Hi,
I am Michael from Germany. Chastity has been a kink for me for many years and some ex-gfs have held the keys. However, it has always been kind of a game. I was locked for some weeks but then the belt wasn't put back on most of the times. I pretty much had some sort of control each time because I could decive how long the belt would be locked for example.
Things have changed during the last few years. My gf has agreed to keep the keys but only if she has full control. I have been locked up for longer periods of time but most of the time I have not worn the belt (like wearing it 2-3 months, then not wearing it for 3-4 months).
Recently she said that she doesn't like me to masturbate. I have to agree that I usually do it too often and that it makes me lose my focus on her. I have noticed that while I am wearing my belt that after a few weeks I become way more relaxed. When I am not belted I feel how much I miss that, just because it feels good somehow after some time and because I see the many positive facts for our relationship.
That's why I am now willing to ask her to belt me almost 24/7 tomorrow or when the time is right for a good talk.
Wish me good luck 🙂. I hope to find some help here how to live a life where the belt becomes a normal part of life.
