Introductions

Joh

toad I know that i'm on a female forum

It is not but many wearer are female.

Lana So last weekend when I visited them, they showed me a catheter they bought which had a metal plug like thing which goes in and a tube attached to it.

How does it look like? Would it possible to upload a picture where we can see it.

Lana So I'm kinda happy that I get free time when I'm at home but not so happy to wear it even after I graduate.

This was not part of your agreement in first place. Now they expand it and let you know after asking. This is not behaviour that parents should exhibit toward their adult children.
If you earn your own money what will you get in exchange for wearing it?
Why would you do it if you are independent from your parents?
If you think it is a good way for yourself go for it. Otherwise it is developing in the way we see with many wearer like @Laura

Angelina

Lana but I need to wear it for work and if I leave my house after getting a job

and how is that supposed to work, are you supposed to put the keys in the safe every time you leave the house, how are your parents going to control that or are you going to live with them again after you graduate from college? I dont understand the system

Joh

Lana This is much easier and safer

OK. That makes sense.
Normally the catheter end is positioned in the bladder. How far does it go in for you so that it sits tight?
What is the risk of causing an ascending infection?

bdsamm

I am Sam. An older gentleman who sincerely wishes that chastity devices would have been available when he was a teenager and later. I believe it would have made for a much more fulfilling sex life later on. I was a chronic masturbator, multiple times per day and developed very bad habits that interfered with trying to have a normal sex life as an adult.

I would be happy to help anyone who was wanting to get into chastity.

Vanessa

Laura Yes. This is just a warning for @Lana that she might lose this privilege

Yes,she must be careful.

Angelina i don't think so, i have a schedule for almost everything, but for orgasms i think it's hard to do 😂

If it is the only possibility for it,I think you could manage it.

Joh

🤣

Lana Then what's the point of chastity

It is just a way to cheat on it,if needed,an advice!😉

Lana Yes, but it's hard for me to do it without a vibrator.

Why not keeping it in your bag,discreetly?

Lana Maybe, if they read this forum

Do you think it is the case?

Angelina it can be 8pm, 10pm or midnight

Was it the time you masturbated,when it was possible?If yes,it can be related.

Lana Since many of you asked me to talk about when will I get released permanently with them, well we had a talk, I think you were right, they did want me to wear until my marriage

Sorry for you,but it is not surprising that they want you to wear it until marriage.

Laura If you follow this advise, you will have to take a shower with the belt on

Not if not caught!😉

Lana Maybe I wear more of an abstinence belt then chastity belt. So it's intended to prevent sex not self pleasure an hour a day

Yes,it is more an abstinence belt.

bdsamm

Welcome!

Angelina

Lana Again, even I don't know how it works, they just said that you can take the equipment off when I'm at home after I get a job. So let's see after 4 years how it's gonna work

after 4 years or in 4 years? how long will your studies last?

bdsamm

welcome to the forum 🙂

Vanessa If it is the only possibility for it,I think you could manage it.

maybe but I'm really not sure

Vanessa Was it the time you masturbated,when it was possible?If yes,it can be related.

Most of the time yes, but sometimes also at completely different times if I wanted to.

Laura

Lana Laura,I noticed that many of my posts are hidden and I can see them only if I press the three dots next to it. Even if I press that, I still cannot edit or delete. Why is that so?

I've combined your posts into one. Like this Lana . You can still edit it there

Lana Why is that so?

Several posts in a row are hard to read

Joh

Lana I'd rather not answer that. It makes me feel uncomfortable

Sure. Answer only questions you fell fine with.
I am curious and want to understand how it works. You never know when it could be handy.

Lana Wearing it for long hours without cleaning breaks, wearing the same catheter multiple times, not using sterile catheters, not cleaning up after its removed. There are many reasons, I'm sure if you look it up, you'll find many reasons

I did and I found many reason for get one. I am not sure if it a save solution for doing it at a regular base.

Vanessa

Lana Chastity is one of many reasons why I wear a belt

I haven't understood you wear it to help you stay virgin until marriage too.So,you can ignore my advice,yes.Sorry!

Angelina Most of the time yes, but sometimes also at completely different times if I wanted to.

Me too,I think more(and fight!)about it when in my bed,as I often did it at this time,but I sometimes did it at other times,if my needs were high!

Angelina

Vanessa Me too,I think more(and fight!)about it when in my bed,as I often did it at this time,but I sometimes did it at other times,if my needs were high!

That's exactly how it is for me and it also depends on whether I have my girlfriend with me. 😉

Bob

i read your thread, i am sorry, but i would not force her, also because of her age. i don't think she is too young for a belt, but she is too young if it is not 100% voluntary.

Rina

welcome 🙂

Bob

Hi,
I’m a dad with a 12 year old daughter. My x wife got pregnant at a young age (my bad) and I’m worried my daughter will do the same. She hit puberty early so I’m looking for more options to keep her from masterbasion and sex with boys. Her focus on a sex and masterbation seems to be affecting her grades and I’d like to learn about options to stop that.

-bob

James

Bob Glad to talk with you but this is not the approach, especially not with a girl her age.

Bob, I am glad you stayed - many men do not. Want to keep her out of trouble? Do the hard work of being an awesome Dad. Respect her thoughts and opinions, ask her what she's passionate about and wants to learn and do, and be generous with your time. Don't spoil her, but teach her that the only man who is good for her respects her enough to care for her and treasure her but not to hurt her and her future.

TLDR: Kid's 12. Be a dad. Ask her what activities she'd like to do, and do it with her.

Ines

Bob
If with 12 years you can not control your daughter, make it better.
12 years is not age to wear a belt.
Frankly I hope you are only a troll, however, I will say you a first and final answer.
Sexualizing a child is big crime. And here criminals are not welcomed.

Bob

James I do all that already James. We are very close. What does TLDR mean. Mom actually walked out pretty much as soon as she was born. I was older then her mother so it made sense for me to raise her. Little rocky in the beginning but we have a great relationship and friendship now. I’m truly surprised I’m getting 2 people saying not to use chastity on a. Chastity forum. What is the proper age. Does it matter that she hit puberty early? I mean she is certainly fully sexually active. First period was like 2 years ago. Corona is keeping her a little farther from her male friends even though we are close she doesn’t talk about boys with me or her sexuality. I’ve had sex talk with her and so has a female friend, but I know she seems to be quite active in the bedroom and it’s only a letter of time before she wants to try the real thing.

James

Bob Mom actually walked out pretty much as soon as she was born.

Sorry to hear that. Proper age if you want to put a point on it would be 18, but some girls here have it less and it gets murky. You're her dad and her mom and that's never easy.

What can you do? You can talk to her about boys, and you can make it real clear to her that a boy who would to do that with her is not someone that she should respect....which I also get is a tricky conversation since you did that, but it's the reality of the situation.

As a parent I suppose you can also say to her that it isn't something you want her doing within house rules - but honestly, the biggest problem here is clear. You have to talk about boys and her sexuality, which she's only discovering. And I do mean talk - discuss - not you telling her what to do or reacting with menace or she'll shut you out.

Rina

Hi, I’m Rina, I’m transgender (MTF) and not in chastity belt yet, but want to be in one as a tool that I can use for tucking to alleviate my bottom dysphoria and devote myself to be chaste until I become together with my cross border partner.

Vanessa

Lana People have misunderstood the word chastity.

We understand it,but not all of us agree with it.

Rina

Welcome!

Angelina it also depends on whether I have my girlfriend with me. 😉

Similar for me!😉

Foxies

mark12423

I think we all want to know, why is she belted, whose idea was it and is she a willing wearer? I suppose we also would like to know how each of you feels about it.

Laura

mark12423 who has been belted since we got married 18 years ago.

Welcome. I wouldn't be surprised if she is another Tollyboy wearer

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