Good morning !
My name is Francois. I am 62 years old and I live in France. Married, my wife is 56 years old.
The chastity cage for me came into our relationship as a one-off game. Then my wife got a taste for knowing I was confined and controlling my sexuality. Having a job with frequent travel, she then asked me to carry my cage during my absences from home, so I discovered longer periods of one to two weeks. Gradually the durations increased.
10 years ago I agreed to move to 24/7 to please him. My last โnormalโ sex with her was in 2014 and my cage was installed right after. Why will you tell me? Over time, she discovered herself more and more attracted to the female sex (she has female partners) and as we loved each other, we stayed together and I agreed to "feminize" my sex in cages increasingly short and restrictive. My current cage is made of steel with a tube of only 3 cm
At the beginning I was released about every month for a deep wash (but under supervision and therefore no pleasure allowed) today it is between 2 or 3 times a year, always without orgasm at that time.
For liberation in a "pleasure/orgasm" sense (and not cage removed) I managed after 14 months to have an orgasm while remaining in a cage, my wife doing as with a woman: anal penetration and vibrator on my caged penis (a bit like a clitoris) So today I depend on this access to toys to have pleasure, toys which are of course managed by my wife.
Frustration is part of my daily life, itโs a game between us that amuses her a lot.