Doro's theme.

Milord

By the way @dorothea maybe some suggestions for @Dakshina can be useful to you too. Even if I suppose you can get out if things are too hard

Dakshina

Milord I hope @dorothea and my experiences can help us

Sasha

A compromise you may suggest is that the bands go on each night, but without the connecting chain, which you can put in place yourself if you feel it is needed.
Of course the best option is that you entirely control when you wear the bands in general, and this is what I’d recommend.
But there’s options that could satisfy a compromise if she is set on your wearing them

Joh

@dorothea
I found an old posting from @Sin with advice which exercise will help you if you wear thigh bands for longer time.
Exercise

dorothea

Joh I found an old posting from @Sin with advice which exercise will help you if you wear thigh bands for longer time.

Thanks for that, I'll definitely take a closer look at it 🙂

Angelina

dorothea If a goal was set before everything had started, then one party might have been too disappointed

i don't understand why? it's about the time after the test phase, i.e. what is expected if the chastity belt project is really to continue successfully, you should know your future. if the belt is the goal until the wedding, then you would be able to find out now in the 3 months whether you can actually imagine walking around with this device for so long

dorothea

Angelina i don't understand why? it's about the time after the test phase, i.e. what is expected if the chastity belt project is really to continue successfully, you should know your future.

I think you're right on the one hand, but maybe not on the other.

The test phase is first of all to see whether everything works and all that. If it's clear beforehand what the goal is, but it's not even clear whether everything works at all, then you can argue about whether that's a good thing or not .

I feel somehow freer to have a say about what the goal will be. First of all, it's important to me to see what the test phase actually achieves.

dorothea

youdontknowme I think it is not too strange a name, but it is an old ladies' name at the moment.

Well, I wouldn't say that. Ok, very often the name doesn't exist, but at least one very well-known athlete has the same name 🙂

Angelina

dorothea Well, I wouldn't say that. Ok, very often the name doesn't exist, but at least one very well-known athlete has the same name 🙂

I only know Dorothea Wierer, but when I think of Doro I think more of Doro Pesch 😉

dorothea The test phase is first of all to see whether everything works and all that. If it's clear beforehand what the goal is, but it's not even clear whether everything works at all, then you can argue about whether that's a good thing or not .

I only see the problem in the fact that you are now training how to endure for 3 months. If you continue, you will probably wear the belt for several years and you would have to prepare yourself mentally for that

dorothea

Do you already know what you want to do afterwards? (I assume because of your age that you went to school before and haven't had any apprenticeship etc. yet)

Susan

dorothea The test phase is first of all to see whether everything works and all that. If it's clear beforehand what the goal is, but it's not even clear whether everything works at all, then you can argue about whether that's a good thing or not .

I feel somehow freer to have a say about what the goal will be. First of all, it's important to me to see what the test phase actually achieves.

Please make sure you are up for this. The "the test phase" is actually a precursor to full time permanent wearing, especially if you are testing for three months. They would not want you to test for that long without them wanting you to wear it full time. You need to be prepared for that both mentally and physically.

When I started training my aunt made it clear that she wanted me to wear the belt full time, that was always the goal for her and she made sure I knew that too. She talks strongly about commitment. Make sure you are OK with this because it is difficult to go backwards.

dorothea

Generally about the bands, I've had them on for a few hours each the last few days. I also had it on from Friday to Saturday and Saturday to Sunday night.
Sleeping with it was something completely different. Sher takes getting used to. However, they also helped somewhat when it came to fighting.

Milord

dorothea

Sorry if already said, feel free to ignore
1) I can understand why outside home is important to be belted, by why it’s so important to prevent self pleasure?

2) do you have to wear thight bands at home or outside?

3) so far what do you think about it? Overall positive or not?

4) do you go study or work? In case how it impact?

Greatcornbow

dorothea However, they also helped somewhat when it came to fighting.

How?

dorothea

Milord

to 1) has already been said 😉

to 2) Only at home, although I'm sure that if I wanted to do it outside too, my parents wouldn't mind 😃

to 3) They have positive but also negative aspects. It also depends on what sometimes prevails, but in general I would say they are sometimes ok.

to 4) I'm currently doing a voluntary social year. He doesn't bother me.

dorothea

Greatcornbow How?

Actually, I know it's impossible, but once you start, you don't always think rationally.
You are clearly limited by the bands. Movements and positions that are possible without the bands are not possible. This brings you back to the reality of not being able to fight much quicker.

Milord

dorothea

Thank you very much for answering. Can you explain what is a voluntary social year? If it's one year, what will happens after?

dorothea

Milord
If you do a voluntary social year, you will work, for example, in a hospital, childcare, old people's home, refugee home. In a social institution that is happy to receive help.
You will be paid something for this, but it is also a voluntary service to the community.

Milord

dorothea what a beautiful thing. Congratulations

dorothea

Angelina I only know Dorothea Wierer,

We're talking about the same person 😉

Angelina Do you already know what you want to do afterwards?

Yes, I know what I want to do. But the FSJ was somehow important to me and my parents also really like it.

dorothea

Susan They would not want you to test for that long without them wanting you to wear it full time.

Ja das ist kein geheimnis, aber es soll auch nicht zum zwang werden oder irgendie wirkliche schwierigkeiten bereiten.

Susan When I started training my aunt made it clear that she wanted me to wear the belt full time, that was always the goal for her and she made sure I knew that too. She talks strongly about commitment. Make sure you are OK with this because it is difficult to go backwards.

It's somehow very similar to me or to us

Joh

dorothea But the FSJ

What does FSJ mean?

At the moment your development is heading towards a partner coming into play sooner or later and taking over the leadership role. Would you like that?

Angelina

dorothea Yes, I know what I want to do. But the FSJ was somehow important to me and my parents also really like it.

I'm happy to read that, many people do an FSJ because they unfortunately don't know what they want to do in the future

Susan

dorothea Ja das ist kein geheimnis, aber es soll auch nicht zum zwang werden oder irgendie wirkliche schwierigkeiten bereiten.

Translated: Yes, it's not a secret, but it shouldn't be forced or cause any real difficulties.

OK, good. It sounds like you parents have the same goal as my aunt. Just make sure the rules are clear up front. Aunt Jenna and I have spent much time on this and each side needs to know what to expect from the other.

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