Introductions

Markus

Sin How did you find yourself on this path?

First I start with some Asana like Sport, then I go deeper into this topic

Sin

Markus First I start with some Asana like Sport, then I go deeper into this topic

Any particular style of Asana? I had a daily ashtanga practice for about 10 years, now I'm time-poor so it's mostly vinyasa or yin if I've got the time. Have you ever been to India?

Carlos

Hi all i thought i should introduce myself.
I have been lurking on this site for a few weeks now and made myself an account about a week ago.
I see there are a few colorful characters on here.
I am a 22 year old male from Midlothian. I have been in chastity for the last 5 years.

Andrew

Carlos

Welcome to the forum 🙂

Why do you wear chastity device? Do you have a keyholder (if so who is it) or do you lock yourself?

Angelina

Carlos

welcome to the forum 🙂
after reading some of your posts, most of the questions have been answered, but I still have one question.
when your parents had the key, were you in the cage/belt 24/7 or was it just to prevent sex? how often does your girlfriend let you out today?

Tjc

Bryan HI Bryan. By personal accountability, we mean being mindfully of and accountable for the things that I do and the choices that I make. To help with this, I have a heyholder.
The security items on the original Tollyboy belt were the addition of a shroud on the padlock shackle, a sealable cover for the keyhole, and a provision for the use of a one-time seal. Some of these features are now standard on modern belts.

Bryan

Tjc Exciting to be at the forefront of such chastity belt advances :-). Is "we" you and your keyholder? Is he/she a romantic partner as well?

Tjc

Bryan "we" is myself and the accountability partners. They are more friends than romantic.

Carlos

Hi Andrew.

My partner is my Keyholder. It has been that way for the last 2 years. Before then i was my parents.

I do not particular like wearing the device but it something my partner insists on.

Sasha

Carlos Welcome to the forums. What made your parents want to get you a device?

Carlos

Sasha Hi Sasha. Well it was a condition of me getting a car.

They knew i would be away from their supervision so they could not police me.

Sasha

Carlos Guess they were afraid of you meeting girls like me.
Did you agree to wear it? Were you given breaks? Did you wear a full belt or cage?
Sorry about so many questions.

Markus

Carlos You wore it to get a car - okay.
What the reason now?

Carlos

Sasha Yea it was something like that. They caught me at age 16 having unprotected sex with a girl.

I would not say that i agreed to wear it but they would not let me have a car if i did not agree to it.

At the start i was given breaks but that changed once i was asking out every evening when i was home.

We started out with a cage and then that moved to a belt once they figured out that i could worm way out of the cage.

Sasha

Carlos Pretty big mistake to make, hope things turned out ok for you and her. which belt did you get, and why not refuse? Not sure I’d have worn one just for that

Carlos

Sasha Well at the time i did not think i was making a mistake. Even today i am pretty sure i did not make a mistake but that is in the past.

When the figured out i could worm out of the cage they got me a belt from Belgium. The thing was so heavy and bulky i hated it as soon as it was put on.

Markus

Sin Any particular style of Asana?

Hatha yoga since more than 15 years. Also doing meditation and mantra singing

Sin Have you ever been to India?

Long time ago.
May should go again and meet some yogi - with CB 😆
You were ever there?

Sin

Markus No, never :-(
The only Hindu place I've spent lots of time in is Bali.

Carlos

Angelina Hi Angelina

It started off to prevent sex. I was allowed breaks but i had to ask to be let out but they would make sure it was back on before i went to sleep. After a few months i was asking to get out every evening so they became concerned on how much i was playing with myself so it changed to 24/7 and only out for cleaning. A few months were like that when i then discovered how to pull my penis out of the cage and defeat it. Once they discovered that i could escape and put myself back in they got me the full belt.

It all depends on my partner. Some times it is once a week some times it is once a month. Then other times i could be out 3 days in a row. It is all her decision.

Jonas

Carlos It all depends on my partner. Some times it is once a week some times it is once a month. Then other times i could be out 3 days in a row. It is all her decision.

Hi Carlos, can I ask how your situation changed from parental supervision to your partner holding your keys? That's a big change. Over the years how were you convinced that chastity was right for you?

Oh, and hello!

Angelina

Carlos

you are not the first person i read this from (but the first man) so another question. Do you think that being under your parents' control has influenced your sex life today? so whether the chastity in your youth led to the fact that you let your girlfriend sexually control you today? (sorry I don't know how to phrase that)

pestulens

Tjc out of curiosity, do you do something similar for them?

Tjc

pestulens that is an interesting question. They have never asked or expressed an interest in wanted such an arrangement. I do other things, like tech support for them.

Tjc

pestulens It would be interesting but probably complicated to be part of a group of people mutually supervising each other.

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