Introductions

Angelina

Amira

in my opinion, it is the most important responsibility of your parents (in relation to the cb)

Amira

no, they don't have any experience with it.

Angelina

Amira

then I hope they have at least informed themselves well about it 😉

Renita

Amira Where did this chastity belt idea come from?

Laura

Amira Why don't your mom try it first?

James I guess my question and thought is that this forum really isn't for such limited use though?

I agree. Here we discuss serious usage only, e.g. no seal instead lock 🙂

Vanessa

Amira

Welcome!

Sorry you had to wear it.At least,you had the choice...I understand you accepted to wear it and live like almost all your friends(except it).

Can you change your mind?

Amira the belt is made from my-steel

Good brand,at least.

Angelina

I agree,it is important to talk about your feelings.Take care of hygiene(very important!)and comfort too.

Angelina

Sure,at least one of the parents should know it,or care to do some searchs about it,if they both don't know much about it.

Angelina

It should be done even before ordering one.

Amira

Renita
It came from my soon to be stepfather who seems to be a pretty good man. I get used to the belt slow, it is pretty tight and not soft and not much flexible. It is less bad than in the first day, but still not nice wearing it.

Vanessa What do you mean with "can I change my mind" do you mean if I can back out if it gets too hard or complicated? I think I can not complete change my mind if I want to stay a really free girl with many choices.

Vanessa

Amira What do you mean with "can I change my mind" do you mean if I can back out if it gets too hard or complicated? I think I can not complete change my mind if I want to stay a really free girl with many choices.

Yes,it was my question.So you can,but it would have consequences on your freedom.Not good,but better to feel you can choose,at least.

newbie

Welcome again!

We'll help you to have more informations about it if we can!🙂 Maybe @Tere could give you some good advices,it seems she's in a,more or less,similar situation than your fiancee would be in.

newbie

Maybe you can buy a cheap one as a Christmas gift.She won't be able to use it for long term,but you woud know how she reacts.

And cuffs is a good idea,it can be very fun to use it!😉 But we need total trust in the partner before accepting to be tied,of course...

newbie But it might without secondary shield. It's no problem for me if she masturbates when I am away.

The feelings would be different with it,if you want to use it as a game,sometimes.

newbie I haven't thought about extra accessories yet, if some is necessary - just suggest i will read about it.

Common ones are thigh bands and chastity bra.But it can be very hard to wear,especially emotionally.Not advisable in your case,I think.

newbie About training - enough will be just wear it when I will be away or just for few hours a week just to emphasize who is boss in bedroom 😃 24/7 is not necessary and impractical in my opinion. But if she ask for it, why not 😉

Even for part time wearing,there should be a training,to help her get accustomed to it.

Laura Why don't your mom try it first?

Good idea.

Renita Tell her, you want her to wear chastity belt.

The most effective way,but maybe a bit too direct!😉

It would help him to know if she accepts it,but she must react badly and not want to even discuss it anymore...

newbie Thnx, I will do it that way.

A bit risked.

Angelina

Sure.

Laura

I agree!😉

newbie If she refuse CB I won't problem with her decision, she also get right for refuse 🙂

Good and logical.

newbie

Hi, you Ask me to introduce on belted wife topic, so i an doing it.
I am 30 yo guy from Poland, I have engaged 2 years ago with girl, who i am with sińce 2011. Most of that time we live together. We havent many partners before.

Idea of female chastity interesting me due to emotional and dominance aspects 🙂 but 24/7 dont interest me, unless my fiancee wants it.

Unfortuately there is a lack of information about female chastity in internet (opposite to małe 🙁 ), so i am regularny read this forum.

I have no idea what else write here 🙂

Ps. On which engine this forum is build?

Laura

newbie Idea of female chastity interesting me due to emotional and dominance aspects

Have you ever discussed with her?

newbie On which engine this forum is build?

Flarum

Laura

newbie I have engaged 2 years ago with girl, who i am with sińce 2011

I have another question. Why you didn't marry her yet for so long time?

newbie

@Laura yes but its was few years ago. Her opinion was neutral and nothing came of it. This year i also mentioned about it (in normal not dirty talk) She Aśk why i havent bought stailess steel cuffs for her yet, and i answered that this sheet is quite expensive and i prefer to add 50e and buy female chastity for adult play. 😃 She only smiłeś and changed topic.
Due to ours work contracts in work we dont live together up to summer. But i will talk with her about it around new year eve.
Of course i will mention that is only adut toy not 24/7 🙂

James

newbie I'd say you should ask her what she's open to and let her choose.

Renita

newbie You was in belted during your marriage

No, I wasn't

newbie Any suggestion how to talk with my fiancé about cb 🙂 ?

Tell her, you want her to wear chastity belt.

Especially because

newbie Due to ours work contracts in work we dont live together up to summer. But i will talk with her about it around new year eve.

Angelina

@Amira

what would happen if you refused to carry on wearing a cb

@newbie

what would chastity look like for you. just the belt or other accessories too ?

Amira

Angelina
This is complicated I think. I will try to explain. First I wouldnt be forced to keep it on I think. But I would get a lot more controlled and have less privileges, like going out alone, hang out with friends, do favorite things. Bad side if I stop to wear the cb and not controlled would be that my soon to be stepfather would lose some business contacts for not being able to control his family. I hope you can understand what I want to say. I won't defy him on that. And this is not just because he can give me lot of opportunities, more because he makes my Mum happy after a long time.

newbie

@Angelina For me enough will be a Normal steel belt locked via seal. I keep eye on Chain Hybrid Fancy Steel Female chastity belt, it's beautiful !! 😃 , but due to costs I will start with cheaper Chinese belt. But it might without secondary shield. It's no problem for me if she masturbates when I am away.
I haven't thought about extra accessories yet, if some is necessary - just suggest i will read about it.

About training - enough will be just wear it when I will be away or just for few hours a week just to emphasize who is boss in bedroom 😃 24/7 is not necessary and impractical in my opinion. But if she ask for it, why not 😉

About mental side of chastity I havent though yet. This idea simply excites me , but I have no problems fidelity and i am not jealous. We trust themselves in many areas, because we housing together many years and our trust many times was checked 😉

@Renita You was in belted during your marriage and you back to it. Any suggestion how to talk with my fiancé about cb 🙂 ?

James

newbie For me enough will be a Normal steel belt locked via seal. I keep eye on Chain Hybrid Fancy Steel Female chastity belt, it's beautiful !! 😃 , but due to costs I will start with cheaper Chinese belt. But it might without secondary shield. It's no problem for me if she masturbates when I am away.
I haven't thought about extra accessories yet, if some is necessary - just suggest i will read about it.

About training - enough will be just wear it when I will be away or just for few hours a week just to emphasize who is boss in bedroom 😃 24/7 is not necessary and impractical in my opinion. But if she ask for it, why not

I guess my question and thought is that this forum really isn't for such limited use though?

Angelina

Amira

ok i understand your reasons, i think it's pretty similar to many other girls here, it's always family reasons and the fear of destroying the good relationship to the family. you also have more freedom with cb than without.

i just find it strange what your soon stepfather has for business contacts

@newbie

I understand what you mean, but I'm not sure if we are the right forum for you

newbie

Angelina Ok I understand, however, On internet there is literally no information about it. So any good advice would be appreciated 🙂

Amira

Angelina
most of his contacts are based on good reputation and on being a honorable business person. And he wouldnt be one in their eyes anymore if I go out of line.

Angelina

Amira
@newbie

There's no forum on how to keep your wife chaste. 😮

seriously, don't get me wrong you are allowed to write at any time, but we are not a fetish forum so I don't know if you get reasonable answers here

@Amira

i understand, my father also has contacts to important entrepreneurs, that are unfortunately quite conservative people 🙁

Amira

Angelina
thank you so much for understanding and for making me feel welcome here.

newbie

Angelina Sure, I won't write about fetishes, I know about what that forum is and I appreciate your conservatism it's necessary to have values nowadays. Especially in party of my country when I live - about 20% of children are raised by non- biological fathers and divorce/marry ratio is now 31%.....

@Amira - I am half- entrepreneur what I can say is necessary to have extremely stable family when you are CEO, in other situation your family problems will strike your ability to be in charge and talk to workers, clients etc....

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