Introductions

Owl

BD1791 I have consistently read that the wire is easier to use the bathroom than the opening and that the wire is more comfortable. Do you disagree with that?

Ofc I can't refute your perceptions, yet if you say "consistently" I'd carefully say I'm not in full agreement. I'd rather say it's mostly a matter of personal preference, and - unless we have twice or thrice the budget - we often can test only one configuration "hands-on" (you know what I mean).

Then there is multiple dimensions of comfort. From ease of use on the toilet itself, whether it's possible and makes sense for you to hold parts of the belt away, to the topics of cleaning & maintenance comfort of body and belt…

Not to mention other aspects like general sitting comfort, security aspects etc. Which might again depend on intended purposes of the belt …
Arbitrary examples: Do you feel better with rigid steel, e.g. because the aspect of protection against rape/ sexual assault plays a significant role? Do you have plans to continue using the belt after marriage, for same purposes as before and/or for recreational use - maybe even as stimulation in your partnership? How important is discretion? And it can get really much into nerdy details, up to things like the furniture of places where you dwell often... (If s.o. thinks this gets absurd, I mention a hint: Suspicious chain imprints on pillows and sofas... It's all happened.) 🤓

Apropos, during your reading, did you already read this older thread: https://unwedchastity.org/d/72-rear-configuration-of-the-belt/246 ?

I just mention for further reference. Perhaps you know all these, already. Still I'd take it just as hints what to pay attention for, not as vote what is the "right" configuration or so. No official survey or statistics.

And you know … Even if we had statistics about how many people use which configuration and how satisfied they were, it's significance would unfortunately still be limited. As often, there may be huge majorities actual or perceived, but if you belong to the minority with different needs ... 🤷

IIRC, there are people who have experience with multiple belts, ideally of different rear configurations. Maybe these can provide additional aspects.

Mods: If this exceeds the scope of Introductions, I suggest outsourcing into own thread.

BD1791

Owl do I start a different thread or can this conversation just be moved.

You're right about perception. I have zero actual experience and I'm just trying to make the best decision on what other people have said. I only want to buy one belt and don't want to make a mistake but to a certain extent whatever I do will be a leap of faith. I won't know if it was the right decision until after I get the belt and even then even if I'm happy with the belt I'll never know if a different one would be better for me.

I hadn't found that thread. Thank you. I'm going to go read it now.

BD1791

Ines I've looked at FS but I'm worried that it's maybe not that secure (???). The two front tabs lol like they could bend off. Idk. I've also read that it's not as comfortable.

I'm not sure what MS is.

Hmmm... Is the back cable on the neosteel not attached. I hadn't read it can cook off. Is there anyone you works suggest I talk to that has one? That would know?

Ines

BD1791
All your questions are very good, but please use appropiate threads.

Here I comment about my FS, my cousine has one too, I have a NS too.
https://unwedchastity.org/d/407-review/124

Here more general related FS
https://unwedchastity.org/d/596-is-fancy-steel-a-viable-option-for-secure-long-time-wear/191

BD1791

Laura I like to play a lot and it interferes with my relationship with my partner. Also, I was assulted at a work function a few years ago and I think it will help with anxiety when I have to go to them.

I'm not sure how to highlight your comment yet. Do you have a question on the divorce and new relationship? I'm happy to answer but I'm not sure what the ? Means.

I'm worried the chains will be uncomfortable to sit on. I could be wrong. I don't have any experience but that's how they look to me.

Owl

BD1791 I'm not sure how to highlight your comment yet.

Reply as usual, and then when in editing mode mark the text you want to hightlight/quote -> a small popup Box "Quote" should appear, which you should click.

Laura

Ines Also https://unwedchastity.org/d/72-rear-configuration-of-the-belt

BD1791 Do you have a question on the divorce and new relationship?

Just curious if it's related to your(or your partner's) choice to start wearing a chastity belt

BD1791

Owl

Owl Reply as usual, and then when in editing mode mark the text you want to hightlight/quote -> a small popup Box "Quote" should appear, which you should click.

Thank you!

Owl

Ines All your questions are very good, but please use appropiate threads.

Would you say it's already so large that splitting messages to own thread made sense?

@BD1791 Admins/Mods can do that for us, but we can save them some effort by own "thread discipline". :-)

BD1791 I'm going to go read

Note that the wording in reports about belt rear configurations, particularly outside UWC, is sometimes ambiguous. For instance: I've read terms like "stripe", "band", "thong" and in some cases users actually meant the solid rear with anus hole and in other cases they meant single cable rear …

Maybe it's also worth noting that newer, hybrid designs emerged as well. Examples: "two-cables" or semi-rigid rear with a sort of anus hole but then continued via two separate metal stripes. The latter should intentionally deform on pressure (hopefully giving more comfort / debatable).

Yet AFAIK the "classical" options

Solid w/ Anus Hole
Single Cable
2 Chains

are still the most popular options. Whatever popularity means in this case. :-)

BD1791

Owl thank you for all of the information. I'm not sure if I'm supposed to keep responding here or not lol. I don't want to clog up the intro thread.

Ines

BD1791
As moderator: answer in other topics.
This is just for introduction.

BD1791

Laura there was what I consider infedelity at the end of my marriage. Many don't see it that way because we were already separated and in the middle of a divorce when it happened but it's a deep regret of mine. It plays into why I want one but my current partner also really likes the idea.

Renita

BD1791 and in the middle of a divorce when it happened but it's a deep regret of mine

And since you call him partner rather than husband, you should wear a chastity belt, but for different reason than yours.

BD1791

Renita my current partner is not my husband. I would like to know your reasons for the belt that are not mine. I have a different thread started asking about the neosteel belt. Maybe you could tell me over there.

James

BD1791 Renata likely means that as an unbelted gal you should be belted anyway.

Renita

BD1791 my current partner is not my husband. I would like to know your reasons for the belt that are not mine

You should start wearing a belt right after you divorce/separation to avoid "deep regret".
Now he wants to put a chastity belt on you, but not marry you.

BD1791 I have a different thread started asking about the neosteel belt. Maybe you could tell me over there.

I believe this question is still relevant to the introductions thread.

BD1791

James because they think all unwed females should be belted?

Laura

BD1791 https://unwedchastity.org/d/89-single-again-chastity

James

Laura @BD1791

A good sum up, but yes.

BD1791

Renita

Renita Now he wants to put a chastity belt on you, but not marry you.

He has actually brought marriage up several times. If it was up to him we would be married. I'm not ready to be married yet. I think I'm afraid of another divorce. Idk... He's 100% committed and in. He's being patient because he wants to make sure I'm emotionally ready.

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