Introductions

Sin

Thankyou Angelina. Happy to chat. No judgement here... I just find the concept of family members being involved in someone's sex life incredibly disturbing / confronting.

Angelina

Sin I just find the concept of family members being involved in someone's sex life incredibly disturbing / confronting.

I can understand that, many people who read here for the first time feel the same as you 🙂

Kaja But CB are not cheap so I cant buy it for years... And I dont want invest money in something that I cant try before purchase. But maybe in future 😁 .

Welcome to the forum 🙂 you are right the belts are very expensive but this makes it clear that a chastity belt is not a toy.

Kaja I cant imagine live without sex. I masturbate every other day for more than 4 years 😅. I cant understand that lots of you resign and accept that you are belted 24/7...

well, we don't have the key, so we have to ride it out.

Mary123 Hello, I am Mary and I just joined. I am 17 and from Georgia (US). I have voluntarily belted myself over the past year from time to time and really want to learn more about this.

Welcome to the forum 🙂

Mary123 HI Laura, thank you! My boyfriend does.

Sounds very romantic, but do your parents know? and how often does he let you out to "have fun"?

Max9

Sin Yes, it really is. I also found it very weird at first... but it's just a different version of chastity... it's not a fetish game, it's in the original sense of chastity: purity. That makes the keyholder the opposite of a sex ot fetish partner.

Laura

Sin It is really freakin' weird (at best), and at worst, abuse of the worst kind. It doesn't matter where you are from or what your cultural background is... physically restraining someone against their will is wrong on so many levels. Interfering with a famiy member? No. Just no.

However, It doesn't mean these things should be hushed up

Sin

Laura no, but they shouldn't be glamourised either.

Jen

Sin no, but they shouldn't be glamourised either.

This!!!
It's so confusing there's stuff which is crazy obviously trolling but it makes other things which I should think crazy seem possible. Like the middle ground here is crazy not normal. Mixed with real life it creates more worry than needed. I guess you @Sin actually have experience so no confusion.

Kaja

Hi everyone, my name i Kaja and I live in Czech Republic. Im 20+ yo girl.

I dont have (and never try) a CB. But Im fascinated with it and It is for me realy exciting. I want ti try it once (only like game!). But CB are not cheap so I cant buy it for years... And I dont want invest money in something that I cant try before purchase. But maybe in future 😁 .

I cant imagine live without sex. I masturbate every other day for more than 4 years 😅. I cant understand that lots of you resign and accept that you are belted 24/7...

Vanessa

Sin

Welcome!

By "playing with chastity",do you mean you use it,but as a fetish or a game?

Kaja

Welcome!

Even if expensive,it's wise to wait instead of buying a cheap one.

My-Steel offers to try at their store,but it's in Germany.

Mostly we accept it because we haven't much choice(even if there is some willingly wearers).

Raziel

Kaja Im more than 20 yo

Last year you said you were 17. How old are you exactly?

Kaja Im 17 yo girl.

Sin

Vanessa By "playing with chastity",do you mean you use it,but as a fetish or a game?

Yes and no. I do it because I enjoy it. Or rather, I enjoy the challenge of it. Am I belted 24/7? God no. I have an active lifestyle and it's just not possible for me.

Sin

Jen Like the middle ground here is crazy not normal.

Then it's not just me! Phew.

Megan

Jen This!!!
It's so confusing there's stuff which is crazy obviously trolling but it makes other things which I should think crazy seem possible. Like the middle ground here is crazy not normal. Mixed with real life it creates more worry than needed. I guess you @Sin actually have experience so no confusion.

Yes and I'm glad to see insane people maybe criminals ignored... They are all over the website and even though there are 1000s of women with something real to add most women will never be louder than trolls or perverts

Mary123

Hello, I am Mary and I just joined. I am 17 and from Georgia (US). I have voluntarily belted myself over the past year from time to time and really want to learn more about this.

Laura

Mary123 Hello, I am Mary and I just joined.

Welcome

Mary123 I have voluntarily belted myself over the past year from time to time

Who holds your keys?

Vanessa

Mary123

Welcome!

Why do you belted yourself?

Mary123

You dated him for how long,before giving him the keys?

Mary123

So,at first,it was meant to prevent you to masturbate?Does your boyfriend allow it?

Liana If i ll not follow his strict program and rules , yes i have to get belted again ..its simple 🙂

Does it happened?

Liana Program and rules are that i am not allowed to masturbate or getting any release by myself..
I only get released by my husband once every 6-8 weeks ..if my behaviour is good..
I am getting maintenance spanking every week and i have to wear a buttplug quite often..

Very hard!

Mary123

Laura Who holds your keys?

HI Laura, thank you! My boyfriend does.

Mary123

Angelina Sounds very romantic, but do your parents know? and how often does he let you out to "have fun"?

Hello Angelina, thank you for welcoming me. Yes, my parents know. My mom is belted also and had suggested it to me as something to consider. He lets me out weekly for fun, apart from cleanings, and I agree it is very romantic.

Laura

Mary123 My mom is belted also and had suggested it to me as something to consider.

Then why your boyfriend, not she?

Angelina

Mary123

once a week sounds like a good rhythm. it's enough not to make you unhappy but still infrequent enough to keep the point of the belt alive.

Mary123 My mom initially held the keys but when I got my boyfriend I asked if he could be the keyholder and she agreed.

Were you allowed to masturbate (i.e. had breaks) when your mother still had the keys ?

Mary123

Laura Then why your boyfriend, not she?

My mom initially held the keys but when I got my boyfriend I asked if he could be the keyholder and she agreed.

Renita

Mary123 but when I got my boyfriend I asked if he could be the keyholder and she agreed

I don't get her point, really.

Mary123

Angelina Were you allowed to masturbate (i.e. had breaks) when your mother still had the keys ?

I was allowed to have once a week breaks but was not supposed to touch myself during these times. (I still did a couple of time admittingly).

Angelina

Mary123 I was allowed to have once a week breaks but was not supposed to touch myself during these times. (I still did a couple of time admittingly).

understandable, i think i would do the same and i think your mother couldn't really expect you to follow the rule 100% 😉

Liana

Sara2001 Hi and welcome. I am sorry but I don't understand. Do you still have the belt and you have to wear it if you don't follow his strict program? What program is this?

If i ll not follow his strict program and rules , yes i have to get belted again ..its simple 🙂

Program and rules are that i am not allowed to masturbate or getting any release by myself..
I only get released by my husband once every 6-8 weeks ..if my behaviour is good..
I am getting maintenance spanking every week and i have to wear a buttplug quite often..

Sara2001

Liana If i ll not follow his strict program and rules , yes i have to get belted again ..its simple

Not to bad, if you agreed to this lifestyle. I will have to wear my chastity equipment for all my marriage.

Liana Program and rules are that i am not allowed to masturbate or getting any release by myself..
I only get released by my husband once every 6-8 weeks ..if my behaviour is good..

This is of course not very often, I expect a similar routine.

Liana I am getting maintenance spanking every week and i have to wear a buttplug quite often..

Me, too. I also have many rules that have nothing to do with my chastity, like things I have to do, things I need permission to do them and so on. Do you have rules in this area?

What does your daughter think about her situation? Is she following his orders to wear the belt consensual? Does she wear it 24/7?

Kaja

Liana Why you wear buttplug? Is it punishment? Is it norm, foreplay, ...? How big is it? For how long? Do dou have anal?

Kaja

Liana Wearing buttplug and/or didlo, vibrator egg, ben wa balls with belt I want to try... 😅 .

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