Introductions

Avery

MissBlossom I think @curious meant threads.

I know he always enjoys my humor.

curious

I do and I appologise. Sometimes I answer from my mobile phone and the automatic spelling 'correction' does a great job to mess things up.

curious

@MissBlossom
I am a physician, have given away that Information already somewhere.
And I am somewhere around the middle between finishing university and retirement.
That is as much as I am prepared to openly share, given that my professional life requires anonymity here.

MissBlossom

curious
Thank you for sharing what you can and of course I respect that we each need to decide what we are and are not comfortable sharing. I, too, have been deliberately vague about several things, sometimes for privacy, and sometimes because I just don't want to talk about them.

I do wish I had a better sense of your perspective and when you are speaking from experience and when you are not, but I understand.

youdontknowme

MissBlossom have a medical avatar

To be fair, the caduceus has been used as a symbol of commerce in the past, particularly in Europe and Asia. Its use as a symbol of medicine in North America might be an interesting comment on the US healthcare system.

curious

youdontknowme
You are partly right.
Technically speaking the image I have created as avatar is not the rod of aesculap (the symbol for the medical professions) which has only one snake and no wings.
The caduceus is actually the symbol of the greek good Hermes, the harold and messenger.
But in the US, it is often used as symbol for the medical profession (for reasons I do not know - maybe because the symmetric image looks more appealing?)
My specific avatar was actually created after the symbol of Star Fleet Medical (see, now I have revealed something else about me - I like Star Trek). 😄
That it is used to symbolise commerce, I have never seen though.

Andrew

curious That it is used to symbolise commerce, I have never seen though.

In many countries, the caduceus is also a symbol of customs and tax authorities.

curious My specific avatar was actually created after the symbol of Star Fleet Medical

I admit that at first when I saw your avatar I associated it not with a stick but with a wand vibrator. 😉

curious

Andrew I admit that at first when I saw your avatar I associated it not with a stick but with a wand vibrator.

That´s because of your oversexualised thoughts. 😀

youdontknowme

The Hitachi wand of Mercury

Angelina

EngineeringEmily But it is relief.

so would you rather say it helps you to manage the situation better? then hide it from your parents and hope they will not notice it

Sasha

Angelina That’s tricky because either option can have unwanted consequences.

Angelina

Sasha That’s tricky because either option can have unwanted consequences.

yes, but she is already breaking the contract and if she is caught, a chastity bra could still be the most harmless consequence.

Jonas

curious Only complete abstinence will eventually reduce the craving.

Joh Sexuality is Part of rvery Person and it different.

Abstain and gain control. Give in and let go. Hmmm. If we treat the sex drive as a kind of built-in addiction @curious correct. If we view the sex drive as a human need and pleasure then Joh has it right. For me personally it became the former, so control and abstinence was the way forward.

Joh

Jonas sex drive as a kind of built-in addiction

By itself the Sex Drive is Not a build-in addiction. If someone can't handle it properly it can be adictive. Same as with gaming, collecting Things, social Interactions etc.

Jonas

Joh By itself the Sex Drive is Not a build-in addiction

I think that unlike most other things sex is a powerful behaviour modifier with direct access to brain pleasure, motivation and reward centres. It's effect can be very, very, similar to a drug.

Joh

Jonas I agree and you can get addicted. Nevertheless by itself it IS Not. Everyone has to learn how to handle it Like with other Things you can be addicted.

LauraBell

Hi I am new here.

I am thinking about getting myself a chastity belt that i can use on nights out. I do not intend on having some one else as a keyholder or anything like that. It is just something that i can put on before i go out and leave the key at home.

Damien

Welcome LauraBell . Why not? a chinese cable belt doesn't cost much, is easy to hide under most outfits when worn low on the hip, and - it seems to me - will make you feel protected when going out. Enjoy, and keep us posted!

Jonas

LauraBell Hello and welcome.

Can I ask is the belt to protect you from unwanted advances from others or from choices you might make and later regret?

Laura

LauraBell Greetings, homonym 😂
May I ask you why do you want to wear a chastity belt?

Angelina

LauraBell

welcome to the forum 🙂
may i ask why you want this? do you want to protect yourself from rape or are you afraid of doing something you might regret?

LockedUpLesbian

welcome to the forum 🙂

LockedUpLesbian

Hi all! ❤️ Long time reader, thought I'd finally sign up. I'm a gay woman in her early 30s who's been interested in chastity for many years and at this point have been locked a couple of years now, with a long term keyholder who's wonderful. Currently in a modified Fancy Steel Hybrid Female belt - best I could afford - but saving as quickly as possible for a waist style Neosteel Spaceless to get a proper upgrade in security and especially comfort. Glad they're back up and running.

Thanks for all the wonderful help you've unknowingly been giving me over the years, I really appreciate the resources and information on here ❤️

I'm planning on staying locked long term - a goal my partner is keen to support - and if nothing else being belted has taught me a lot about skincare!

Good to finally say hi 🔒

Greatcornbow

LauraBell

LockedUpLesbian Hi all! ❤️ Long time reader, thought I'd finally sign up. I'm a gay woman in her early 30s who's been interested in chastity for many years and at this point have been locked a couple of years now, with a long term keyholder who's wonderful. Currently in a modified Fancy Steel Hybrid Female belt - best I could afford - but saving as quickly as possible for a waist style Neosteel Spaceless to get a proper upgrade in security and especially comfort. Glad they're back up and running.

Thanks for all the wonderful help you've unknowingly been giving me over the years, I really appreciate the resources and information on here ❤️

I'm planning on staying locked long term - a goal my partner is keen to support - and if nothing else being belted has taught me a lot about skincare!

How are you getting on? Presumanly your partner is or will be KH?

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