Introductions

Angelina

Tobbe I know, but I think many had appreciated this form of short "freedom".

I have never doubted that 🙂

it can be a waste of money but it doesn't have to be. even if your daughter doesn't get along with the belt in the beginning, it is always possible to use it at a later time. furthermore a chastity belt costs less than an unplanned baby 🙂

James Write them down in a contract she agrees to.

my favourite word was written again 😃

Sara2001 You can remove the secondary shield

but not at mysteel or do you have other information?

Tobbe

Angelina but not at mysteel or do you have other information?

I see the shield lock on My-Steel belt only as a way to adjust the crotch area!
If you open this lock, it will be no protection over her sex.

Vanessa

alberto

Welcome!

I suggest cable back.I've one,and,generally,it is considered as the "less worst" sort.No chains,these are clearly the worst one!

With or without a chastity belt,she should understand she must not be drunk again...Very important.

James

It prevents oral sex too.

Raziel when she'll be allowed to take off for good.

Right,how long would she have to wear it?During some years,until after her studies,until she get married?It should be decided before,too.

Ines

I agree.

Angelina i can recommend mysteel.

Not if he wants an abstinence belt(prevent penetrative sex,but allows masturbation).

alberto i will not force her only if she consent to use it.

Good.

alberto If she agrees to use it, i will give her benefits thats what motivate her to try. like more financial support, more freedom to go out, next year getting her driving license.

Some people here does it,too.

alberto i think my-steel cant be removed

Right.

James Write them down in a contract she agrees to.

@Angelina would like it ! 🤣

Angelina my favourite word was written again 😃

😉

Sara2001

Angelina but not at mysteel or do you have other information?

I know they have different styles of front shields, I expect some have a removable secondary shield. But I checked the website again, it looks like the front shields only differ in shape and urin handling.

alberto Vanessa i think its cable back it is a good choice more confortable but on the other hand maybe harder to keep clean after toilet visit thats why im not sure yet.

I don't think the cable one is harder to clean, I think it's easier.

Angelina

Tobbe

hmm, then mysteel will probably not be an option for @alberto

Tobbe

Angelina @alberto say "when she is at home the belt will be removed always. i like my-steel desing but as tobbe said it would be great if she can remove the secondary shield to visit the toilet but also have it on to avoid smashing. "
Then it can be a way to let her open the second shield with a separate key and lock. Her sex will be free, but the waistband still locked and she must lock the crotch part if she not will have it hanging between her legs.
The problem is that the removable locking plug for this lock can disappear, or she put it in another hole on the crotch part, and the belt does not protect enough.

alberto

Thanks Sara, Angelina and tobbe for your reply. i think i will be ordering the belt from neosteel becouse of the removable secondary shield. i think the same as you angelina its worth to give it a try even if she get used to it slowly, it would be worst case that she doesnt wear it at all, we will try it. also she become intriged of the belt

Vanessa Thanks vanessa for your input. I am not sure if cable version or hole yet, cable its more confortable? going to the toilet is also possible right? Yes i think she will stay away from alcohol for a lot of time also she realized she can have fun without it and that it is dangerous too. When she finish studing at the university she will not have to wear it anymore.

Angelina

Vanessa Right,how long would she have to wear it?During some years,until after her studies,until she get married?It should be decided before,too.

definitely, I think this is the most important point

alberto it would be worst case that she doesnt wear it at all,

the worst case would be if she gets pregnant unintentionally when drunk. this alone makes the belt the better alternative 🙂

alberto She wants to wear it only till second year at the university,

why exactly up to this point? very unusual

Sara2001 But I checked the website again, it looks like the front shields only differ in shape and urin handling.

exactly, there are differences in design, but as far as I know, they are not removable

Vanessa

alberto I am not sure if cable version or hole yet, cable its more confortable? going to the toilet is also possible right?

I think it is more comfortable,yes.And it is possible to go to the toilet,sure,even if she would need time to manage it well,and use wet wipes.

alberto Yes i think she will stay away from alcohol for a lot of time also she realized she can have fun without it and that it is dangerous too.

Good.

alberto When she finish studing at the university she will not have to wear it anymore.

It could be a long time...Does she agree to the duration,too?

alberto

Vanessa i think its cable back it is a good choice more confortable but on the other hand maybe harder to keep clean after toilet visit thats why im not sure yet.

She wants to wear it only till second year at the university, so we agreed when that time comes if she is doing well with her studies she can stop wearing it

Tobbe

alberto i think its cable back it is a good choice more confortable but on the other hand maybe harder to keep clean after toilet visit thats why im not sure yet.

I think it is the best choice. The cable take some more time to be used to wear, but not so hard to clean with a hand shower or wet wipes.

Vanessa

alberto i think its cable back it is a good choice more confortable but on the other hand maybe harder to keep clean after toilet visit thats why im not sure yet.

With wet wipes,it's ok.

alberto She wants to wear it only till second year at the university, so we agreed when that time comes if she is doing well with her studies she can stop wearing it

And if she's not a very good student?

If the purpose is to prevent sex,it is not much related to her studies.

Abby82

Even with an unlockable shield,if it is on,you would not have more possibilities to masturbate.

alberto Abby i think you should talk with your parents about it, if the agree maybe you can have the belt off for a short period of time for that

I doubt they would accept...

Angelina there are definitely situations where a belt can be an advantage

Only if the wearer is willingly wearing it.

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Welcome!

alberto

Sara2001 Tobbe Thank you for input, We will think about getting the cable rear.

Abby82 Abby i think you should talk with your parents about it, if the agree maybe you can have the belt off for a short period of time for that

Angelina You are right angelina we should talk more about that, i am not sure why that point but i believe she wants more independence around the age she will be at that point

Laura

Angelina the worst case would be if she gets pregnant unintentionally when drunk

I remember @Renita mentioned something like this

Angelina

alberto but i believe she wants more independence around the age she will be at that point

i do not know the system in argentina, how old will she be then?

Laura I remember @Renita mentioned something like this

i don't know anymore and actually i don't want to make arguments for the belt, but there are definitely situations where a belt can be an advantage

James

alberto Angelina You are right angelina we should talk more about that, i am not sure why that point but i believe she wants more independence around the age she will be at that point

I'm sure she does, but I'd probably insist on at least having her degree done first. You want her to quit university on account of a baby in Year 3?

alberto

Angelina She will be 21/22 years old

[deleted] Hello noah and welcome to the forum, hope you can reach your goal

Angelina

James

maybe with the belt she will become more responsible and will not make the same mistakes she would make now

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welcome to the forum 🙂

who should get the keys to the cage?

Angelina

[deleted] Ultimately I feel like I'll be cheating myself by keeping them.

yes that's right, of course i understand that you don't have anybody yet, of course it should only be someone you trust absolutely. but i don't know if the cage makes sense in your situation (without a suitable key holder)

Angelina

[deleted] I have found a few active chastity communities online that seem promising,

I have heard about it here too, those who use it seem satisfied with it, I do not think so

Max9

Angelina
keuschling.de
chastitymansion.com
kgforum.org
kgforum.de (different one)
reddit.con / r/ chastity
Yes, there are many other forums about chastity and most people enjoy it, the ones I know about are rather fetishlike ones.
Ok, once I was a post from a girl who is locked, but that might also been a fetishist.

Angelina

Max9

ok, i know kgforum.de, there are some good stories there, but it is not a serious site. for entertainment it is quite good

reddit is generally a very dubious site for me, just like misterpoll. so i am glad that we now have our own forum

the others I do not know

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