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Dee Obligatory "You can just lockpick it, because lockpicking is absolutly braindead"- comment

Vanessa

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Laura No comments 🤣

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Sara2001 I think I would have been very unhappy if my parents would have told me that it is to prevent pregnancy or something like that and I would end up orgasmless.

Yes,it is "better" to know it at the start.

Angelina i guess it depends on how long the chain is, but i think she's in for a nasty surprise. @Dee it can be extremely restrictive

And it seems she would have to wear these pretty often...

In her recent posts,we can notice that being caught masturbating plays a part in her parent's decision,too.

Sara2001

I agree.An abstinence belt would be enough,if it was not to prevent masturbation,too.But it seems very uncommon to be allowed to masturbate,when wearing a chastity belt reluctantly.

Lea But there are still free times not?

Happily,yes!I never wear it 24 hours consecutively,except when punished.Not at work,nor during night(if I don't go out),nor when at least one of my parents is at home(for 1 hour or more).

Laura

Renita @Laura was in similar situation.

No, they cared about virginity only, not like concentration on studying or GPA

Vanessa If I remember well,her parents didn't care she masturbates

No, they didn't

Vanessa And I would not be surprised if she can still masturbate,sometimes.

No comments 🤣

Angelina

Dee they said I should focus on studying and get good GPA. Mom said if I’m allow to orgasm, I’ll crave for more and will only think about sex instead of studying.

that's a good reason, but it doesn't explain why now of all times. if you were still in school, it would be for the same reasons

Vanessa Not too bad one,except for the thigh bands...It can be very hard to wear these,especially outside(based on own experience inside,and on other experiences outside)!

i guess it depends on how long the chain is, but i think she's in for a nasty surprise. @Dee it can be extremely restrictive

Laura No comments 🤣

i would be very interested, especially if there are also tricks with cb 😉

Sara2001 I think I would have been very unhappy if my parents would have told me that it is to prevent pregnancy or something like that and I would end up orgasmless.

it would be illogical, because a pregnancy cannot be caused by masturbation. it was also one of my father's reasons (this has been done since I've been with a girl) unfortunately there were many more reasons for my father 🙁

Sara2001

Angelina you were unfortunately (again) right 🙁

One of the moments where I don't like to be right. In my family at least it was clear from the very beginning that we have to wear it to prevent masturbation. I think I would have been very unhappy if my parents would have told me that it is to prevent pregnancy or something like that and I would end up orgasmless.

Sara2001

Angelina it would be illogical, because a pregnancy cannot be caused by masturbation. it was also one of my father's reasons (this has been done since I've been with a girl) unfortunately there were many more reasons for my father 🙁

That's my point. Forcing a girl/woman to wear a chastity belt 24/7 suits only one purpose. To prevent masturbation. Anything else can be achieved with a less restrictive regime. An unsupervised shower without the belt wouldn't risk my virginity or whatever is the argument. It just prevents masturbation.

Ines

Angelina i guess it depends on how long the chain is, but i think she's in for a nasty surprise.

It is not necessarily. I think that bands are necessary, but a comfortably long chain is enough. Since for have some weak points in the belt, you need separate A LOT your legs. Even I would like to have my chain a bit longer, and it would not make weaker my feeling of protection.

Angelina

Sara2001

that is unfortunately 100% true 🙁 🙁 🙁

Lea

Angelina Do you have air holes?

Vanessa But there are still free times not?

Angelina

Lea

I have two bras

one has air holes, which I wear in summer

the other one is completely closed, I wear it currently (in winter), because it can get cold in winter with air holes

Lea

Angelina How big air holes are?

Angelina

Vanessa And it seems she would have to wear these pretty often...

currently only if she goes out, I hope your parents don't come up with stupid ideas 🙁

Valadar

welcome to the forum 😃

Valadar if I was metaphorically "in your shoes" I wouldn't be able to handle what you go through

we have to deal with it, we have no other choice 🙁

Lea

Vanessa Do you also wear it as punishment?

Valadar

Hi to all of you ladies and the guys here. My name is Craig, Im 36 years old and I stay in South Africa. I joined your site out of curiosity(I hope you don't mind, I felt I needed to introduce myself out of courtesy even if Im a bit shy lol) as I found your forum after stumbling on it via a search engine. It is quite something to discover that in this modern time that young woman such as yourselves are required to wear a chastity belt by your parents. When these days such items are used as a toy to spice up intimacy in the bedroom. However it has been quite something to read as to how you ladies have to navigate all these challenges. I have respect for you all as I know that if I was metaphorically "in your shoes" I wouldn't be able to handle what you go through. So my hat goes off to you all.

Laura

Valadar It is quite something to discover that in this modern time that young woman such as yourselves are required to wear a chastity belt by your parents. When these days such items are used as a toy to spice up intimacy in the bedroom.

Welcome to the forum. That's one of the purposes. You have found us and joined out or curiosity and now you know that chastity belt are real, not just bed toys. So you might tell you friends about this option, etc.

Valadar I stay in South Africa.

How is there? I heard that the criminal situation is not good and I wouldn't be surprised if ladies might need to use chastity belt for own protection.

Vanessa

Valadar

Welcome!

I think many people think about chastity belt only as a medieval device or as a fetish sextoy;not thinking it can be used for the true purpose.

Laura So you might tell you friends about this option, etc.

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You never miss a possibility to make more prople wear one!😉

Angelina I hope your parents don't come up with stupid ideas 🙁

I hope for her too...

Valadar Its a very interesting dynamic in potentially dating a belted lady because in this day and age sex is basically the first thing on the table. So by limiting that factor rather significantly it does in fact encourage a man to actually see a woman as more than just a sexual object and rather more as person.

It is our parents' opinion,too.If someone date us,it is because he/she(we're at least 3 people here having lesbian relationships,so it applies also to other women! 😉)is truely interested in us,and not only wanting sex.

Valadar Which I agree with because in my opinion there needs to be more than just sexual needs and wants fulfilled. There needs to be a togetherness of two people in their hearts before a sexual union occurs because I believe it binds them together.

It is mainly the case if truely in love,even if not married,when having sex,however.

Valadar

Thank you!

Angelina woman who can behave decently is able to fall in love with someone first and have sex afterwards. that's why i completely agree with your attitude on the subject of relationships, but i disagree that a cb helps

I agree with you.But we can too have sex and fall in love after,even if not always the case!😉

Angelina i am 100% sure that this is also possible without a chastity belt

It's my opinion too.

Valadar I agree that wearing a cb should be voluntary, just like it would be, if it is used to spice things up a relationship potentially.

There is,at least,one person here who wear a chastity belt voluntarily,while single and living with her parents(which prefer,but not force,it)!😉

Angelina

Same for me!🙂

Laura

If he fell in love,it probably didn't matter much!😉

Valadar

Laura Hi Laura and everyone thanks for welcoming me, yes In truth I read about some husband's using them on wives as a means to make sure they remain faithful or possibly in total control but no I never knew that parent's use them in order to make sure their daughter's remain chaste&pure till their wedding day...

Its a very interesting dynamic in potentially dating a belted lady because in this day and age sex is basically the first thing on the table. So by limiting that factor rather significantly it does in fact encourage a man to actually see a woman as more than just a sexual object and rather more as person.

Which I agree with because in my opinion there needs to be more than just sexual needs and wants fulfilled. There needs to be a togetherness of two people in their hearts before a sexual union occurs because I believe it binds them together.``

Valadar

Angelina I know Angelina, I know you and the others have no option however my heart still goes out to you and all the rest here that have to endure it.

Renita

Valadar Its a very interesting dynamic in potentially dating a belted lady because in this day and age sex is basically the first thing on the table. So by limiting that factor rather significantly it does in fact encourage a man to actually see a woman as more than just a sexual object and rather more as person.

That's exactly my point.

Angelina

Valadar Which I agree with because in my opinion there needs to be more than just sexual needs and wants fulfilled. There needs to be a togetherness of two people in their hearts before a sexual union occurs because I believe it binds them together.`

i completely agree with this part of your text, but i don't see the need for a cb. a woman who can behave decently is able to fall in love with someone first and have sex afterwards. that's why i completely agree with your attitude on the subject of relationships, but i disagree that a cb helps

Valadar I know Angelina, I know you and the others have no option however my heart still goes out to you and all the rest here that have to endure it.

thanks a lot 😃 , it's not always easy but i still try to live my life as normal as possible 😉

Renita That's exactly my point.

i am 100% sure that this is also possible without a chastity belt

Laura

Angelina i am 100% sure that this is also possible without a chastity belt

But a chastity belt makes it simplier

Valadar

Angelina Hi Angelina. I think perhaps you may have misunderstood me. I 100% agree that a woman doesn't need a cb in order to behave decently, what I was saying is that for those of you ladies that have no choice, that at least you can know that someone who is romantically interested in you has to see beyond being able to have physical satisfaction as that isn't possible or in some cases extremely limited thus because of being a belted lady, they have to want you in spite of not being able to be sexually intimate with you.

I agree that wearing a cb should be voluntary, just like it would be, if it is used to spice things up a relationship potentially. I personally don't believe in taking a choice away from a person. As I know I wouldn't like to hypertheically be given no choice and forced into some similar type of situation... 😉

Angelina

Valadar they have to want you in spite of not being able to be sexually intimate with you.

i know, i have a happy relationship despite cb 🙂

Renita

Valadar As I know I wouldn't like to hypertheically be given no choice and forced into some similar type of situation...

You might date a belted girl 😃

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