Introductions

Michael

[deleted] I hope your gf accepts your proposal.

As I said I am taking a slower approach. At least she keeps me locked at the moment but we have not talked about the longterm prospects. However, yesterday she admitted that she likes to have control over my sexuality and when I am unlocked for cleaning she often demands to lock me up again rather quickly.
Some days ago she said that she does not want me to masturbate (that much) and we had a lengthy talk about our relationship (how to work on it and maintaining that it stays as good as it is). They idea of chastity was not part of that discussion.
Therefore my idea is to incorporate that into the concept of a long lasting good relationship and then ask for the transition to continously wearing the belt except for whenever she wants to have sex with me or for cleaning.

What do you think about this plan?
Are there any rules you think that are mandatory to be discussed in addition?

Vanessa

[deleted] Vanessa Yes, they are sometimes called ball trap devices as the balls being "trapped" between the cage and the base ring is what keeps it from being removed.

Thank you;it seems to be a chastity cage,yes.

Chris1

Welcome!

Why not trying it now?

Chris1 Both, right now I'm single but I'm interested about being chaste but also interested in having a girlfriend in chastity (only with consent)

To be both in chastity is probably pretty uncommon...

Max9

Cage is more discreet too.

Michael

I think it is wise to discuss it step by step,but you should start to discuss about chastity soon.If she wants you to masturbate less,it is a good start.

Timmuh

Welcome!

locked_chub

Welcome!

No keyholder anymore,so?

Timmuh

You should try to think about what you want to wear(cage or belt),who would be you keyholder,if you want some breaks,and such...

Timmuh

Hey im Tim 19m from the us. I just recently got a chastity cage to try and mainly help prevent masturbation which is something that i've often gotten in trouble for at home but have never been able to fully give up. So far i've just worn it a bit here and there but hoping to get a long term plan figured out once I learn more about it.

Max9

Timmuh Hey Tim. Now first of all: Is the cage comfortable?

Angelina

Timmuh

welcome and good luck for the attempt 🙂

locked_chub

welcome to the forum, you are welcome to write openly here, even if we both have nothing in common 🙂

Timmuh

Angelina thank you, I’m hoping it’ll go okay. Mostly just trying to figure out how to go about it all atm. I think it would make things at home go a smoother though since it’s been a point of contention for a while

Max9

Angelina have nothing in common

Oh you do ... both of you are in love with people of the same sex (if I rember right you are lesbian, isn't it?)

Angelina

Max9

but i am not chubby, not submissive and also not single. furthermore i am bisexual, but my girlfriend is lesbian 🙂

locked_chub

Vanessa No keyholder anymore,so?

So trying to find someone, of course. Though having high standards and specific tastes doesn't help at all.

Timmuh

Vanessa I believe i'll go with the cage, as it seems reasonably easy to hide. I will probably just talk to my parents about that since they've already been trying to find ways to stop me doing it for a while now. As far as breaks, from what Im seeing it may be important to still get an erection sometimes? So i may try to work that in

Chris1

Vanessa Hi. Thank you. Well, I actually meant not being chaste at the same time rather I'm interested in being chaste as well as having a girlfriend chaste. Not necessarily at the same time.

locked_chub

Timmuh it may be important to still get an erection sometimes

If you are going for it, better stay locked. Because once out, you will probably go back to masturbating.
While ruined or prostate orgasm only frustrates for a relatively short time, losing your chastity to a full orgasm will take days or even weeks to recover once you are locked back up.

Long-term chastity doesn't cause your penis to shrink that much (if at all) like those people who got aroused by sissy stuff and small cocks claim. Also I'm not sure if I could keep mine hard for the same time as decade ago, but being locked for years doesn't cause impotence either. So there will be no health problems if you won't be occasionally unlocked.

Vanessa

Timmuh

Be careful,as,if they want you to stop masturbating,they may likely not allow any breaks...

Erections are importants,but you can get erect but not orgasm,then have to put the cage on again.

Chris1

Ok,it is easier.But you may get a girlfriend who like you to wear a chastity device but never like to wear one(or like to wear one,but would never like you wear one).

Angelina

It can lead to some fun games,yes.😉

Timmuh

locked_chub yes I probably would lol but I'd arrange for that to be specific times if I did. But I see, so you dont think theres any reason not to just leave it locked all the time?

Angelina

Chris1

but it would be more interesting if you were both chaste at the same time, then you could make a competition of who can last longer 😉

Chris1

Angelina that sounds interesting

Angelina

Chris1 that sounds interesting

but only if you plan it right, nobody should get hurt 🙂

locked_chub

Timmuh But I see, so you dont think theres any reason not to just leave it locked all the time?

If you will be comfortable with your device than you can go for wearing it all the time.
It will be harder to handle frustration if you will allow yourself some free days of some form. You still will end up jerking off but less frequently.
Would go for being locked up until I'd get rid of masturbation as a habit or find someone to have some fun with.

In my case, partner I've found had fun in keeping me locked up, but that's another story lol.

Timmuh

Vanessa

Vanessa yes well they’ve been trying to make me quit masturbating for a while now, so likely if I did ask for breaks they would probably only allow let me have them at times when I could be supervised. I was curious if needed to have erections sometimes or not, it does seem it would also just be nice to be out sometimes even if still couldn’t have an orgasm

Angelina

Timmuh I was curious if needed to have erections sometimes or not,

yes you need

Jeff

welcome to the forum 🙂

yes this forum is much more serious than most other fetish forums

Saintprudence

Timmuh a word of warning: it is much easier to request to be locked into a belt than it is to ask to be freed once it is fastened on you.

Vanessa

Timmuh

Erections are needed to avoid health problems and to be sure to not damage the penis.But you can be allowed to be erect,while not allowed to get an orgasm.And it would be very frustrating for you...

Jeff

Welcome!

Jeff there is one scene where she cuts her belt

If I remember correctly,there is several belted women in this scene.And when you watch it while wearing a chastity belt yourself,it is a very different feeling...

Laura Unfortunately there is no movies with girls wearing modern chastity belts

I agree,it seems the ones used in Mad Max are not ones which could be worn long-term.

Jeff comic-con

I wonder if someone went to a comic-con with a Mad Max themed costume,with a chastity belt on! 😉

It remembers me an old topic in which we talked about wearing a chastity belt to go to some concerts(metal,especially,if I remember well),as it could be in the theme.

Tobbe

I often wondered how many people in the same university than me are wearing chastity devices under their clothes...

Ines I can not assure it, but I believe there are more girls that wear them that we can suspect.

I think so,too.

Angelina very few people talk about the belt because it is simply uncomfortable for many, very few seriously talk about sexual activities

Right.Even if it would be sexual inactivities,in this case!😉

Timmuh

If you get erections often enough,it could reduce the risks.

Jeff

Hi
Im Jeff /19/ Male and I have no intention of wearing or make people wear chastity devices
i was a silent reader of this forum for a while and i wanted to know the real experience people have with their chastity devices and gotta say, I think this is ‘the’ forum for my wondering. I visited many forums about this, but everything was fetish related. So Laura, you have done a wonderful job by creating this forum.

Kris

Jeff
Hey Jeff and welcome 😊

Laura

Jeff i was a silent reader of this forum for a while and i wanted to know the real experience people have with their chastity devices

Why are you attracted to it?

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