Introductions

Joh

Jen Thanks for your support links. I have been very emotional some times when I write here (Mum gets very emotional too - at least Dad is steady). I don't think things will get too crazy just arguments and grounded.

Yes, this is a big thing of my point of view and understandable when you are emotional. I believe it is very important for adolescents to explore their own sexuality.
What I like a lot about Australia is the help that is provided when you are not able to solve it yourself. First they always recommend you to solve it yourself, but if you can't, there are enough possibilities to get professional help. In your case, they would certainly provide you with someone to discuss the problem with your family and look for a solution. They would also try to bring your mother's view back into the right range of what parents are allowed to do.

Joh

@RafaelGV
Could you introduce yourself here please.

RafaelGV

Yes, of course 😃 My name is Rafael. I maintain a moderate interest in chastity and the idea of being "chaste". The effects this has on society and for personal development (being educated on what the devices are used for in everyone's personal experiences and hearing their takes on it). Outside of this forum, more personally, I do some standard young adult male stuff; I play video games and work. As for more intellectual interests, I am interested in sociology and psychology.

Angelina

RafaelGV It seems this site is getting more activity.

new users almost every day the site is definitely getting more and more popular, which i like but also makes it harder to overview, respect to the admins and mods

RafaelGV

welcome to the forum 🙂

at this point it already starts, i didn't know if he is a new user or an old user who hasn't posted for a long time 😂

Vanessa

Jen It's just really not that good for me without something inside. I mean yes its very nice but very difficult to finish

It is surprising,it is often the opposite.

Jen So no I don't think they would accept it and I'm sure not bringing it up.

Too bad!🙁

Jen Also my hymen is gone but I still consider myself a virgin (never been with a man).

I think too you're still virgin.

Jen just arguments and grounded.

Not very good...

RafaelGV

Depends.Pretty active recently,yes.

RafaelGV

Welcome!

Tobbe

I agree!😉

Kris

I answer in a lot of posts each time I come on the board,and yes,it can be pretty long...

Jen How many people are there who really use a belt daily?

Good question,but,without a precise number,I would say the majority of the active members.

Lana

Welcome!

"Convinced wearer" is a good definition in your case,I think!

Lana catherine98
was their inspiration.

Yes,she had to wear it before going to university and had privileges too,including a car.

Lana they bought a chinese belt and a bra for
me

Not good for a first try,these are very cheap,often.Not comfortable,not very secure...

Lana So they ordered MySteel Belt waist style with anal hole
in the back, a chastity bra and thighbands.

My-Steel is a good brand,even if the anal hole is not the best choice,in my opinion.Sorry for you they still order a chastity bra and thigh bands...

Lana I have to only wear it when I am with them
on weekends.

Why?

Lana 3.Unsupervised breaks for an hour everyday.( I will tell you how this works later)

Good part!

Lana 4.No chastity during periods

Good too.

Lana 1.Their old car
2.I live in my own apartment without roommates
3.All bills paid by them
4.Little pocket money every week

Big privileges,I understand it is interesting ti get these!

Lana It has schedule opening every day from 8AM to 9AM. I will remove the equipment and go to the
bathroom and take a shower and sanitize the equipment and put it on.

I guess you can use a part of this time to "relieve your urges"?If yes,good you have these breaks,it would be helpful to manage it.

Lana If we ever go
out, I need to only wear the belt.

Good point too,going out with thigh bands is not pleasant at all.

Lana I think it will be extended even more.

Until marriage?

Laura

Possible,yes,@catherine98 hasn't posted much here...

Tobbe

Jen ... I told Mum when arguing that I need to keep the toy.

There are lots of things that can be used instead. Just look around and you will find deodorant bottles, hairbrushes, candles and more. 😅

Max9

Angelina new users almost every day the site is definitely getting more and more popular, which i like but also makes it harder to overview, respect to the admins and mods

That's true. But I somehow feel that users don't stay active very long... I remember we had another locked guy here for example who was about our age ... don't rven remember his name anymore ... I feel like there are so many kew members that don't stay long; only the old crew keeps on being active.

Joh

Angelina i didn't know if he is a new user or an old user

Look at the user profile. There is the date when he joined.

Kris

Max9 I feel like there are so many kew members that don't stay long

Maybe they don't have the time to write something 😃 In my case it is the don't existing time to write answers. I read often, but every day, there are too many posts to read 😃

Angelina

Max9

yes that's true, we have also lost many old users and many stay only for a short time because they only want to talk about their own problems (that's not bad), but these users then mostly don't participate in general discussions. but there are about 20 to 30 users who post very regularly, the solid core so to speak 😂

Joh Look at the user profile. There is the date when he joined.

i know that and that's what i did. i was just talking about my feeling when i read his name. something came through my head like "you've read that name before". 😂

Kris

i think there are many of your kind (probably even the majority of users) who read almost everything but only write when it is related to their own situation. and yes time is also for me sometimes a problem 😉

Max9

Angelina who read almost everything but only write when it is related to their own situation.

why? I mean - a community is sonething to take part in. Ok, in real life I can understand this behaviour, there I'm also rather shy, but here in an online community...

Jen

Max9
Angelina
I don't have any experience in most things discussed here so don't have much to say. Is it not the same for most members here?
How many people are there who really use a belt daily?

I read a lot in disbelief and then while trying to come to terms with my own situation. Now that I'm calmer I must admit I keep reading due to curiosity.

Angelina

Max9

maybe due to time constraints (that's why i usually write only short answers), or because someone only wants to refer to the most important discussions

Lana

welcome to the forum, i look forward to knowing more from you 🙂

Lana So Im a
voluntary wearer(although i am a convinced wearer to be precise)

i would say neither, you are not really voluntary nor involuntary. i would say you are an opportunistic wearer (but that word will not catch on here) 😂

Joh

Jen
I am here because I like the idea but I dislike that some of you are forced to wear one. If I can change the view at this topic and prevent a unwilling wearing it would be a good achievement.

Tobbe

Lana Welcome Lana.

Max9

Lana Welcome!

Laura

Lana Somehow they found
this forum and they read that many women were becoming chaste for college fees. catherine98
was their inspiration.

Most likely they have read the misterpoll's topic

Joh

Lana Chastity belt and bra locked 24/7

Welcome to the forum Lana

Why the bra?
Why the thighs bands?

If you should focus on your study I do not see the befits for wearing it. For me it looks like your parents don't trust you.
What you are doing at the college is for your future not for your parents. When you wear the CB it will help you for sure to play around. Bat if you not see why you are studying it will not change much on the results.

Jen

Vanessa Good question,but,without a precise number,I would say the majority of the active members.

And that is why those members are active. All the other members which are not active are not users I think.

Joh

Jen All the other members which are not active are not users I think.

It is not the case. Here are some active members who are not wearing one like me.

Vanessa

Jen

No,we have keyholders,curious/interested in chastity people,a martian troll 👹 ,a man who think he is a white knight who should "save us from our chastity belts"...