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ToCuteForU0

Hello!
I am new to this website, it was suggested by a friend of mine.
I am a 20 year old female from the Netherlands. I have been wearing a chastity-belt since my 18th birthday and wearing a chastity-bra for a few months now.
I wanted to post something since I have been feeling alone from time to time about my journey. Hopefully interacting with people who also go through this.
My mom has been belted as long as I can remember, so I was introduced to it from an early age. From my point of view it wasn't too weird because I didn't even know what it was exactly, besides hard underwear. When I grew a little older my parents explained what kind of lifestyle they live and what it was all about.
From this I actually got intrested in it myself. Asking to get belted for a long time. My parents wanted to wait until I was 18 before starting this experiment and they actually gave me a custom made belt for my 18th birthday. Under the conditions of me wearing the belt for at least 1 year. So I would try it for real, and to make the expensive belt worth buying.

Fast forward ~ 2.5 years.
I go to university in a city nearby. Trying to live comfortably with my chastity gear, which isn't easy sometimes.
Of course this is only a short version of my journey.
If there’s anything else you all would like to know I’d be happy to share experiences and tips with other wearers!

Joh

ToCuteForU0
Welcome to our forum and thank you for your introduction.
Why did you start to wear a bra?

Zplazma

ToCuteForU0 Hey y'all, I'm the friend who encouraged her to make this post. I'm not so interesting myself I'm just a Guy from the US who is a fan of belts. I've been here a while without really saying much but Hello!

Kaja

ToCuteForU0 Hi, welcome :-)

Do you wear it 24/7? Do you have breaks? Supervised?

Why you are wearing one? Fetish? Prevention of masturbation? Of sex? Of rape?

...?

Ines

Zplazma ToCuteForU0
Welcome. Read the rules and feel yourself comfortable.

Angelina

ToCuteForU0

welcome to the forum 🙂
do you still live with your parents?

Zplazma

you too are officially welcome to the forum, 🙂

ToCuteForU0 and if time allows it, play a little.

so you're not completely chaste but sometimes masturbate? do your parents know about this?

ToCuteForU0 I also think keyholding should be a males job, which might be controversial to say here, idk.

so your father has your keys. doesn't your mother have one?

ToCuteForU0

Kaja
Yes I wear it 24/7. I have a weekly non supervised break. In this moment I clean and care for my body and if time allows it, play a little.
For me there are more than one reason to wear chastity. For me it's a combination of kink/fetish and a way to focus on college and have a structure in my life. I also think it makes me a better person in general.

Raquel
My mom wears a bra too. I waited with this for some time because it is quite a big step to wear a bra 24/7 (Of course I builded it up). But it is necessary for total pleassure control. I did still play with it during the time I wore the belt, but had no bra. So in accordance with my parents they convinced me to go this next step too.

Renita
Yes I do 😃

Megan

ToCuteForU0 its not weird but some people assign extreme meanings to it sometimes...
welcome

Raquel

ToCuteForU0 I am a 20 year old female from the Netherlands. I have been wearing a chastity-belt since my 18th birthday and wearing a chastity-bra for a few months now.

😃 Hello!!!!
I am also in college.
Why do you wear the bra? Did you misbehave and needed more security or does your mom use it too?

Renita

ToCuteForU0 and they actually gave me a custom made belt for my 18th birthday. Under the conditions of me wearing the belt for at least 1 year.

Do you still wear this custom made belt?

Kaja

ToCuteForU0 So principialy you dont have problem with masturbation and sex? You just want to control your body and sexuality?

youdontknowme

ToCuteForU0 For me there are more than one reason to wear chastity. For me it's a combination of kink/fetish and a way to focus on college and have a structure in my life.

I feel like if kink plays a significant role in your wearing habits, involving your parents is not a good idea.

Laura

ToCuteForU0 I go to university in a city nearby.

Do you live with your parents or in the campus?

ToCuteForU0

Laura
Yes, with my parents. I am pretty lucky I live close to my university.

Kaja
Mastrubation and sex can be a problem if it's not controlled properly. And I really want it to be strictly controlled. Just like my mom. My dad does a prefect job at controlling our sexuality. I also think keyholding should be a males job, which might be controversial to say here, idk.

Kris

ToCuteForU0 Hi and welcome 🙂

Rafael

ToCuteForU0 I also think keyholding should be a males job, which might be controversial to say here, idk.

I opened a new thread.

ToCuteForU0

youdontknowme
Why so?

youdontknowme

ToCuteForU0 Because you are involving family members in your sexual activity, and that seems rather close to incest tome. For many people here (for whom chastity devices are more about being protected from doing stuff they might regret later), it could be argued that chastity is about not having sex, but the more kinks get involved, the harder that position is to justify.

Zplazma

youdontknowme from how I see it personally it doesn't really make sense to call it incest. If you had a kink for high heels it wouldn't make wearing heels in front of your family incest. It's more complex than that. Plus this forum is filled with people locked by family members, some very willingly and some with alot of pressure to do so. I would argue anything short of having sex with a family member cannot be so easily defined as incest.

Zplazma

Angelina thanks for the welcome!

ToCuteForU0

Angelina
Yes I live with my parents

I sometimes mastrubate, my parents know about it. But it has a purpose, controlled reliefs is good for the body, good for the builded up frustration. So after some (controlled) relief it is easier to focus on the important things compared to no relief at all. (In my experiences)

My mom knows where the keys are, which I don't know at all. But it's more or less my dad that control the keys.

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