Introductions

Angelina

that is exactly what it is 😉

Lukas

A big hello to all of the other people in this forum. I’m here to introduce myself and kinda tell my story or rather my families story. My name is Lukas, I’m 19 years old and I come from Germany. First of all I hope it’s okay for me to be here even though I’m male and most of you are female. I’ve been looking for a place like this for a really long time, only finding strange and shady websites about chastity belts until I found this forum with people who are (at least partly) like me. I come from a very religious family of Mennonites. In our community it is very important that both male and female members are entering marriage as a virgin and there are many parents in my hometown who - like mine - take this very serious. So when I had my first ‘crush’ a couple of years ago and my parents found out they talked to both me and my sister who is about 2 years younger than me about the importance of chastity and virginity before marriage and about the sin called masturbation that many people who are our age commit. They told us about the concept of chastity belts and that both my mother and my father worn one before they got married. So long story short they measured my sister and ordered an My Steel belt for her. They also measured me and ordered a chastity cage called HolyTrainer for me. Once both devices arrived we had to put them on and got locked in it. For the first two weeks both of us got unlocked for a couple of hours but as soon as we got used to the devices we were kept locked more or less the whole time. All this happened when I was 13 and my sister was 11. Both of us are in our chastity devices since them and only get out for regular cleaning which is always supervised by at least one of our parents.

So yeah, that’s it, I hope I didn’t bore any of you with my introduction and I hope it’s okay for me to be here.

Renita

Lukas Nice story 😃

Angelina

Lukas

welcome here 🙂

very interesting family history, i find it interesting to read that there are still people who wear a chastity belt/cage because of their religion. it is completely ok that you write with us as a boy

however i could not really tell from your text if you and your sister are wearing the cb voluntarily or involuntarily

13 and 11 is however really very young, if I calculate correctly you both wear the devices now 6 years?

Laura

Lukas In our community it is very important that both male and female members are entering marriage as a virgin and there are many parents in my hometown who - like mine - take this very serious

@Sara2001 , do you happen to know this community?

Achteon

Lukas I wear the same device, but voluntarily

Lukas

Angelina Yeah, six years is correct. My sister doesn't care to much about wearing it because she was - as you said - pretty young when she started wearing it. I on the other hand do care because when I got the cb I already knew what masturbation was and how an orgasm felt. I don't care about the other part very much, mainly because my gf also wants to enter marriage as a virgin, but not being able to masturbate kinda sucks. Not to mention that it's annoying that, as a male, you tend to drip a little when you get aroused and get off for a long time.

Thank you for the warm welcome 😀

Ines They resemble each other in many ways, yes. It's a pretty strict religion with relying on old values but for us it's actually not a problem to have Internet, phones, cars and so on.

Achteon Can't imagine that to be honest. I don't have any problem with staying a virgin until I am married, but there are times where I get almost crazy because I can't masturbate.

Vanessa

Lukas

Welcome!

Your situation is unusual her,but interesting.

Angelina however i could not really tell from your text if you and your sister are wearing the cb voluntarily or involuntarily

I guess they do it as people often should in their community without protesting,almost accepting it well,but would have prefered to not have to,if they were asked.

Lea Just bra, parents think thighbands are not neccessary for me at the moment.

I'm very sorry for you,and I hope they never think thigh bands should be necessary.

How do you manage the chastity bra,for now?

Lea Yeah i got chastity bra because of my "nipples issue"... I though my parnets make me funny of it but no - they decided to buy me bra. From their opinion i should get chastity bra to be in full chastity :/

Not very surprising they don't think it is funny to show your erect nipples.Too bad they know it and decided to add the chastity bra due to it.Any chance to make them change their mind about it in some time?

Lukas

I agree that if we don't know how it feels to masturbate and get orgasms(and even more getting an orgasm while having sex,way better),it is a bit easier to wear a chastity belt.

I understand that it is very hard for you to be prevented to do it anymore since 6 years!

Angelina should you wear the bra 24/7 or only when you go out ? and if you wear the bra 24/7, what are the rules for shower breaks ?

Good questions.

Angelina I hope you can handle it.

I hope too.

Lukas The worst thing about it, to be honest, is when I'm with my girlfriend. Once we start kissing/making out/whatever the cage gets pretty tight.

Same for my twin when he is punished by having to wear his chastity cage and he dates his girlfriend.

Lukas

I hope you'll manage to find a way to marry each other and be happy together.

Ines It is not the topic for this discussion.

Sorry for participating to the offtopic discussions,but I guess it would be split soon,anyway!😉

Laura

Chastity for unwed sons?

Sara2001

Not impossible,but it takes time...But I think it is more related to the number of answers,not the number of topics.

It is,in fact,quicker to answer several topics with only a few answers than few ones with a lot of answers(at least for me).

Ines

Laura
There are plenty of them in Paraguay and Uruguay. They ellaborate a cheese with moderate fame in Spain.
Quite similar to your (American) "Amish".

Sara2001

Laura @Sara2001 , do you happen to know this community?

No, we are not religious, at least not more then most people these days.

Lea

Laura Just bra, parents think thighbands are not neccessary for me at the moment.

Angelina Vanessa Yeah i got chastity bra because of my "nipples issue"... I though my parnets make me funny of it but no - they decided to buy me bra. From their opinion i should get chastity bra to be in full chastity :/

Angelina

Lea

hi, thanks for writing again

I'm afraid so and I'm very sorry for you 🙁
should you wear the bra 24/7 or only when you go out ? and if you wear the bra 24/7, what are the rules for shower breaks ?

I hope you can handle it.

Achteon

Lukas you mentioned you knew masturbation before so I understand your despair, the precum is also a problem, how did you manage to hide your condition from your schoolmates ?

Lea

Angelina Yeah i have to wear it 24/7, maybe in futer it will be just for going out - but my parents ask me to use for it - so thats why 24/7.
Sure I have shower breaks every 2 day. What about you?

Vanessa I try to use for it. Yeah it is if i become able to manage my nipples erection...

Laura

Sara2001 No, we are not religious, at least not more then most people these days.

I'm talking about not a religion community, but a chastity community you are in, as you mentioned before

Vanessa Chastity for unwed sons?

Done

Sara2001

From my point of view we have to many topics now. I think, because of that it is almost impossible to follow.

Angelina

Vanessa Too bad they know it

i hope it was not our fault 🙁 i hope @Lea can answer this question, i would feel extremely guilty 🙁

Vanessa

Angelina

I hope too,but it is unlikely related to us.

BikelockFugitive I mean you can technically also just blackmail them.

Never a good idea to blackmail our parents...

Lukas

Laura Well, that sounds about right. Thank you for moving the discussion. 😀

Sara2001

Laura I'm talking about not a religion community, but a chastity community you are in, as you mentioned before

My family is not really im a chastity community but a loose community related to our lifestyle. Maybe there is a relationship but I don't know enough about the other values in his family. Would be very interesting 🙂

BikelockFugitive

Lukas as our legal department I am obligated to tell you that there might be legal ways to get you (and your sister) out of your chastity belt(s). Welcome to this forum tho!

Lukas

BikelockFugitive Thanks for the warm welcome. I do more or less know that there are legal ways to get us out of our situation, but to be honest: We both love our parents and I think getting out of my cage or my sister getting out of her belt isn't worth taking legal actions against our parents. Thank you for the hint though. I might consider this as "last resort" in case my parents would somehow still insist on me wearing the device when I'm married or something like that.

BikelockFugitive

Lukas I mean you can technically also just blackmail them.
Playing poker is a valid strat, they don't know if you actually will report them to the authority. So they cannot do much other than comply.

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