Introductions

CodiCap

Thanks for the welcome ❤️

Jen damn How'd you afford that!

I knew my parent's paypal... 😅

Jen So want it off or them to butt out?

The second one, I didn't want them to know

Jen Just tell them, no arguing, only telling. Start heading outside with no skirt just a shiny belt of you dare🤗 they'll panic - get the key. Don't worry about getting them in trouble they'll cave before it gets serious.

Omg 😆

Jen Why'd you want it in the first place?

Jonas Can I ask why you wanted a belt?

I saw them on tumblr a long time ago and it stuck lol Actually I even tried to make one... I tried using underwear with a chain and lock, and then I tried using belts with padlocks, but I wanted a real one for a long time

Jen Your city in lockdown or free? Hope your doing OK. (Lockdown and learning(not learning...) from home for me)

I hope you're doing ok too! We had a snap lockdown a couple weeks and did remote again but we're open now.

Jonas How did you lose possession of the precious keys?!

They got really mad when they found out, and we fought a lot before it arrived about all the ways I was "irresponsible"...

But I never really had them. They opened it and said they were going to send it back and I begged them not to... and they proposed this. They made it a huge thing about my grades and me spending the money and going uni. They even made it part of "the talk"...

Jonas How do you feel about the belt at this point?

It's kinda weird. I kinda like the belt... but I don't like that my parents are involved so I kinda don't? I don't know... I wish I got the belt with one lock instead of two though.

Jonas What questions brought you to the forum?

Hygiene questions first, but then seeing people willingly locked by their families

Angelina welcome to the forum, so you actually wear the belt voluntarily but had to give up the key involuntarily?

Thank you, and hi! Um... I ordered it voluntarily, but had to give up the key involuntarily and I guess I am wearing it semi-voluntarily

Jen

CodiCap I knew my parent's paypal... 😅

I can't even.. wow.
Nah it's their belt then. I think you can get out if you want but good luck claiming it's yours.

Maximus

Welcome 🙂

CodiCap Um... I have a MySteel belt, and I'm in it kinda willingly but not exactly?? It was actually my idea to get it but my mom has the keys and that wasn't my idea at all... I didn't really want them to know at all tbh but...yeah

that's the worst part, that's a real tricked in chastity 😅

CodiCap They opened it and said they were going to send it back and I begged them not to...

and here they bluffed and you fell there 😅 I think manufacturer wouldn't accept returns, and if they also valuate what they spent, maybe negotiation was possible, maybe in the future you can try to negotiate knowing they actualy get many advantage

CodiCap but I don't like that my parents are involved so I kinda don't? I don't know... I wish I got the belt with one lock instead of two though.

could you explain more? do you have a belt with two locks? which is not able to unlocking of 2 locks are open? didn't know existed for belts of that company
means then you have to wait until both parents are together and both agree to release?
If it's that, always is more complex managing that.. or even more for convincing both if needed to ask something..

Jonas

Hello there CodiCap. Thanks for replying.

I always want to find people who are as positive about chastity as I am and who wear 100% consensually.

CodiCap I saw them on tumblr a long time ago and it stuck lol Actually I even tried to make one...

This is a good sign! I did this kind of thing myself!

CodiCap They got really mad when they found out, and we fought a lot before it arrived

But I can see this has put a negative spin on things that is confusing the whole issue.

CodiCap It's kinda weird. I kinda like the belt... but I don't like that my parents are involved so I kinda don't?

Can I ask how involved they've become? Are you able to discuss it with them or is the whole subject still a bit raw and stressful? Oh, and is the belt itself comfortable?

CodiCap I ordered it voluntarily, but had to give up the key involuntarily

The lock is part of what makes a chastity belt such an intriguing object. The idea is to make a choice (and stick to it!) ...but this means the keys do have to be somewhere out of reach. Incredibly, against all the odds, you have managed to make this a reality, so I really hope you can find a way to resolve your feelings and be happy!

Angelina

saras I would be trying to bargain - "Daddy if I get new chastity things can I trade for belt?"

😉 good idiea 😉

CodiCap Thank you, and hi! Um... I ordered it voluntarily, but had to give up the key involuntarily and I guess I am wearing it semi-voluntarily

that's exactly what I thought 😉

Chris1 , thus I didn't know what other topic to ask this. Which topic would you suggest for such a question?

You can always create a new topic if something goes beyond an introduction. 😉

Vanessa

hornyaspie2

Welcome!

CodiCap

Welcome!

So,you were a willingly wearer and now a reluctant or semi-reluctant one?

And yes,better to post first in the introduction post!🙂

Angelina it would have to be attached to the ear hole and then cover the whole ear, but how to lock it?

Good question,I wonder it too.

By the way,in an episode of Star Trek Discovery I watched recently,one of the character have two very long earrings which seems to cover almost half of the contour of the hear...But it was in a dark scene,and it was her hologram,so not very clear.

saras

It would be worth it!😉

CodiCap I knew my parent's paypal... 😅

And they noticed you paid a large sum?

What brand have you bought?

CodiCap They made it a huge thing about my grades and me spending the money and going uni. They even made it part of "the talk"...

You must get good grades and start university to wear it?Or to have breaks/take it off?

CodiCap with one lock instead of two though.

Why?

Jen

Technically,if she buy it with their money,it is their belt...

James

Jen I can't even.. wow.
Nah it's their belt then. I think you can get out if you want but good luck claiming it's yours

Yeah, that is.....wow....just wow.

CodiCap

Jen

Yeah that's... kinda what they told me too

Maximus and here they bluffed and you fell there 😅

I wouldn't be a good lawyer 😧

Maximus could you explain more? do you have a belt with two locks?

It's the same key but there's a main lock and another lower on the front to hold the bottom together

Jonas But I can see this has put a negative spin on things that is confusing the whole issue.

Yeah, I don't know how to separate the parts that are okay from the parts that aren't

Jonas Are you able to discuss it with them or is the whole subject still a bit raw and stressful? Oh, and is the belt itself comfortable?

We don't talk about any sexual stuff... like... itself, but it's obvious what it means when they say I need to focus on things? I don't really want to talk to them about that, but when I say I want it off for other stuff like it's hard to sleep they act like they'll throw it away. My mom checks a lot that I'm okay in it though. I hated that but I guess I'm used to it a bit more now. My dad doesn't say much about it.

The belt is kinda comfortable... actually. Sometimes it hurts if I have to walk a lot or if I sit on a hard chair too long, or if I eat a lot. I think I'm still getting used to it.

Jonas I really hope you can find a way to resolve your feelings and be happy!

Thank you, and you're right, I just wish it was kinda different

Vanessa And they noticed you paid a large sum?

I thought they wouldn't, but yeah...

Vanessa You must get good grades and start university to wear it?Or to have breaks/take it off?

I have to get my grades up and start uni to earn the keys back. I get breaks now sometimes already

Vanessa Why?

The second one rattles and cuts my underwear and pushes into my bed and I don't think I needed it.

Rina I like anime and cosplay (Especially Love Live! series), my avatar is (and username is named after) one of my favorite anime characters

I haven't watched Love Live! but I want to! I've been reading chainsaw man and dr stone lately

Rina My dream belt! I wish I can get MySteel belt when I get my first belt. Fancy Steel is another option but I see many people prefer MySteel over Fancy Steel here.

I know how you feel... I wanted it for so so long. And I am really happy it's here even if it's not all mine yet...

Angelina

Vanessa .But it was in a dark scene,and it was her hologram,so not very clear.

and probably not to be turned into reality 😉

Rina

CodiCap I also like to draw and read manga

I like anime and cosplay (Especially Love Live! series), my avatar is (and username is named after) one of my favorite anime characters!

CodiCap I have a MySteel belt

My dream belt! I wish I can get MySteel belt when I get my first belt. Fancy Steel is another option but I see many people prefer MySteel over Fancy Steel here.

Vanessa

Angelina

In fact,I guess it is possible to wear these as earrings,if the ears are pierced on the upper part of the ear.

CodiCap I have to get my grades up and start uni to earn the keys back. I get breaks now sometimes already

Good you can get the keys back pretty "easily", and not in a too long time(like at wedding...)!

Supervised breaks or totally free to do what you want?

Rina I discovered some belts from My-Steel website with two locks. Second lock's location seems to be one that holding secondary shield onto belt, like Neosteel and Access Denied belts.

Yes,but it is needed for the belt itself too,not only the secondary shield.

DKsub

Welcome!

Can you told us a bit more about you?

CodiCap It's this one https://www.my-steel.de/media/image/product/133/md/total-chastity-belt-system-in-chains-style-or-double-activ-for-female₂.jpg but for my hips. The 2nd lock holds the part with the holes and the chains to the front part and you can make it tighter

But I wish I got this one https://www.my-steel.de/media/image/product/137/md/comfort-chastity-belt-system-in-chains-style-or-double-activ-for-women.jpg because it doesn't bulge there and I don't need to make mine tighter

Why buying the chains one?Many users think it is the worse rear...

Megan

I agree,some more fitting seems needed.

Ines Well, in fact you are not truly forced... you did a treat in order to avoid they send back the belt to Germany. I can not defend your parents position, but truly, they have your " acceptance ".

A convinced wearer,maybe!😉

Even if the deal is original:convinced to wear it by keeping it!😉

Taz

Welcome!

CodiCap The chains that push into my butt if I don't sit on a soft surface that are uncomfortable and leave marks

I think it is common with the chains rear,but don't know this one enough to be sure.

Greatcornbow

Welcome!

Ines It would be nice, if further communicate your presence here, you could tell something about you.

I agree.

Angelina i didn't know Tollyboy was a person, i thought it was just the brand name

Me too! 😉

Rina

CodiCap It's the same key but there's a main lock and another lower on the front to hold the bottom together

I'm not sure if My-Steel belts have two locks, to my knowledge only Neosteel and Access Denied chastity belts have two locks. (For something called secondary shield, which is a part that has multiple holes.)

Update: I discovered some belts from My-Steel website with two locks. Second lock's location seems to be one that holding secondary shield onto belt, like Neosteel and Access Denied belts.

CodiCap I have to get my grades up and start uni to earn the keys back. I get breaks now sometimes already

Hope you can one day earn the keys back!

Jonas

CodiCap Yeah, I don't know how to separate the parts that are okay from the parts that aren't

Yep. Understandable.

The belt is kinda comfortable... actually.

Yes, it's great when it gets to that point, or when you actually kinda miss it when you're not wearing.

Thank you, and you're right, I just wish it was kinda different

In an ideal world what else would you have done with the key?

Maximus

CodiCap It's the same key but there's a main lock and another lower on the front to hold the bottom together

well, I understood in other way because for you, having just one lock wouldn't be any advantage (except less bulgy there), as far I know (didn't checked all options) all the my-steel even have or not a second lock, all of then have the shield there...

Megan

CodiCap The belt is kinda comfortable... actually. Sometimes it hurts if I have to walk a lot or if I sit on a hard chair too long, or if I eat a lot. I think I'm still getting used to it.

Okay so the "kinda" comfortable part is kinda worrying. When you sit down your belt should not touch the chair at all. I know some of the members are very slim and someone who is very slim might brush her belt on something time to time but it is important that the belt isn't taking all your weight from the chair to your belt to your skeleton. That is a bad sign

The next thing about not feeling great walking makes me think the belt is sliding on you which will absolutely shred your skin if you even jog a short while...

So you probably need to get things to match your body better.
The shield should also have great ventilation and hopefully at least that is okay. If you curve the belt more it should get even a little better

CodiCap

Rina

Maximus

It's this one https://www.my-steel.de/media/image/product/133/md/total-chastity-belt-system-in-chains-style-or-double-activ-for-female~2.jpg but for my hips. The 2nd lock holds the part with the holes and the chains to the front part and you can make it tighter

But I wish I got this one https://www.my-steel.de/media/image/product/137/md/comfort-chastity-belt-system-in-chains-style-or-double-activ-for-women.jpg because it doesn't bulge there and I don't need to make mine tighter

Rina Hope you can one day earn the keys back!

I know I can! I hope you can one day get one too 😀

Jonas or when you actually kinda miss it when you're not wearing.

I'm still getting used to it... but I can kinda picture that

Jonas In an ideal world what else would you have done with the key?

I just wanted to hide them places and wear it myself, or maybe give them to a friend or if I was dating...

DKsub

Hi
Just looking for some answers about the holy trainer v4 🙂

Rina

CodiCap I just wanted to hide them places and wear it myself, or maybe give them to a friend or if I was dating...

If I get belted in near future, I would give keys to my partner.

Maximus

CodiCap It's this one https://www.my-steel.de/media/image/product/133/md/total-chastity-belt-system-in-chains-style-or-double-activ-for-female₂.jpg but for my hips. The 2nd lock holds the part with the holes and the chains to the front part and you can make it tighter

But I wish I got this one https://www.my-steel.de/media/image/product/137/md/comfort-chastity-belt-system-in-chains-style-or-double-activ-for-women.jpg because it doesn't bulge there and I don't need to make mine tighter

yes, I also said the advantage of just one lock was no bulge there, but about tightness with 2nd lock, is not a matter of itself, it would be an advantage, allow to adjust properly, but seems the problem they are fitting so tight... and I think it's totally reasonable to ask to adjust to a proper tightness for security/comfort compromise..

Jonas

CodiCap I just wanted to hide them places and wear it myself, or maybe give them to a friend or if I was dating...

Right, yeah, I understand. I guess one positive thing is that you're wearing it a whole lot more than you probably would have done, and it does take a lot of wear to get to the point where a belt feels part of you.

Ines

CodiCap
Hello, sorry.
Wellcome to the forum, and please, read the rules.

CodiCap and they proposed this. They made it a huge thing about my grades and me spending the money and going uni. They even made it part of "the talk"...

Well, in fact you are not truly forced... you did a treat in order to avoid they send back the belt to Germany. I can not defend your parents position, but truly, they have your " acceptance ".

However, I have to agree with @Megan, if you wear it since November, you should be more or less used to it, maybe ,and I am only asking, due to inexperience could you take some measures badly?

Sorry for my tardiness, and welcome here.

Ines

Megan When you sit down your belt should not touch the chair at all.

Mmmmm, here I disagree a bit with you, in my case if surface is hard and very flat, my belt touch it and it is not very nice in no much time.
Probably, it could be different with different rears, I, even, do not have same feeling with FS than with NS.

Megan but it is important that the belt isn't taking all your weight from the chair to your belt to your skeleton.

Maybe, even dangerous for tailbone. You are giving a very good advice.

Megan The next thing about not feeling great walking makes me think the belt is sliding on you which will absolutely shred your skin if you even jog a short while...

Maybe she joins so much the legs and she is still being used to it. If is as you say, the belt is sliding, you are totally right, her skin will pay a terrible prize.

CodiCap

Megan

Ines

The belt part doesn't cause any trouble when I sit, sorry I wasn't clear... The chains that push into my butt if I don't sit on a soft surface that are uncomfortable and leave marks

Ines if you wear it since November, you should be more or less used to it

It hasn't been 24/7 from that time though, it started on weekends and sometimes after school but it's almost 24/7 now since the last lockdown a month ago

Taz

Wow your belts are so beautiful!

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