Introductions

MightyMouse

Hello everyone,

I’m a 34 year old man who has been interested in chastity for a long time. Single at the moment.

Mixed results with devices thus far. I have a couple cages, a cable belt, and a my-steel that I measured very poorly. If I can get out of the thing, the purpose is defeated, right? If it is too painful to wear then the purpose is defeated as well.

I didn’t masturbate until I was 19 for some odd reason, and it seems I decided to make up for lost time.

Saving up for either a neosteel or a carrara.
I could probably stand to lose a few pounds.

Weird as it sounds, a new belt will be my reward to myself for quitting smoking. 3 weeks without a cigarette so far. Before that, I had maybe gone to a pack a week for about three months. Not bad for someone who was a pack a day a year ago.

Anyways. Pleased to be here.

Markus

MightyMouse Welcome
You can't let “repair” the my-steel?
I think it will be cheaper than a new belt.

youdontknowme

MightyMouse

What is your objective with the chastity belt, that you would use it as a reward? Looks like you are kicking a much worse habit than anything sexuality-related ever could be.

Angelina

MightyMouse

welcome to the forum 🙂

MightyMouse

Markus

Not sure why I haven't considered that more closely. Thank you. 🙂

I'll need to check with Petra on cost. I got it too loose in both directions, the rear hole is off, and I'd like to switch to a cable rear instead of the continuous band.

It kinda seems like fixing this one to my measurements might end up being most of the price of a new belt. One way to find out, though.

youdontknowme

Indeed. Jerking off too much won't give me cancer. The objective is to stop myself from masturbating so much, for weeks at a time. I could do with focusing my energy elsewhere. Two birds with one stone, I guess.

Anne

Hi, I'm Ann, I would like to give you my opinion and advice.I live in a traditional family, with traditional values. I I'd like to discuss a few questions here (in proper section).

Joh

Anne
Welcome to our forum. Please read the rules.
It would be nice if you tell us how old you are and in which country you live.

Ines

Anne

Welcome, please read the rules and make ( @WriterAlexis ??) yourself comfortable.
It would be nice if you tell us some details: age, studies/job, your goal about the chastity, sisters...

Angelina

Anne

welcome to the forum 🙂

dorothea

welcome to the forum too
which belt will you be getting?

Milord And she says explicitly its a parental decision, not her decision.
Once in, she will never get out.

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dorothea

Hello,

My name is Dorothea and I registered here a few weeks ago. At that time the topic of me wearing a chastity belt came up. I'm currently 17 years old and will be 18 in January.

My mom and my aunt have now convinced me to wear a belt like this.

An order was placed this afternoon and now it's time to wait.

Sasha

dorothea Welcome, what was their reasoning behind this

Joh

dorothea Does your mom and aunt wear one?
From which company will be the belt?

Ines

dorothea

Hello.
Almost 18 is not 18.
So we await you in 2 months. I will not delete the answers because they can useful to other girls.
See you on January!

dorothea

My mom caught me masturbating a few weeks ago. In general she is a bit more conservative and against it. Girls shouldn't play as such.

I should also stop being so lazy and focus my energy on other things like school. She also means general behavior.

Milord

dorothea also do you know that you cannot be forced to accept it? That in most part of the world it is considered child abuse (if you are a minor) and just sexual assault if you are adult? That touching yourself is not wrong and a pretty normal act, that your body belong to you and noone else right? If this is not clear STOP IMMEDIATELY YOUR PARENTS. You are probably going to regret for the rest of your life accepting it
Consent can be revoked at any time. Noone can put or keep you in it without your consent. If you don't trust me try asking any authorities around. They will probably tell you exactly what I'm saying.

Joh

dorothea My mom caught me masturbating a few weeks ago. In general she is a bit more conservative and against it. Girls shouldn't play as such.

I should also stop being so lazy and focus my energy on other things like school. She also means general behavior.

Did you try to change your behaviour?
I think if you not had the change to change yourself a belt ist over the top.

Kaja

dorothea And do you agree? Do you think that masturbation is wrong? Do you really want to be locked without relieve?

Markus

dorothea Hello and welcome to the forum.

Two things to think.
First, it's important to understand why you're wearing a belt and what the motivation is.
Second, you must want it or it should be okay for you to do it.

If I think about all the troubles I had with wearing my belt, I can't imagine how it will be doing it involuntarily.

If your parents force you and you don't want it, you must say stop.

dorothea

Milord And she says explicitly its a parental decision, not her decision.

Sorry but that's not correct! I said they talked to me and convinced me, not that they were forcing me to do it! I could have said no and I wouldn't have been kicked out of home as a consequence!

Laura They are going to start in January if I understood right

Even if I didn't say it directly, that's how it should be.

Joh From which company will be the belt?

Its from My-Steel.

Joh Does your mom and aunt wear one?

Yes, they both wear one too.

Laura

Milord They are going to start in January if I understood right

Milord

Laura she will be 18 in january, she will start now, and in any case you still can't enforce it on an adult. It's illegal in most part of the world. And she says explicitly its a parental decision, not her decision.
Once in, she will never get out.

Laura

Milord Don't take it seriously

Joh

dorothea In which country do you live?

Milord

dorothea let's be honest. If you get ot not in chastity belt will not change my life. Or ours in this forum. Not even the slightest impact. I have not the minimum interest in convincing you.
The one that will stay without orgasming for years and years, that will have problems with a lot of activities, that will have to find the way to explain to friends, eventual boyfriends that things that for everyone are normal (for you too until now) will not longer be this way.
This forum is full of problems, issues, suffering from people in chastity belt that could have been avoided staying away. You want to jump in? Well, I feel the moral duty to tell you that it is an awful idea that will destroy your youth, the best years of your life, but if you want to do it... your choise. The one that will pay dearly is you. Here just a couple of links, please read them carefully. In your interest, not mine. You will find a lot of others.
And yes, there are people who are happy about it. Again. Your life, your choise, your consequences.

https://unwedchastity.org/d/982-possible-adverse-medical-issues

https://unwedchastity.org/d/555-reasons-a-chastity-belt-sucks

Susan

dorothea Hello Dorothea, welcome to the forum. This is a good place to be if you are just starting to wear a belt. My story is very similar to yours. I too was caught masturbating and my aunt did not approve so she ordered a belt for me. It was much more complicated than that, but I have been wearing a belt full time for over a year and a half.

I am sure you a nervous about it, I was for sure. It is not easy but you get used to it. I hope you post your questions. I will answer the best I can.

dorothea

From Germany.

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