Introductions

pestulens

Hello.
I debated if I should introduce myself or just keep lurking, since I don’t really have any connection to the topic of this forum in my life. However, I decided I at least wanted to thank you guys for sharing your stories, as they helped me recently.

I stumbled on this forum while suffering through a bout of insomnia and reading your stories helped me get through it. I know that wasn’t why you shared them but thanks.

I am not sure if I will post more, since this forum isn’t really for me but I will probably check in from time to time since I am invested in how things go for all of you.

Ines

pestulens

Hello, and welcome.

Sasha

pestulens Welcome. If you want to ask questions feel free, not to often I get someone's opinion who isn't involved on either side of chastity.

Angelina

pestulens

welcome to the forum 🙂

Simon

welcome to the forum too 🙂

pestulens

Sasha Thanks, never been shy about sharing my opinion 😆

I did have a question I wanted to ask you but I will post that in the related topic.

Simon

Hi everyone,

Over the last few years I have become interested in God, leading me, amongst other things, to disregard casual affairs and to consider my sexuality differently. Recently, an acquaintance brought up chastity in conversation and I spent some time thinking about the distinctions regarding sexuality when not in a relationship. I have since found some insight from reading about your thoughts and experiences and feel that chastity is probably a choice I should make.

Simon.

Simon

Angelina Thanks very much, Angelina. I'm looking forward to getting more engaged in the mindset and approach to chastity.

Jonas

Simon Even with the help of a belt, mindset is really important. You gotta set up a virtuous circle where the belt helps you to succeed, and this translates into encouragement and further wearing.

StrictButCorrectFather

Thanks for the welcome. He has turned 17 this week. and no, I'm notusing force. He was reluctant but agrees

Damien

StrictButCorrectFather StrictButCorrect in a father's self description, wow. No room left for love?

Philip

StrictButCorrectFather He just turned 16 last week. So what is it?

Jonas

StrictButCorrectFather Ok, ok. Assuming you actually wait until he's an adult (18+) and it's all entirely unforced and consensual, why do you think chastity is a good idea?

Max9

StrictButCorrectFather Welcome.
That's about the age when I began with chastity. If I can help both of you in any way, please let me know.

Damien

Philip haha, that guy has two posts and manages to contradict himself already. So much for his correctness.

youdontknowme

Damien Maybe he suffers from rapid aging and goes through a year's worth of growth each week. Totally the most likely explanation.

Sasha

Damien guess he’s correct in everything but his memory. Yeah must be it

Angelina

Damien haha, that guy has two posts and manages to contradict himself already. So much for his correctness.

🤣
so making different specifications in two posts doesn't sound credible and if it is true, the specifications seem a bit vague.

pestulens

youdontknowme Maybe he suffers from rapid aging and goes through a year's worth of growth each week. Totally the most likely explanation.

They have been training in the hyperbolic time chamber.

Damien

Uhm, hello prospective members, we are a friendly and welcoming community, usually, really, we are 😇

pestulens

Angelina Jokes aside, one of those could have just been a typo. That said, either way, his son is a minor so the serious reply can only be 'you probably shouldn't do that'

Angelina

pestulens Jokes aside, one of those could have just been a typo. That said, either way, his son is a minor so the serious reply can only be 'you probably shouldn't do that'

Yes, it can be, but that's not the only thing that makes me suspicious. in the first post he wants to force his son to do it and when he noticed that we don't like it, he writes in the second that he agrees. I find that strange

Tjc

welcome to the forum 🙂

Max9

pestulens Yeah, that's a difficult point. I was happy to start my chastity joutned at 14 / 15 years of age and don't regret it at all.
Others are not happy about being locked.
Still the question about minority and keyholding is a difficult subject. On one hand they're old enough to drink beer but not old enough to decide to wear a belt / cage - where as sexual education and sex / masturbation starts at the age of 14. On the other hand they are still minors...

Tjc

Hi all. This is a long overdue introduction. I have been a longtime reader on the site but only recently posted. I have been a longtime belt wearer since I got an original Tollyboy from Hal Higginbotham who I enjoyed working with on some measuring instructions an some security features. I have also worn an Access Denied and a custom belt. My reason for wearing is to provide a measure of personal accountability and to avoid maturation and frivolous sex when not in a good relationship. I am grateful for all of the viewpoints and opinions that are on this site. Thank you all for sharing and for allowing me to be here.

Jonas

Tjc Waves hello. Glad to hear you want accountability in your life. That's a great reason for chastity imo!

pestulens

Angelina Don't get me wrong, I think you are most likely correct. Still doesn't hurt to answer seriously, even if this case isn't real someone who isn't posting could be thinking along similar lines and benefit from a real answer.

Tjc HI, It will be interesting to hear your perspective.

Bryan

Tjc Welcome to the forums! Do you have a keyholder or does "personal accountability" mean you keep the key yourself? I would be curious to hear a bit more about your the additional "security features" you collaborated to have added to your Tollyboy belt.

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