hello all - I am a 36-year-old male from the united states who has recently gotten more serious about chastity. my wife and i had occasionally played around with the idea of locking on a chastity cage for a day or two here and there over the years, but recently, my masturbation habits have become more of an issue to the point where it was affecting job performance and my relationships.
i have since purchased a newer device that is more suitable for long-term wear and given the key to my wife in an effort to make a change. i dont yet sleep in it, but i am generally locked from the time i wake up through the time i get ready for bed. i'd like to wear it overnight as well because the daily process of locking/unlocking is a pain, but i do worry how badly it would affect my sleep.
anyway, i am glad to have found this community and happy to meet you all.