Sara2001 That's why I kind of support the results but don't fully agree with the way to reach this goal. It's very difficult. I definitely don't want to destroy my family or make them unhappy. I think I would have to move out when I break with such an important aspect. I'm sure it would not only be a change of my location and financial situation, but would also had a massive impact on our whole relationship. They would not be happy at all and they already told me that they think there must be a consequence when I decide to not follow our family traditions anymore. They would definitely stop supporting me with money. They think otherwise it would be to easy for me to change my decision whenever I like. I have to say they are right. That's why I accept my situation but are not really unhappy at the same time. It's difficult.
I'm in the same situation;I can quit when I want to,but it will have bad consequences(similar to the consequences it will have for you),I think.No financial support anymore,no living in their home either,sure,and probably break our relationship.
Sara2001 I think until I have the strong feeling that his biggest wish is that I enjoy my life, I would think and talk about many things for him.
I would act the same.
Sara2001 I don't believe it would harm me or my sister if we had an orgasm from time to time, so I'm very jealous of my brother but very happy for him that he is not restricted. Otherwise my mother told me that it is even more difficult to have an orgasm only from time to time and not when you want it but not to have orgasms at all. I think she is right, but I would still use any opportunity that I could have. I hope this situation will be over at some time.
I think it is unfair too than my brother is allowed to do sexual things that are forbidden for me,and I think too getting orgasms do no harm.About the opportunity to get a few orgasms,Catherine is allowed to masturbate every other Sunday,and it is important for her to keep this free day(even if her mother think like your and regret to have given her this opportunity).
Welcome!
Angelina it all came last november when he noticed that I was masturbating, he totally freaked out and immediately ordered a belt.
Welcome!Does he want you to not be able to masturbate or does he fear it would be the first step before having sex and want to prevent it mainly?
Angelina he is of the opinion i must have before i am 18 no friend and do not get the belt off before i get married.
Not allowed to date is hard,especially more if you fall in love and are not allowed to date him...And I don't agree about his opinion of no dating if you can't get married.You can start to date someone now,have a long and strong relationship and marry in several years...
Angelina i wear the belt 24/7 only on sunday i have an hour break to wash and shave myself below. but that happens under supervision, so i have no chance to do anything that my father doesn't want. it's really hard to accept that i have no control over my sexuality anymore.
Same for me,showering with the belt off and sugaring is always supervised,to be sure I don't use it to touch myself.
Angelina the belt is already very tight, but i have managed to put a small pin or a small rope under the shield lately. but for more than minimal stimulation it is not enough. this is usually more frustrating afterwards than before and then i really freak out and panic
I tried it too,and I can confirm it is arousing,but frustrating as it isn't enough to reach orgasm.
Angelina
Sorry you have to wear thigh bands,even if you're not the only one here.Catherine and Sara have to wear it when at home,and I sometimes have to wear it several days(generally a week-end)if I'm punished(but I don't go out with it on,I stay at home).It is very restrictive,make the access to the belt even harder and walking and climbing stairs especially is very diffcult.It can be harder to sleep with it on too,yes.
