Doro's theme.

Milord

Kaja I'm not pretending it's wrong. I expressed it as my experience. I just have a son, so unable to relate for it. Thanks for sharing your point of view

Sexuality is in the eye of the beholder. If for you it's not sexual, it's not sexual.
I don't think that for my friends is sexual, but they perceive it as totally unappropriate

youdontknowme

Milord I don't think that for my friends is sexual, but they perceive it as totally unappropriate

If the vast majority of exposure to nude grown-ups of the opposite sex is through pornography, bedroom activities with the spouse and similarly erotic events, it is probably easy to perceive nudity as too sex-adjacent for comfort. I do not think that this is a healthy perspective to have on the human body, but I can see how it would come about.

Milord

youdontknowme
I think it's more ties to pedophile accusation. Italy has hos own share of children abuse crime (most of them false) that scares a lot even normal people, and has been acquired. But again, I have to live this, and too old to have a daughter

Ines

Kaja He was changing my diapers at past.

It is totally different. When we become on girls, for me is very odd.
I do not make criticism about the more "natural" approach in your home, but that is unacceptable for me.

dorothea

Joh Ok. I understand but I asked you to get your view on this.

I think it's actually okay to try not to do it.

Ines It is totally different. When we become on girls, for me is very odd.

I see that too. With my dad it would only be ok in an emergency, with my mum it's a different matter.

Angelina

dorothea The first overnight stays will take place at the weekend.

this is certainly one of the most critical points, you shouldn't be disappointed if it doesn't work the first time and your mum should also show understanding, it's very difficult. Much sucess

youdontknowme And then we have people like Angelina's dad who takes a very keen interest in his daughter's sex life.

even if you are right, it sounds strange in that context. of course he had a great interest, otherwise he would never have put a chastity belt on me, but it is no higher than what is the case in other similar cases

youdontknowme

Angelina , it sounds strange in that context. of course he had a great interest, otherwise he would never have put a chastity belt on me

That was exactly what I was referring to, more or less. Proposing the belt and not taking no for an answer is bad enough, but belting the girl you were dating really took the cake.

dorothea

Angelina you shouldn't be disappointed if it doesn't work the first time and your mum should also show understanding, it's very difficult. Much sucess

The first night is over. If anything, I slept a little worse.
My mom was understanding too and I still had a few hours to sleep without the belt this morning.
The belt is now back on and should stay that way for the next night.

Angelina

youdontknowme

I agree with you, I just wanted to clarify because in the context of your post it read a bit like incest

Susan

dorothea My mum sees it similarly 😃 However, some restrictions do not represent a loss of comfort in her opinion.

AJ feels the same way. Restrictions are not defined as a loss of comfort.

Susan

Laura Why? Parents should be equal

To me it would seem weird if a man was a keyholder and did any unlocking or putting the belt back on.

Laura

Susan Even if it's just the waistband?

curious

Susan
It depends on how you grow up.
The US have a large influence from puretanian ideology. Very different from many European countries.
Here being naked around each other in a family is often completely nornal. Families share a bathroom in the morning because everyone needs to get ready for the day. Maybe the father shaving while the daughter has a shower.
Once you experience this form of non-sexual nakedness is normal in a family, I think who of the parents is operating the key makes no difference anymore.

dorothea

Laura Even if it's just the waistband?

I would say closing or opening the padlock itself would be ok.
But then there is still another level of supervision.

Milord

curious not at all. Never heard of families where it is normal to be naked in front of opposite sex teen children.

Angelina

curious Maybe the father shaving while the daughter has a shower.

it definitely happened several times, even before my time in the belt. i think the question is always why people see each other naked. if, as in your example, it's only for hygienic reasons in the bathroom, maybe you shouldn't have a big problem. the prerequisite, however, is that everyone thinks it's ok and feels comfortable

Milord where it is normal

maybe not normal, but sometimes there are no other options. accepting something or understanding it as normal are 2 different things

dorothea The first night is over. If anything, I slept a little worse.
My mom was understanding too and I still had a few hours to sleep without the belt this morning.
The belt is now back on and should stay that way for the next night.

good, it went better than with many others, I think you can build on that 🙂

Susan

curious It would seem weird to me to have a man locking and unlocking me. Maybe it's because I have not grown up around men. AJ is around full time when the belts are off to prevent cheating. Her seeing me naked is no big deal to me.

Sasha

Milord Wouldn’t say it’s common or universal, but seeing my siblings in various states of undress isn’t uncommon.

Kaja

Milord 👋

Milord

Sasha i think every family has his own rules and custom. I just want to point out that
"Very different from many European countries.
Here being naked around each other in a family is often completely nornal."
Is not true, or at least not everywhere.

youdontknowme

Europe is a big and diverse place. Modern-day Italy is not exactly the first place that would come to my mind when it comes to nudity outside of a sexual context, especially compared to Germany or France, or the nordics for that matter, but I would still expect their attitude to be more open to the idea than some corners of the USA.

Milord

Kaja
Ciso Kaja, I mean in real life.

Kaja

Milord My familly is an example. We still se other members nude.

Laura

dorothea I would say closing or opening the padlock itself would be ok.

The only thing my dad is allowed to do 😂

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