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I brought it up.
I was struggling with self pleasuring all the time and she didnโt know it till I asked to be locked and told her why.
She was shocked and a bit angry by the frequency of my self pleasuring.
It was a long time before the cage worked and normalization occurred.
I wear it most times except some nights after marital intimacy.
It took some time for us both to adjust. Now itโs just normal.