them. Some pay money to online "women" who may be men who hold their keys for months and then give them back. Just thought one or more of you might smile at that thought when your own device is giving you problems. Our device hurts. I finally found one that only wakes me up 3 times per night, which is really really comfortable and sweet, comparatively But i cried reading just 2 or three of your introductions, honest to god. Stephanie the Sissy.

Saintprudence

StephanieS Laura can answer better, but my understanding is that this forum welcomes all adherents of the chastity lifestyle so long as they take it seriously, speak truthfully and do not use the forum as a fantasy space. They have welcomed me, and although I’m a trans woman and not a sissy, we are probably at least close cousins in the world of the (semi) willingly locked.

As a lapsed Catholic who still treats chastity with a religious reverence, my compliments on the St. Thomas Aquinas reference 🙂.

Laura

StephanieS I joined without realizing that this is all-female

It's not female only, but the posts must be relevant to the forum's key topic

Angelina

StephanieS

welcome to the forum 🙂 and no this is not only a women's forum, everyone is welcome here 🙂 but I am the wrong person for your concern

JLai

welcome to the forum 🙂

Laura

are you sure ? i don't want to judge anyone too quickly

Vanessa

StephanieS

Welcome!

Don't worry,it is not an all-female board,there is several men here,too.

Laura

Thanks for the info,I will ignore him,so.

Laura

😉

Tobbe

He should know we would quickly know it is another account of the same person,after already 6 accounts.

Tobbe

🤣

JLai

I'm Jason. I'm a step father to a 13 year old daughter who plays with her self regularly.

Laura

JLai Hi again @leannec , @WayneD , @leahjstaples1234 , @vantran2684 , @amandalu862 and @freyjaceleste862

James

Hey Laura ! How are you?

Laura

James 7 users for the same person is a new record 😂

Tobbe

Laura They never learn!!! 🤣

James

Laura LOLZ.

Laura

Angelina are you sure ? i don't want to judge anyone too quickly

Unless 7 people from Singapor share the same computer 😂

Tobbe

Laura Unless 7 people from Singapor share the same computer

. . . and all 7 are interested in unwed chastity!!! 😂

Angelina

Laura Unless 7 people from Singapor share the same computer 😂

i think this might even be possible in asia 😂

Tobbe . . . and all 7 are interested in unwed chastity!!! 😂

🤣

Raziel

Laura
The only way is a big family in a single household, or the internet cafe with public computers. Nothing suspicious if you're on a chat forum. 😉

alberto

hello there, i am alberto from argentina. i have been reading on the forum for quite some time, it has a lot of info. My daughter is now 18 years old, she started going out with her friends last year, one night she came drunk. she was grounded then corona crisis started. i am worried of her making a bad decision that affect her life. i want to order a chastity belt for her and give it a try, we talked a bit of them i let her see some pictures, very hard talk for a dad but she agreed to give it a try. she would wear it only when not at home or school. i am between fancysteel and my-steel waist model, i readed here that my-steel secondary shield cannot be removed, maybe it easier to use the toileit without the secondary shield?. also not sure if cable back or open hole. thanks in advance and sorry for my bad english.

James

alberto You've pretty good English. What is her English like? She can come to talk here.

Do you plan to just use a belt? Or have other rules in mind?

Laura

alberto want to order a chastity belt for her and give it a try, we talked a bit of them i let her see some pictures, very hard talk for a dad but she agreed to give it a try. she would wear it only when not at home or school.

Welcome to the forum.
If she agrees to try, it's not necessary to ask to wear a belt all the time, just let her get used to it and have an additional item in her wardrobe. It will make everybody happy.

Angelina

alberto

welcome to the forum, we haven't had argentina yet either 😃

well, it seems that your daughter could at least accept the belt, i can recommend mysteel. very safe, but also very comfortable. i only know the backside with anus hole, so i can't give you any other experiences. the question is if you also want to avoid mastubation, then of course with secondary shield. in my opinion, going to the toilet is difficult, but with some training is it possible

Tobbe

that's right, even though i hate what the secondary shield does, i imagine wearing it without, very uncomfortable 🙁

Vanessa

alberto

Welcome!

I suggest cable back.I've one,and,generally,it is considered as the "less worst" sort.No chains,these are clearly the worst one!

With or without a chastity belt,she should understand she must not be drunk again...Very important.

James

It prevents oral sex too.

Raziel when she'll be allowed to take off for good.

Right,how long would she have to wear it?During some years,until after her studies,until she get married?It should be decided before,too.

Ines

I agree.

Angelina i can recommend mysteel.

Not if he wants an abstinence belt(prevent penetrative sex,but allows masturbation).

alberto i will not force her only if she consent to use it.

Good.

alberto If she agrees to use it, i will give her benefits thats what motivate her to try. like more financial support, more freedom to go out, next year getting her driving license.

Some people here does it,too.

alberto i think my-steel cant be removed

Right.

James Write them down in a contract she agrees to.

@Angelina would like it ! 🤣

Angelina my favourite word was written again 😃

😉

alberto

Thanks James, just the belt. she is studing english later when i decide and order the belt and the belt arrives, if she accepts wearing it i may show the forum but not yet

James

alberto The only point of a secondary shield is to stop a girl playing with herself, if you will. If all you care about is sex with a boy, then don't need the secondary shield.

Why not have her wear it at school?

Ines

alberto

Hello. Hola.
I hope she agrees. Usage of forcing belt, specially in minors are not welcomed here.
I give you my opinion in the appropriate topic.

Tobbe

James The only point of a secondary shield is to stop a girl playing with herself,

This is wrong! The second shield also protect her labia, if she wear tight-fitting garments such as jeans or leggings. Also a great protection if she sits on hard surfaces.

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