Introductions

Laura

Raziel When you guys say "red," are you talking about communism, as in the red scare?

Probably, reddit 🙂

Angelina

Laura

I have to admit I also thought of communism. 🤣

Ines

🙃

dbdb777

Hello all,

Tentatively making my first post in the hope you’ll all accept me. I’m not really your intended target audience, but I’m hoping that won’t matter. I am male, but wish I had been born otherwise, I struggle to identify as “trans” as that has its own connotations, simply wish that I could have lived my life thus far as a naturally born female.

As part of this longing to be female, I also wish I could have been brought up in chastity and kept chaste.

Having stumbled across this forum, I have read a few threads and you seem like a lovely, accepting, group of people. I know a lot of you are betlted against your will, but also others here that embrace the belt. I’m hoping you’ll accept me into this forum and that I can be part of your community.

Any questions, I’ll try to answer as best I can!

Thanks

Angelina

dbdb777

hi dbdb777

welcome here, yes we accept everyone no matter what gender the person is or (as in your case) feels assigned. 🙂

however I fear that we are not the correct forum because your kind of cb carry already goes very much in the direction of fetish and we do not want that actually.

you may read and write of course nevertheless gladly here 🙂

Renita

dbdb777 As part of this longing to be female, I also wish I could have been brought up in chastity and kept chaste.

Shemale belt?

Athania

dbdb777 Allot of people with your background have the same issue that they struggle to identify as "trans". It is quite difficult for humans to be forced to live the life of the opposite sex. And I wish you strength in your struggle. I also hope you feel at home on this forum.

Vanessa

Angelina

Often very different here,yes

It's related to the topics on reddit,and their users nickamed "reds".

dbdb777

Welcome!

I'm not sure too we're the right community in your case,but feel free to read and post.

lucy

Welcome!

Was it consensual or "forced"?

Renita Shemale belt?

I think My-Steel sells this sort of chastity belts.

dbdb777

I suggest you read a biit other topics,as there is answers to many of your questions !😉

dbdb777 I do own a “she-male” belt, but it’s a cheap Chinese one, not very comfortable or practical, and the lining has deteriorated badly. I want to purchase a better one, but the cost is prohibitive.

My-Steel seems to do it,but their belts are expensive,yes.But they're very good ones(at leats the ones they sell for women).

Ines

Probably you would have more questions..

dbdb777

Ines Hi Ines, nice to meat you. No real direct questions from me at the moment.

I am however intrigued by your scenario, as (from my limited reading) you seem a more willing participant than others. It’s a unique position to be in!

I am also intrigued by (I think) Laura’s (?) situation where she is perhaps older than others here, and has been belted for many years.

Also, for those who wear thigh-bands, is there anyone here who wear them 24/7?

Apologies if I’ve got details wrong about anyone’s situation, I’ve only read a little bit before signing up. I wanted to introduce myself first, rather than just silently lurk in the forum!

I guess I’m just generally interested to hear how you cope day to day, with the mundane every day tasks. How do you feel mentally? How do you cope physically? Those in thigh-bands, how to you cope walking around outside, going to school/college/work/etc? How do you conceal the thigh bands when in public?

Angelina I’m aware this is not a forum for fetishes and fantasies. This is not why I’m here. And I’m sorry you feel the need to bring that up just in case that was my motivation, it seems you may well indeed get a lot of unwanted attention from the fetish scene.

With my situation, I feel desperately sad that I never had the chance to grow up as a girl. I never experienced school, first friendships, coming of age, etc, from a female perspective, and I never will be able to. As I get older, the pain from not experiencing this worsens, and I find myself trying to reach out to connect with people who may be able to help me better understand what I’ve missed out on. I hope that makes sense?
I get sick of all the fetish’s and fantasy stories that are ALL OVER the internet, as I’m seeking “real world” situations that detail the experiences I’ve missed.

I wad intrigued to discover, when stumbling across this forum, that there actual real people, actually in 24/7 chastity, and not just the fake stories.

I admit that me WANTING to be chaste could appear to come from a submissive/fetish view point, but I have come to this from the angle of wanting to be more feminine. It’s not the easiest to explain, but I hope I’ve made enough sense for you to believe that I’m not here just for fetish reasons.

Renita

lucy I am glad that i have found this site.

How did you find it?

lucy

Renita I was trying to find some place where i could talk to people that are in the same situation

dbdb777

Renita my real desire is to have actually been born female, so it would have been a standard female belt I would have liked to experience, rather than “she-male”.

I do own a “she-male” belt, but it’s a cheap Chinese one, not very comfortable or practical, and the lining has deteriorated badly. I want to purchase a better one, but the cost is prohibitive.

dbdb777

Athania thank you 🙂

From what I see publicly, anyone who is out as trans, is very much defined as trans. They get referred to as a trans-woman, or a trans-man, and I feel that level is damaging.

I myself do not wish to “transition”, rather to have been born totally differently and lived/experienced my whole life as female. I can’t say I’ve actually heard anyone else describe it this way...

dbdb777

Sorry that was an unexpectedly long reply I wrote there!

One direct question I do have...is there a way to receive notifications when someone posts a reply to a thread you’re involved in?
Ive only viewed this forum from an iPhone so far, so not sure if there are some options I’m not seeing...

Laura

dbdb777 .is there a way to receive notifications when someone posts a reply to a thread you’re involved in?

"Follow" button on your right.

dbdb777

Laura I’m afraid I can’t see a follow button...

Athania

dbdb777 is one of these the sort of belt your looking for?

https://fancysteel.com/collections/male/products/sissy-mens-chastity-belt
https://fancysteel.com/collections/male/products/mens-sissy-slim-fit-chastity-belt

Laura

dbdb777 Me too on the smartphone. Will check.
However you can use "Automatically follow discussions that I reply to" in your settings and it works.

Laura

Laura Will check.

Before the first message of a topic. So scroll it up to the first and you will find it right under the name.

dbdb777

Laura thanks!

Athania neither of those look particularly appealing.

Would prefer something that looks like a standard female belt. Like this for example:

https://www.my-steel.de/total-chastity-belt-system-with-continuous-crotch-band-and-anus-hole

This is very similar to what I have currently, although I feel the build quality of my current one lets it down.

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