Introductions

Maija

Angelina that sounds interesting good luck finding a boyfriend. do you both wear the belt 24/7 ? and do you know what brand the belt is ?

Haha thanks 😃

Yes, 24/7 for both of us. Parents don't really see the point otherwise. I think it's a neosteel one with a conventional back and attachment points for thigh bands (hope I won't get to use those)

Angelina

Maija

i also had a neosteel at the beginning, but then i changed to mysteel. you write about the attachment points for thigh bands, do your parents have any ?

Ines Some time ago, there was a troll here that told she usually run 10 kilometers with the belt at speed very high for a woman.

i'm still not sure if she was a troll, but the performance in the 10km run was impressive, many don't make it that fast without a belt 🤣

Vanessa

Maija Sometimes it's not easy, but on the other hand, the feeling of being loved more than compensates for it 🙂

So,semi-reluctant?

Angelina Surprisingly many (even volunteers) cannot

I thinks so,too.

Maija 3 years now

No breaks?

Maija I'm currently single

sorry for you,I hope you get a boyfriend(or girlfriend?)soon!🙂

Jen

Welcome!

Semi-reluctant too,right?

Have you discussed about rules(how often wearing it,inside and/or outside,breaks,etc;..),when accepting to try it?If not,I think you should.

Laura It seems you have a good opportunity to get used to the belt

Right,easier to train this way.

Jen

It should be received soon,if they ordered it right after...

Maija attachment points for thigh bands

Not good...

Maija hope I won't get to use those

I hope for you too!

Jen I have a toy and says I've ruined myself.

Not surprising;I would be in big troubles if I owned a sex-toy and my parents discover it!

Jen I've told my parents many times there is no way, but the situation at home is hostile and untrusting. I don't want it to be this way.

But can you say "No!" without any consequences,if you don't want to wear it?

Jen it will be like

Several would say "awful",some would say "great"!😉

Jen It's been months and is still such a big issue.

Were you able to keep it,or had you to dispose of it?If you haven't it anymore(and no other ones),it should be considered as a problem solved.

Joh If you try the belt I propose you have the key at the time and test if it the right one. In worst case you are in and your mother keep you in.

It could be destroyed,anyway.

Jen We talked after and it only got worse I think this time it would have been better to not be honest.

Have you lost your virginity this way,or with a boyfriend before?It could impact her reaction.

Jen hey didn't ask me anything just lots of measuring😳.

But now you know you would get one,you can ask.

Max9

Maija I'm currently single, which sucks 😃.

Oh, many guys search for belted girls... and some of them even can be found here. I'm even single myself.

Jen

Angelina yes I'm a girl and student in senior secondary. There is a normal 2 week break coming up. I'm in Australia we have been really lucky, but when there is a scare the whole city locks down.
My parents -mostly my mum- want me in a belt. Mum discovered I have a toy and says I've ruined myself.

James

Jen I’m surprised your mom would let you go with a belt to a place with other girls like a sleepover...then again I think I misread your intro.

Are you an athletic girl, or the sort which likes and does sports?

Jen

James It seems I was not clear. I must admit I was in a bit of a mood when I joined.
The belt has not arrived yet. I'm coming to terms with it being a real thing and not just a threat. I've told my parents many times there is no way, but the situation at home is hostile and untrusting. I don't want it to be this way.

I promised -when it arrives- to try for comfort. Nothing else, I have not agreed to any control.

I don't want to admit it but reading here has made me a little curious what it will be like. Laura's first reply -that I have a good opportunity to get used to the belt- hit me unlike anything else my parents have said or I've read on this topic. It's like joining here is admitting to myself this is something I'm going to be doing.

James

Jen Why is it so hostile and untrusting, Jen? Also, yes, many girls and women here have gotten used to it and wear it for some time, and a lot longer.

Are you someone who does a lot of sports however?

...and yes, unless you’re able to convince them of an alternative approach.

Joh

Jen I promised -when it arrives- to try for comfort. Nothing else, I have not agreed to any control.

If you try the belt I propose you have the key at the time and test if it the right one. In worst case you are in and your mother keep you in.

Did you search for help? Australia has good information about your rights. They offer help in every state and can be find here

Laura

Jen Laura's first reply -that I have a good opportunity to get used to the belt- hit me unlike anything else my parents have said or I've read on this topic.

Forgive me for being so straightforward, but better to know the truth

Jen everything changed when Mum found I had a sex toy

Just curious what kind of toy it was

Jen

James everything changed when Mum found I had a sex toy. It's been months and is still such a big issue.

I'm not on any sport teams. I really like swimming which would be my main sport activity. I don't think this will be an issue. I'm not going to agree to any sillyness like wearing it while swimming.

James

Jen Sorry to hear there is so much tension. I do think it might be an issue because taking it off is a headache and supervision is a question.

However, it's not really a good start to have hostility and mistrust on this sort of thing. Do you think your mother would be open to a different solution?

PS: You would not be able to wear it while swimming, so that's not really the issue. The issue is the mistrust - if she's gone this far and you are belted, she's going to want to make sure you're only swimming on a trip to the pool. Apart from walking and hiking I don't think the girls here do any other sports - especially not ones with water, which is why I asked.

Ines

James Apart from walking and hiking I don't think the girls here do any other sports - especially not ones with water, which is why I asked.

Sorry?

Sara2001

Maija Thanks 🙂 I'm bad at telling others about myself lol, what do you want to know? Otherwise I'm quite a normal girl, last year of high school (just had my matriculation exams). I like playing guitar and piano; music in general

Hi, I think all of us are interested in the circumstances that brought you into the belt, under what conditions you can get rid of the belt, do you have breaks, for cleaning or even for masturbation? What about your silbings, do they wear a belt, too or will they have to? What about your mother, is it typically in your family?

I am sorry,. these are a lot of questions and please don't feel the need to answer all of them if you don't feel comfortable. I am just very curious 😁

Maija

Sara2001 Hi, I think all of us are interested in the circumstances that brought you into the belt, under what conditions you can get rid of the belt, do you have breaks, for cleaning or even for masturbation? What about your silbings, do they wear a belt, too or will they have to? What about your mother, is it typically in your family?

I understand 🙂. It's just that my parents firmly believe sex only belongs to marriage. Let's just say that they caught me in the act and that's why we are belted. So definitely no breaks for masturbation 😃, although one cleaning break per day (supervised).

Yes, also my mother wears one. I didn't mention this at the beginning because I thought it was unheard of😅 but yes, she also wears a neosteel

Vanessa So,semi-reluctant?

Yes, that describes me quite well 😁. As long as nothing gets worse than it is, I'm relatively happy 🙂.

Vanessa sorry for you,I hope you get a boyfriend(or girlfriend?)soon!

I'm definitely nonhetero (I don't know the correct word in English) 🙂

Angelina i also had a neosteel at the beginning, but then i changed to mysteel. you write about the attachment points for thigh bands, do your parents have any ?

Yes, they do although I haven't had to wear them yet, although my parents have sometimes implied that maybe I have to in the future. We will see. As of now, they are reserved for punishments.
Have some of you worn them?

James

gwen / Ines: It’s not been mentioned or discussed to a great degree. My general point is if the belt is to be coming off for sports, there must be some clear negotiation and complexity as to when and how it comes off or on.

Jen’s mother seems far less interested in dating than just the basic idea of touching, which means her mother is unlikely to be happy with unsupervised opportunities.

Ines

James My general point is if the belt is to be coming off for sports, there must be some clear negotiation and complexity as to when and how it comes off or on.

Well, I play sport at more or less high level, semi-profesional, and obviously, belt must go off.
Some time ago, there was a troll here that told she usually run 10 kilometers with the belt at speed very high for a woman.

Jen

Laura it was just a dildo nothing fancy. The big issue is the penetration. We talked after and it only got worse I think this time it would have been better to not be honest. I find it very difficult to finish without penetration and it isn't as good.

Ines I wish I did but don't want to ask. They didn't ask me anything just lots of measuring😳.

Ines

Jen
Do you know what belt will you use?
I have an Australian belt, and it is very nice... but tight!
😆

Laura

Jen The big issue is the penetration.

Yes, you can damage your hymen if it matters

Jen just lots of measuring

If you tell us what exactly was measured, we will guess what was ordered

Angelina

Jen

May I ask how old you are?

Jen I need to bring it up so we can talk. I'm very awkward about it but I want to know what was ordered. I'll try.

you should talk to your parents about everything. what was ordered? (even if you don't like the answer) do you have to wear it permanently? (even if you don't like the answer) do you have to wear it until the wedding ?

Ines I can not believe you did not talk of all these points with your parents.

yes, that is not good

Jen I've been trying to bring it up today. I

write us an update, then we can help you better 🙂

Maija I'm definitely nonhetero (I don't know the correct word in English) 🙂

bisexual, lesbian ???

Maija As of now, they are reserved for punishments.
Have some of you worn them?

i wear the thighbands permanently, except at school. did i understand correctly that the thighbands are used as punishment ?

Jen

Vanessa Semi-reluctant too,right?

Very reluctant

Vanessa Have you discussed about rules

I need to bring it up so we can talk. I'm very awkward about it but I want to know what was ordered. I'll try.

Vanessa It should be received soon

🥺

Vanessa But can you say "No!" without any consequences

Of course I can say no, I will still get fed and have a place to live, but there are many other things I want.

Vanessa Were you able to keep it

Lol no. The arguments when mum took it are a big part of the problems I have now. I do wish for it back fingers are not the same.

James

Jen Well Jen, as I said, there are different approaches to this that your mom may accept than a belt.

However, in none of these approaches will you get to be touching much, if at all, unless you are going to outright resist what’s being suggested. Your choices are accept you won’t be touching by way of a belt, accept you won’t be by way of other dicipline approaches, or just defy and refuse what you mom wants here. But given the distrust and hardline she’s taking those are your options are far as I see them, because she’s not going to want to give you time alone where you can...

Ines

Jen
Vanessa is fully right. You have to know what is expected, and your parents to know what they can expect.
You should agree if you will wear the belt full time, secondary shield, breaks, releases for other needs, if you will have to use thigh bands.
I can not believe you did not talk of all these points with your parents.

Renita

Jen Hi Everyone. I've been reading here a bit and need to say hi

Welcome.

Jen I do wish for it back fingers are not the same.

You will not be able to use your fingers anymore.

Jen There is only a belt - no extras.

Excepting a built-in secondary shield.

Jen They had hoped it would arrive in time for these school holidays 😱 I'm glad not yet.

It will come shortly.

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