Introductions

Chastity-beginner

Hello, I'm Daniel from germany, I'm 17 and I want to buy a chastity cage for me, and would like to exchange my experiences with others.

Sasha

Chastity-beginner Welcome, why do you want to get a device?

Ines

Chastity-beginner

Hello, read the rules and feel comfortable.
Realize that being 17 you are not allowed to enter on adult threads and you can not post "juicy" posts.

Angelina

Linuz

welcome to the forum 🙂

Nameno99

congratulations. first post and deleted straight away, not many can do that (irony) 😂

Chastity-beginner

welcome to the forum. because of your age i would like to ask you who should get the keys? 🙂

Max9

Tjc Hey and welcome here. May I ask your gender and age cathergory?

Linuz Mancage 1.

Mancage... never heard of it. It's beginning to become difficult to keep an overview over the market by the years

Welcome anyways. Well, we are not a bdsm related community, but if you have some technical questions we're happy to help.

Chastity-beginner
Hey and welcome. I'm always happy to see new members. (Sorry for the lare reply)
If there's anything I can do to help you, please let me know. I'm Max, 22, by the way

Edit:

Linuz Mancage 1.

Ah that thing. Have already seen it a few rare times, as I remember. I'm not sure if you'll be happy with that. It has some pretty sharp edges.

Chastity-beginner

Sasha For me personally, I don't think I should have unrestricted access to self pleasure, because I'm doing it too often.

Chastity-beginner

Angelina Hello, and not sure yet, either my boyfriend or my parents.

Angelina

Chastity-beginner Hello, and not sure yet, either my boyfriend or my parents.

depends a bit on whether you want to prevent sex and masturbation completely, or just restrict it?

youdontknowme

Either way, I recommend practicing day-to-day wear and experiencing the realities of it before giving away the key.

Avery

youdontknowme Either way, I recommend practicing day-to-day wear and experiencing the realities of it before giving away the key.

He's right. And the realities include using the toilet and having your period and general cleanliness, perspiring and whether you can get a good night sleep in it and do you want to be able to wear a swimsuit and can you still hug your friends and not have them know you are wearing it and can you go to school and gym class and use a communal bathroom and will it chaff you and on and on.

Makes a lot more sense to try to cut down on the self-pleasuring first. If you have a good reason to.

Chastity-beginner

youdontknowme You're right, is there already a threat for chastity cages recommandations? Because that's what I need first.

Chastity-beginner

youdontknowme But I also look for ways to control my habits without a cage/belt for the beginning.

pestulens

Avery With a name like Danial,I assume at least some of those issues will be less of a problem but you never know 😉

Avery

pestulens With a name like Danial,I assume at least some of those issues will be less of a problem but you never know

Mea culpa, my heart was in the right place. Still .....

Martin

pestulens
Hi, what is the source of Your nick-name?
In my language it is funy 😉
“Pes” is “Dog”
“Tuleň” is “Sea-Dog”
Was this intention? 😉

youdontknowme

Chastity-beginner Unfortunately, there is no one-size-fits-all solution. Different males prefer different cage designs, and many factors play into that. As a person under 18 you are also probably going to be limited to off-the-shelf devices that can be bought pretty anonymously. You are probably best off getting your size down and then experimenting with something that might work.

You may also be able to find advice by looking into topics tagged as male. This one has a few experience reports:
https://unwedchastity.org/d/626-male-devices-reviews

Otherwise, probably best to ask those questions in an appropriate topic rather than the intro thread. And keep in mind that we do not want to get into detail about sexual habits or penile anatomy of a 17-year-old.

Markus

Chastity-beginner chastity cages recommandations?

For first test you can try this one https://tinyurl.com/muz668cf
It has different rings and is not so expensive

Chastity-beginner

youdontknowme I respect that, and thanks for the answer.

Chastity-beginner

Angelina well, for the beginning just restrict, but in the future, if I get used to everything, I am open for being completely dependent on another person, about my sexual pleasure.

And because I really don't have the best relationship with my parents, I think my partner will be my keyholder, if he wants to be.

Angelina

Chastity-beginner And because I really don't have the best relationship with my parents, I think my partner will be my keyholder, if he wants to be.

well, it's a question of goals, as i said. if the goal is complete chastity, then the partner might not be the best option. but for your goals it seems to work.

Matt

welcome to the forum 🙂

pestulens

Martin That is an interesting coincidence, but no, it's actually an old nickname I picked up when I used to do more online gaming.
It's a deliberate misspelling of pestilence.

Martin

Ok. 😁 Thanks. 👍

Matt

If this is the wrong place I am happy to remove it.

I cannot imagine what you go through, but I feel that I must offer what help I can. I offer tools and assistance in removing chastity devices, and a couch to sleep on while you get back on your feet after escaping whatever situation you're in. I am in South-Eastern Oregon in the United States and can help you get here.

Please email me at math_guy@outlook.com or message me here if you want help. I offer respect, freedom and privacy to anyone on this server, anyone who needs to escape chastity or abusive relationship. Thankfully, I have never been in a chastity belt but I understand what fundamentalist religion and a harsh, controlling parent can do to a person.

While I cannot make any guarantees, I am confident I could safely remove any chastity device. I will not ask for anything in return, except supporting unwilling prisoners in their own attempts to be free.

I cannot sit by and watch bad things happen when I can help. Please reach out, my door is open and I can provide shelter and food, your abusers cannot hurt you forever.

Respectfully,

Matthew

Ines

Matt

No, it is not the wrong place.
It is nice to have on you another tool to help possible unwillingly users, but, currently the forum is clean of such stories.
However your offer, we have to recommend to possible unwillingly users go to authority.

Matt, welcome here, and please read the rules and feel comfortable.

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