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MissBlossom

@Damien is incorrigible. Don't incorrige him! lol

(For non native English speakers, that's a pun on "encourage.")

Garner

I am Garner 49 years old male ( nearly 50 ) and i am single. I own a few chastity cages . Now i have found the cage that fits and is secure and escape proof. I don't have a dedicated quality chastity belt, only a Chinese made one that could have been better. But again you get what you pay for regarding to quality.

I don't have a Keyholder, I have once used a payed Keyholder. Since that experience, self locked chastity feels uninteresting, since a locked key safe can only do one thing, namely keep you away from the key.

Angelina

Ines It is very personal, it was a unfortunate question. I have not achieved to avoid that members have such questions, even with not known new members.

well, you could also ask the other way round how long she has been wearing the belt 24/7, it's the same the other way around 😂

EngineeringEmily “chastity devices including but not limited to a chastity belt”. I would hate to wear a metal bra so I really hope they never find out.

If the contract also says "no orgasm allowed" (and even if its small, your breast orgasm is still an orgasm) then you should hide your activities, otherwise that's a reason for the bra

EngineeringEmily as never being able to get stimulation from touching nipples.

there is also a reason why some girls even want the bra voluntarily, precisely because it is just a stimulation. Doesn't it frustrate you more, or can you go so far as to be more relieved than frustrated?

Garner

welcome to the forum 🙂

EngineeringEmily

Angelina there is also a reason why some girls even want the bra voluntarily, precisely because it is just a stimulation. Doesn't it frustrate you more, or can you go so far as to be more relieved than frustrated?

I can get an actual small climax under the right conditions. It’s never as big or powerful as a real climax. But it is relief.

curious

EngineeringEmily
You might actually just drive yourself to wanting more and more and suffering from not being able to get more.
Maybe a bra to make certain you cannot get anything would actually help. Initially it will of course be harder but in the end you might actually be better off with the bra.

Angelina

EngineeringEmily But it is relief.

so would you rather say it helps you to manage the situation better? then hide it from your parents and hope they will not notice it

EngineeringEmily

curious there are other reason that I don’t care to discuss on the forum that be would be horrible for me

Joh

curious Your comment is nonsen. She wrote already it IS helping her and this is good.
Your proposal make it only wors.

curious

Joh
On the contrary.
If you crave something - no matter if it is an orgasm or a cigarette - and I always give you a tiny bit of what you crave, you will never get over the point where that craving ceases.
Only complete abstinence will eventually reduce the craving.

Joh

curious I Do Not agree with your Statement. If it helps her you can't deny it.
Sexuality is Part of every Person and it different. What may help you may have the opposite effect on others.

Jonas

curious Only complete abstinence will eventually reduce the craving.

Joh Sexuality is Part of rvery Person and it different.

Abstain and gain control. Give in and let go. Hmmm. If we treat the sex drive as a kind of built-in addiction @curious correct. If we view the sex drive as a human need and pleasure then Joh has it right. For me personally it became the former, so control and abstinence was the way forward.

MissBlossom

@curious did you ever write an introduction? I have not been able to find one and your profile is empty.

curious

MissBlossom
I did not in a formal way.
Bits and pieces you can find in various threats.
The profile is intentionally empty.

MissBlossom

curious
I found that you're from Germany, lived in Australia, and are now in Switzerland.

You speak authoritatively on medical issues and have a medical avatar, so I suspect that you are in a medical related profession.

I haven't seen whether you are a man or a woman, a keyholder or a wearer, in your thirties or in your seventies, single or married, etc.

Would you be willing to share some of this general information so we could know something about the person to whom we are speaking?

Avery

curious Bits and pieces you can find in various threats.

Threats are not allowed here.

youdontknowme

MissBlossom have a medical avatar

To be fair, the caduceus has been used as a symbol of commerce in the past, particularly in Europe and Asia. Its use as a symbol of medicine in North America might be an interesting comment on the US healthcare system.

MissBlossom

Avery Threats are not allowed here.

I think @curious meant threads.

Avery

MissBlossom I think @curious meant threads.

I know he always enjoys my humor.

curious

Avery

I do and I appologise. Sometimes I answer from my mobile phone and the automatic spelling 'correction' does a great job to mess things up.

curious

@MissBlossom
I am a physician, have given away that Information already somewhere.
And I am somewhere around the middle between finishing university and retirement.
That is as much as I am prepared to openly share, given that my professional life requires anonymity here.

MissBlossom

curious
Thank you for sharing what you can and of course I respect that we each need to decide what we are and are not comfortable sharing. I, too, have been deliberately vague about several things, sometimes for privacy, and sometimes because I just don't want to talk about them.

I do wish I had a better sense of your perspective and when you are speaking from experience and when you are not, but I understand.

curious

youdontknowme
You are partly right.
Technically speaking the image I have created as avatar is not the rod of aesculap (the symbol for the medical professions) which has only one snake and no wings.
The caduceus is actually the symbol of the greek good Hermes, the harold and messenger.
But in the US, it is often used as symbol for the medical profession (for reasons I do not know - maybe because the symmetric image looks more appealing?)
My specific avatar was actually created after the symbol of Star Fleet Medical (see, now I have revealed something else about me - I like Star Trek). 😄
That it is used to symbolise commerce, I have never seen though.

Andrew

curious That it is used to symbolise commerce, I have never seen though.

In many countries, the caduceus is also a symbol of customs and tax authorities.

curious My specific avatar was actually created after the symbol of Star Fleet Medical

I admit that at first when I saw your avatar I associated it not with a stick but with a wand vibrator. 😉

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