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Avery

Hello, I hope this posts OK. It says reply but I want only to introduce myself. I am Avery, 20 years old, female, college student entering third year, Northeast US. Two years ago I started school in a large city and was sexually assaulted twice in the first six weeks. My mother gave me a belt she had to protect me and I tried it out and liked it and now have my own slim fit, cable, hip style belt. I have learned a lot here just reading, people do have different ideas. For example one lady said that she refrained from masturbation and pre-marital relations because these would detract from the newness of sex when she eventually was taken by her husband after marriage. I never heard it articulated just that way. On the other hand I read of supervised showers or like at the start of the chastity bra thread where a girl describes her father telling her to strip to her waist so he could put a bra on her. I admit my dad sees me half or all naked every so often but to think he would tell me to undress or watch me is beyond my comprehension. I'm not here to judge I just want to describe my feelings. I don't see me contributing a lot here but I felt guilty silently reading others very personal posts.

Sin

Avery Hi Avery, sorry to hear what you went through. No one deserves that.

There are a lot of fanciful stories here, many of them quite sick. People try to point it out every day but it doesn't seem to have much effect.

How often do you wear your belt? Do you hold the keys yourself?

Angelina

Vanessa Prevent any stimulation,as for some of us(but including the ears).

i think for some of us (like you and me) there is nothing our parents don't want to lock up 😂

vyktoryah i dont currently wear a chastity belt and never have though it may happen in soon future

welcome 🙂 why do you think it could happen soon?

vyktoryah i dont have a job or anything like that

You're still in school at 15, aren't you?

Avery

welcome to the forum 🙂

I am very sorry to hear about what happened to you, I hope that by now you have more trust in other men again.

Ines

Avery
Welcome, please read the rules and feel yourself comfortable.
I feel sorry for your past issues about sexual assault. It is terrible, any of us, I think, are psicologically ready for the assault of a man, who is intended for take care of us, not for attack us.
I hope you are not bitter and you can have good relationship with the majority of good men.

Vanessa

vyktoryah

Welcome!

vyktoryah

With the pandemic presently,it is not a bad thing,however...

Avery

Welcome!

Sorry for what happened to you...I hope you feel better soon.

So,willingly wearer,using it for protection?

Angelina i think for some of us (like you and me) there is nothing our parents don't want to lock up 😂

Probably,yes! 😉

Avery When I wear mine the feel of it on me often reminds me of mine.

Some willingly wearers here feel similar.

Avery Also the longest I wear it for might be twelve hours, going out early and having a long day on occasion.

Newer wearing it at home?

Joh Yes, you can do it but to work, I suppose, you need to cover the whole ear.

Which could make hearing hard.

James

Sin There are a lot of fanciful stories here, many of them quite sick. People try to point it out every day but it doesn't seem to have much effect.

As I keep pointing out, people can say what they want but you can’t really actually prove that. There are what, 4.5 billion women and all?

Avery

Sin When I'm at school I wear it pretty much everyday, unless maybe on a weekend day I'm just going to the dining hall. During summer I wear it to work, otherwise not because I'm in a safer country setting.

Avery

Sin Oh yes, I have a key and my Mom has a key. Always worried someone at school might take mine as a joke or, of course, I might lose it.

Laura

Avery Oh yes, I have a key and my Mom has a key. Always worried someone at school might take mine as a joke or, of course, I might lose it.

Have you ever thought that only your Mom had the key? You wouldn't worry anymore

Avery

Angelina Thank you. Very nice of you to say that.

Foxies

@Avery

Let me say how sorry I am to here the sad story of your assaults. I can only hope the perpetrators will eventually suffer and pay for their crimes in return.
You are a part time willing wearer, that wears for a logical reason, carries her own keys and has a safe loving keyholder (mother) who keeps a spare set of emergency keys. I shall look forward to your future post since they are likely to be much saner and well thought out than much of the fantasy nonsense we have read here of late.
Let me add to your welcome 😃

Avery

Foxies Thanks for your kind words. I do sometimes find it kind of ironic that many are belted to discourage them experiencing their sexuality. When I wear mine the feel of it on me often reminds me of mine.

Maximus

wellcome all

@Avery it's a shame you had to go through that , as Angenila said, I hope you can trust in the other majority of men..
And seems you already read one of the most contributing person of the forum 😁 ..
We were discussing about wires/slim fit, does it comes to hurt in the hips just a "thin" wire tightly fited? or as is mainly for protection is not so tight?

Avery

Maximus You are correct, mine is not so tight because I wear it only for protection, no issues about being able to stimulate myself or slip it down. Also the longest I wear it for might be twelve hours, going out early and having a long day on occasion. The cable is lined with rubber and is somewhat flexible so that helps. I suspect though that if one wore it 24/7 and tight enough to satisfy some of the parents I see described on the forum that it might hurt. I like it though because I can wear pretty much whatever I want, within reasonable bounds of course, especially in the summer.

Avery

Ines Thank you for your comments. I got counseling from our school psychologist and also from the rape counselor for the city police and am going forward.

Joh

Vanessa I don't know exactly,but,sometimes,jewellery can be very surprising.I know it is possible to pierce the upper part of the ear,so...

Yes, you can do it but to work, I suppose, you need to cover the whole ear.

CodiCap I knew my parent's paypal..

Welcome to the forum.
This is not a responsible behaviour to spend money from your parent without asking.

CodiCap I kinda like the belt... but I don't like that my parents are involved

First of all it is the belt of your parents. By spending their money you involved them already.

@Taz
Welcome.
It looks like the forum is so interesting that masters of their profession also want to contribute to it. I find really good.

CodiCap Actually I've been wanting to ask for a break and my period should start soon but I don't know how to ask.

Don't ask for a break. Tell her you want the break because of your period. No discussion only telling.

How often you get out of the belt to clean yourself and the belt?
@Avery
Welcome to the forum and I am sad to hear what happened to you. That should nowadays no longer occur, however, that is unfortunately so. I hope you can overcome what you have experienced and look positively into the future.

Avery

Joh Thanks

Avery

Vanessa Thank you for your kind remarks. I do indeed feel better. As one counselor said there should be no connection between assault and making love (except they use the same orifice, of course).

I do wear it only for protection so no need to wear it at home. I can't quite say I enjoy wearing it but I sometimes feel while out and about that it's my little secret so it can be kind of fun.

Maximus

Laura Have you ever thought that only your Mom had the key? You wouldn't worry anymore

a very subtle way of trying to convert the girl to the chaste religion 😅

Avery

Laura I live at school during the school year so I need a key to remove it for sports and when I'm in the dorm.

I feel pretty safe. The school has a psychologist and the police have a counselor so I've had both psychological help and advice on practical strategies to help stay safe. I realize it's important to move past bad experiences.

Angelina

Avery there should be no connection between assault and making love (except they use the same orifice, of course).

i find it admirable that you think like this, many don't have the strength 🙂

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