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Angelina

dorothea Yes, I know what I want to do. But the FSJ was somehow important to me and my parents also really like it.

I'm happy to read that, many people do an FSJ because they unfortunately don't know what they want to do in the future

dorothea

Hello and sorry for the delay. But I couldn't log in here for the last two days.

I'll write more tomorrow evening, just wanted to say I haven't forgotten the forum 😉

dorothea

So the last few days have had ups and downs for me.

Some days were really fine, other days I felt like ripping off the belt and everything else.

But I notice that I'm getting better at applying my energy to other things. Today I started reading a book for the first time in a long time.

I also somehow feel that I get along with my mum in a completely different but better way. I've always been very good with her, but somehow things are a little different now.

I've been wearing the bands quite often over the last few days. During the week in the normal way, but now at the weekend also in the other possible variants.

I've also had my bra on for an hour or two now.

Having all the equipment on at once is a powerful experience.
It's tough for a certain amount of time, but wearing everything permanently would be very difficult.
The girls who wear this all the time have a lot to do 😮

Sasha

dorothea Takes a lot of practice and adjustment to do. But it’s possible.
The key for me was I have some daily time out of it to exercise, so does double duty

Roland

dorothea what is the normal way of wearing the bands and what other variants have you tried out? Will there be a plan when to use which variant?

Susan

dorothea So the last few days have had ups and downs for me.

Some days were really fine, other days I felt like ripping off the belt and everything else.

But I notice that I'm getting better at applying my energy to other things. Today I started reading a book for the first time in a long time.

I also somehow feel that I get along with my mum in a completely different but better way. I've always been very good with her, but somehow things are a little different now.

This is exactly how it was with me. The beginning was awkward and I did not like wearing it and wanted to rip it off. But once my aunt knew that I could handle it, and that I agreed to wear it full time, she was happy and the awkwardness disappeared. I did get used to it and focused on other things, like school.

Still don't know why you wear the bands and the bra. That does not seem right...

Angelina

dorothea I've been wearing the bands quite often over the last few days. During the week in the normal way, but now at the weekend also in the other possible variants.

Which variations do you mean?

dorothea

thanks for the update, i'm very curious to see how it goes on. it's clear that there are good and bad days and frankly i would have avoided using bands and bra until the end of the 3 month test. how do you currently feel about it? do you think you want to continue or would you rather stop after the 3 months? How it is planned to use bra and bands in the long term?

dorothea

Susan The beginning was awkward and I did not like wearing it and wanted to rip it off.

How is it for you now? You have a big change now 😉 Is it harder to go back into the belt? Is the first time harder or is everything the same as before?

Susan Still don't know why you wear the bands and the bra. That does not seem right...

My mum also wears both, but not all day long.
So it's more like we should both be the same in some way.

dorothea

Angelina Which variations do you mean?

short chain, chain in a triangle, the bands connected directly.

Angelina i would have avoided using bands and bra until the end of the 3 month test

I definitely value your opinion in general 😉

However, I preferred it to know everything. If these things were only used after three months, everything would be different

Angelina do you think you want to continue or would you rather stop after the 3 months?

do you think you want to continue or would you rather stop after the 3 months?

So at the moment I'm more inclined to carry on.

Ines

dorothea Having all the equipment on at once is a powerful experience.

You did not lose so much without it.

dorothea

Ines You did not lose so much without it.

What do you mean exactly?

You don't really lose anything for yourself, or you don't lose anything if you don't wear the things?

Joh

dorothea I also somehow feel that I get along with my mum in a completely different but better way. I've always been very good with her, but somehow things are a little different now.

This sounds good that you are able to get along with it. Could you elaborate in which way is your relation to your mother in a better but different way.

dorothea

Joh Could you elaborate in which way is your relation to your mother in a better but different way.

So we had such a good relationship too 😉

However, things have changed because I now also wear a belt and can therefore survive them better in some parts.
It's also different for her now that I'm having a lot of the same experiences as her.

In addition, I do my part of working at home a little more conscientiously. By that I mean don't forget things, it makes us better that way.
So there were a little fewer mother-daughter discussions 😃

Ines

dorothea

I mean that you do not get anything profitable wearing it.

Angelina

dorothea short chain, chain in a triangle, the bands connected directly.

and do you have a favourite variation? 😉

dorothea However, I preferred it to know everything. If these things were only used after three months, everything would be different

you could have done a separate test period for each device. if you are willing to wear the belt for a long time, you could have done another test with the bands or the bra to see if you are willing to accept that as well, so a lot comes at once

Susan

dorothea How is it for you now? You have a big change now 😉 Is it harder to go back into the belt? Is the first time harder or is everything the same as before?

It's OK, I am pretty much full time now. I like having it off when it does come off, but it feels weird when it is off, almost like something is missing.

dorothea

Angelina and do you have a favourite variation? 😉

The version with the normal chain 😉 This is the easiest 😉

Angelina you could have done a separate test period for each device.

However, it was more my wish to try things out.
I knew that these things existed and were possible, so I wanted to test them out.

Maija

dorothea The version with the normal chain 😉 This is the easiest

The triangle and padlock options also have their merits.

Angelina

dorothea I knew that these things existed and were possible, so I wanted to test them out.

Was there ever a discussion about how bands and bra should be used after the test period?

Susan Not yet, the last Sunday of each month. So this coming Sunday!

2 more days, I think you are very excited after such a long time? 😉

Susan I agree. I will post about that but that's it. Other details are inappropriate I believe.

In fact, I would be most interested in how you feel after being back in the belt compared to now?

dorothea

Maija At least compared to the other variant, which is called block piece 😃

Maija

dorothea I know, I have some experience with it

Ines

dorothea At least compared to the other variant, which is called block piece

Compared with every other, block piece is the most restrictive of all and truly it does not provide much more safety than normal chain, same than padlock it is excessive.

Joh

dorothea At least compared to the other variant, which is called block piece

Did you wear the block piece during the night or at day to test it? And how long did you wear it?
To get the right picture where are your thigh bands on your thighs located?
If you have only the lock how much could you move your thighs with them?
Sorry, I can't remember. Do you have thigh bands with two D-ringsvonbeach Bands? If you have two was two locks used?

After your test with all option do you see any benefits from wearing it in meaningful situation?

dorothea

Maija Yes, I think I've read all of your posts about it too.

youdontknowme

Ines I think the purpose of such devices is for people who crave the restriction, which I would argue is more about submission than about chastity. But I also think similar arguments could be made, albeit to a lesser extent, about thigh bands in general - while they have uses in reducing belt struggles and enforcing modesty, they do so by limiting mobility and increasing dependence on the keyholder (exercise breaks in addition to hygiene breaks).

dorothea

Ines Compared with every other, block piece is the most restrictive of all

Yes for sure

Ines and truly it does not provide much more safety than normal chain, same than padlock it is excessive.

I would also say that, but it is probably the variant itself that is supposed to achieve something

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