Hi I am 46 and happily married, I lock up as frequently as I can using a cage device and timer as my wife doesn't feel comfortable holding the keys. I started to look into chastity some time after I was married as a way to help me to focus and help with energy due to ADHD.
I have found this group to be very refreshingly free from kink and it is nice to see that there are others who enjoy chastity on principle or for a non-kinky reason. Due to my ADHD I dealt with masturbation for many years but sadly didn't discover chastity devices earlier and so I understand the pain that can cause in a young people. I believe that it is important to not have sex before marriage and that masturbation is not a healthy thing for many people, if it is with the mindset of imagining having sex with someone else. I have great respect for those younger people here who are single and have made the choice to remain chaste this way.
Anyway, hi to the group and you may see me dropping in from time to time.
