Introductions

Ines

Christopher17
Hello.
You are victim of abuse.
You should ask for help, since parents that force the use of such devices are out of the normal behavior.
This forum is clearly against minors forced belting.
Read rules of the forum and feel yourself confortable.

Christopher17

Ines thanks for your support, but it's not that simple.

I've known kids at school who reported their parents for abuse and wound up moving to other towns with foster families. I don't want that, I mean I REALLY want to cum but not enough to kill my family and wind up like that.

I read the rules before posting thanks, but it seems there are a lot of people here (girls mostly?) who don't want to be locked up. Please don't remove me as this is the first place I've ever found where I can talk about this.

youdontknowme

Christopher17 I do not expect you to be unwelcome for viewing the abuse you are undergoing as the lesser evil, you should just be aware that most legislations in the civilized world consider such severe interference in a ward's sexual development as sexual abuse, especially if they are not given any option to refuse it. There are a lot of people here who report being locked against their will and put up with it, but all of them are aware of their rights and the fact that there is an out, even if it is a painful one. It is important to remain aware of that for several reasons:

Even if you are not planning to claim your rights at the expense of your family life right now, it is good to know that a way out exists if the abusive treatment gets any worse
You may have an opportunity to use the legal status of your treatment for bargaining in case of any future negotiations
This community wants to be pretty clear that although young people kept under lock and key by their guardians are a major subject of discussions here, the majority of us are not condoning the act of a guardian locking up their ward; the discussions in here should for example not inspire any father to force a chastity belt on his underage daughter.

Ines

Christopher17
I can guess that to have abusive parents it is no easy.
Anyway if your story is true you are a victim and your parents or criminals or next to it.
I will not add anything more about it.

Angelina

Christopher17 some of my friends are getting with girls and I can't even if I could.

of course you can also date girls, you "just" can't have sex. some here in the forum have relationships, so actually no problem if you find the right one 🙂

Christopher17 I read the rules before posting thanks, but it seems there are a lot of people here (girls mostly?) who don't want to be locked up. Please don't remove me as this is the first place I've ever found where I can talk about this.

if you stay polite no one here will delete you, i think it is just to make clear that it is against the law and would be criminal (theoretically) and that we don't like it.

Christopher17

youdontknowme thanks I get it, OK good to know but I have to think a lot about how to bring this up so it doesn't make things worse.

youdontknowme

Christopher17 Yeah, I feel that this is something that is very difficult to make use of unless you are actually planning to follow through on this.

Also, I find it rather shocking that just in the circle of your acquaintances, there have been multiple kids wo came forward about abuse from their parents. Considering not every victim speaks up and there may be more victims out there is... well, to put it mildly, discomforting.

Christopher17

youdontknowme no not just my close friends, there are over 1,000 kids at my school and a few nearby that I know. Some part of New Zealand society are known for abusive parents, not so much sex abuse but beating them.

Vanessa

youdontknowme Though on the other hand, the infrequency of relief does keep me from getting bored with it, so I think I am actually spending a lot more time getting turned on than I would if I did not put on the cage.

Classical,we often think more about sex when wearing a chastity devices.

Angelina

Me too!

Christopher17

Welcome!

Reluctantly wearer?

When would you be free of it?

Angelina of course you can also date girls, you "just" can't have sex. some here in the forum have relationships, so actually no problem if you find the right one 🙂

I agree.

Foxies

Vanessa Classical,we often think more about sex when wearing a chastity devices.

Err ... well in my case I actually think I should list that as an advantage! 🤣

Calubveim

oh im new and interested in chastity. and im 19

I really like to run shared virtual machines everyone can join in, which is hosted at [moderated].

Edited by @Vanessa.

Vanessa

Calubveim

Ad are not welcomed here.

youdontknowme

Calubveim Interested? In which way, for what purpose? Want to wear one? What parts would be locked up (yeah, I am wording this pretty crudely, but the gender identity of the wearer is not necessarily the same as the gender commonly associated with the locked parts).

Angelina

Calubveim

Welcome to the Forum 🙂

Vanessa Ad are not welcomed here.

???

Laura

Angelina ???

Calubveim which is hosted at [moderated]

Vanessa

Foxies

🤣

markules

Taz is Tollyboy,a manufacturer,not a wearer(I guess)!😉

Lana

Good to have some news!

I hope you're fine!

Josephine

Welcome!

Willingly wearer?

Lana But I got a new belt for going out with my friends so that I don't have to wear ugly dresses anymore and not be worried if someone sees my belt.

Good for you!🙂

Alma05

Welcome!

Willingly,convinced or reluctant wearer,so?

Laura

Good question!

youdontknowme

Angelina So far they have written more about the virtual machine hosting site than about chastity.

Angelina

youdontknowme

ah ok i understand

youdontknowme

I also checked out that site, and apparently the name they chose is also just a phonetic corruption of the website's name that they are also using for the public user accounts on those virtual machines.

markules

Taz I am from Austria. Welcome! May I ask you a few questions?

Are you locked in chastity right now?
If yes, which belt are you wearing exactly?
Who is your keyholder?
When did you start with wearing a chastity device?
Do you like chastity?
Last, but not least: What's your age, if I may ask
Thank you!

Angelina

markules May I ask you a few questions?

please not in the introduction thread , otherwise I'll tell @Ines 😉

Lana

welcome back, has something changed in your situation?

Josephine

welcome to the forum 🙂

Lana No,they have no time to check this forum so even though I am posting here,it will be only for a couple of days.

What exactly is your parents' problem? Apart from your first name, you write here completely anonymously.

Josephine

Hi, my name is Josephine. I'm a belted wife from Germany. Almost 38 years old, I am belted since I married my husband when I was 20. Currently, I wear a My-Steel Komfort belt with two chains at the backside, which I am able to wear almost 24/7 and really do so most time of the day/week/year/life. I am only allowed to be released for cleaning, doctor visits or for sex with my husband. I have a lot of experience with chastity bras and thigh bands, also. However, I don't wear them full time, but when I have to do, I wear them also nearly 24/7. This eventually happened once when I was caught by ma husband masturbating or for example the last time in May/June this year when my husband was in a health cure for 6 weeks. I am a regular user of German speaking forums, but Google now directed me to this forum and it seems to be a nice possibility to make some new friends. So here I am!

Ines

Josephine
Welcome. Read the rules and feel comfortable.

Joh

Josephine
Welcome to our forum.
Did he demand you to wear the belt or was it your decision?
What is the reason you wear your belt?

Josephine This eventually happened once when I was caught by ma husband masturbating or for example the last time in May/June this year when my husband was in a health cure for 6 weeks.

I can understand to wear your bras 24/7 but how would it be responsible to wear the thigh bands when your husband is in health cure? What would you do in an emergency?

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