Megan Well, we do not have kind of kinky relationship and never had. I see us now as standard well balanced, open minded family.
Idea came from my wife struggling with nightmares from her past and trying to deal with consequences (jealousness), which had negative influence on our relationship. She was pregnant and always nervous where i am and with who🙂. Always controlled me, if im not with other women. I worked hard and had never been at home these days.
She confided with this to her closest friend and she answered her, just for fun🙂, to lock me to the cb and keep me always chained at home🙂 ...two girls chatting🙂
When she told me about this chat, she asked me if i will do this for her. Said yes🙂, just to keep her calm, you know this monologues in bed, when you want to sleep and partner wants to speak🙂. Then after month or two, cant remember exactly, arrived package with cage and she requested to keep my promise to her and try. So i did. And hell started. She thought it will be simple, that she will lock me, keeps the key and its done.
It lasts almost two years to get used to this, several different cages, healing breaks, dealing with hygiene, underwear, habits, mind, libido and self control. At first she insisted only to wear it outside or when we were not together. It was simple in these days. We were alone at the begining and afterwards our son was very small to realize anything, so locking and unlocking wasnt problem. Important was that she was happy and so i was too. Finally she stopped arguing, controlling and suspecting me. Sex become lovemaking and it lasts to these days.
She told me last year that i grew up as a man and became more women🙂 and she would marry me again without hesitation. That im perfect father (we have 3 kids now) and husband and she is very happy. She had very bad childhood, full of beatings, controlling and hard living conditions so im very proud of this statement from her.
She mentioned to me several times, that she want her own cb at least to try, because she realised what i did for her. And she wants somehow to repay. Another girls chat about their married lives and husbands🙂.
I do not insist to do this from her, but i started to look for information for better start then i had, if she will decide to try. This is how i found this forum sometimes ago.
So this is our story in short. If you have other questions just ask...
And how its control wise?
Through the years i got used to it and its part of me. I accepted limits and discomfort, which came with..
Toilet -always sitting (my girls are happy🙂)
Pads - cant go anywhere without, this was worst for me to accept.
Forgeting to took it down on several occasions, afterwards very stressfull - regular health inspections, public dressrooms, airport once, this was really terrible.
Two times we forgot to take the key when we went on summer holiday🙂 and other small things...
I forgot that im wearing it. Most of times i feel very comfortable.
