First night training

Laura

Dakshina From Spanish?

Dakshina

Ines

It happens with Spanish too, it is true.

Milord

Dakshina
What to say. "I understand its importance and I'm glad you care so much for me putting money and time to make me safe"
Or something similar. They must get the idea you are not fighting. Of course it will be useless and make your life more miserable (or at least I think).
But can you explain more about your situation? Are you studying? Will you be belted until marriage? how long it is expected to be this way? In any case, start learning how to do things without hands.

Dakshina

Milord I have finished my schooling and I am studying at an English language institute. The rest of the time I help my mother at home and do housework.until get married

Milord

Do you plan to work or you want to be an housewife?

Dakshina

Milord My mother likes to be a housewife and it is easier for me

Dakshina

Milord I should find a way to cheat the belt

Ines

Dakshina and it is easier for me

It is easier for everyone, I think.
If your husband can provide enough money and you feel self-realized with the home chores, go ahead.

Milord

Dakshina
You can’t cheat it. No girl has been able so far. You can learn to do without hands, or wait until your mother will get distracted.

@Joh suggestions are good. Since you can’t change it, accepting will make things easier. Let’s look at the reality. There is always a way, but you don’t want to pay the price. I’m not judging you. But since you decided for this way, pleasure will be denied to you. So better learn to live without.

dorothea

Hey, how are you now? Are you getting along a little better with everything in everyday life?

Dakshina I should find a way to cheat the belt

If this fits properly, you have no chance, I've already tried it 😉

Dakshina my mother told me that when I start wearing it 24/7, they will celebrate for me and my family will bring me gifts😀 What do you think?

Do many of the family know this? For me there are only very few.

Laura Depends on value of the gifts 😂

If the gifts are bands or bras 😃

Ines I would ask for a hippo or an helicopter.

How did you come up with the idea of a hippo?

Dakshina

Ines My mom took off the belt about an hour and a half ago and it gets harder to wear as time goes on

Milord

Dakshina

You should take, in my humble opinion, this time to understand what you expect for your life. If you chose the least effort path, comply and accept everything, your life will not be yours. It’s ok, lot of people are happy this way, and maybe you rank among them, but better is if you chose it, even freely, instead of just surrender to it.
My opinion

Dakshina

In our conversation, my mother told me that when I start wearing it 24/7, they will celebrate for me and my family will bring me gifts😀 What do you think?

Milord

Dakshina
It's up to you. Your family knows that you are losing a lot, and try to give you something in exchange because they probably fear you will try to lose as much time as possible. You will lose a lot, but how much it's important what you lose is up to you.
Noone but you know how much space you have. Here, where I live, pushing a girl in chastity without her consent is impossible. Not difficult, outright impossible. But we don't know anything about your environment.

Laura

Dakshina and my family will bring me gifts😀 What do you think?

Depends on value of the gifts 😂

Dakshina

Milord Maybe they want to encourage me to wear it

Dakshina

Milord But the belt will be accepted and closed. What do you think the encouragement is for?

Milord

Dakshina of course they want to encourage you. Once in seems very difficult to get out. My personal opinion is that for you the most difficult thing is to lose the ability to have orgasms. That I can totally understand. That’s beside the other damaging things I write in a specific post. Now, it’s all about what you can do, and what you cannot change. Only you know your family. A belt will remove a lot of control on your life. What you will receive in exchange? This is something you should talk with your parents

Dakshina

Milord No, my mom said I should wear the belt, but she said she would consider the benefits for me if I accepted the thigh band, but she would tell me the benefits in the future when I start wearing them 24/7.

Milord

Dakshina to make it as fast as possible

Angelina

Dakshina What do you think the encouragement is for?

I'm glad I finally found the time to read your thread.
Regarding your question, I think your family wants to motivate you to start wearing 24/7 as quickly as possible. You lose quite a lot, namely complete control over your sexuality. To compensate you, you will certainly get some nice things, but the question remains whether it is worth it?
I can't speak for you, but it's actually impossible to masturbate with a well-fitting belt, definitely impossible with thigh bands, so you should be prepared to go without for a very long time
Should you wear the belt until your wedding?

Ines

Dakshina but she said she would consider the benefits for me if I accepted the thigh band

Only benefit: the belt is much safer.

Milord

Ines I think she refers to additional benefits. Something like: The belt is due and there will be nothing in exchange. But tight bands are optional and will carry additional benefits.

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