First night training

Susan

Dakshina Maybe like a couple months, maybe a bit less. It was always 30 minutes more per day, every day. Then the over nights kicked in. AJ was understanding of the challenges, but always firm that I could do it and persistent to keep the pace. 24/7 was always the goal she kept reminding me.

Dakshina

Susan When I couldn't wear the belt last week, my mother opened it, but she said that I should start from this week

Susan

dorothea

dorothea The first night was the hardest ever. After that things slowly got a little better.

dorothea It's also good to know that you can always go to mum in the first few nights and she will open the belt if there is no other option

for me those were the hardest, I trained during the day but I new overnights were coming. It was hard to sleep at first and AJ would unlock it for a while, maybe an hour or so, but I had to wear it before going back to bed. AJ was sympathetic, but firm that we must keep moving forward. We trained over the weekends and over the summer until I eventually could handle it.

Dakshina

Susan How can I do this to make it easier?

Ines

Dakshina How long was your training period?

Years.

Greatcornbow

Dakshina

Dakshina Yes, I have to wear it until the wedding.

My guess is it'll be 24/7 after the wedding too, except when husband wants you himself.

And when's the wedding? Presumably yjen mom gives husband the keys?

Ines

Greatcornbow

Why?

@Dakshina

Do you have boyfriend? Does he know something about this?

Dakshina

Greatcornbow I know that I will wear it until the wedding, but I don't know after that, but my sister, who got married, is still wearing one, and her husband keeps the key.

Greatcornbow

Dakshina I will be wearing a belt tomorrow from 10:00 am to 7:30 pm and almost the next day the training for 24/7 will become more serious and I don't know how I am going to not masturbate.

It will stop you sooner or later

Dakshina

Ines no I don't havd

dorothea

Hey, how are you now? Are you getting along a little better with everything in everyday life?

Dakshina I should find a way to cheat the belt

If this fits properly, you have no chance, I've already tried it 😉

Dakshina my mother told me that when I start wearing it 24/7, they will celebrate for me and my family will bring me gifts😀 What do you think?

Do many of the family know this? For me there are only very few.

Laura Depends on value of the gifts 😂

If the gifts are bands or bras 😃

Ines I would ask for a hippo or an helicopter.

How did you come up with the idea of a hippo?

Dakshina

dorothea Hello
It's better during the days, but after wearing it, it gets harder. Yes, my family, like my aunt, knows that I wear this and they are happy.

Markus

@Dakshina which religion follow your family?
I thought Brahmacarya is only most important for Male.

Dakshina

Susan Yes, my mother told me that in a few days I have to wear it at night and I can't take off the belt at night unless I have a good reason.

Susan

Dakshina This is the hardest part. I think you have to accept it and not fight it. The more you fight it the harder it is. I think every girl that wears one feels that way at first, it gets easier over time,

Milord

Dakshina what is your sister idea? She's happy? Probably you will have the same experience as her.

Personal opinion: I value a lot personal freedom, so for me there is nothing worse than losing it. But I learned that there are people who think, legitimately, that a nice, easy, comfortable life, is much better than been free. So maybe it is the case for you, and you can achieve your heart desire this way. Maybe your mother and sister are happy this way, and you see their example. It's up to you.

Joh

Dakshina I know that I will wear it until the wedding, but I don't know after that, but my sister, who got married, is still wearing one, and her husband keeps the key.

I second @Sasha and @Milord advice. Think two times if you agree to wear thigh bands ever. I think it will be go only in one direction and if you agree you have to wear it all the time after.
You should also make it clear that you will wear your belt only until your wedding but not later on. They should hand out the keys to you and not to your future husband.

Dakshina

Today I started taking a supervised practice bath. My mom waited until we washed myself and then I put the belt back on. Then her bath told me to think about the thigh bands and give her an answer. She also said they would have some benefits for me.

Joh

Dakshina I would avoid it. I would make a barging to get something in exchange.

Milord

Dakshina you should ask for benefits before accepting. According to what I read it seems very difficult once you accept additional restrictions to remove them. It's a one way road.

Sasha

Dakshina She also said they would have some benefits for me.

Don’t accept anything unless you know what the reward/compensation is in advance. To much risk.
Even then, I’d say forget whatever they’re offering, only reason you should be wearing thigh bands, in my opinion, is that they provide you something personally. Not to make others happy

Milord

Sasha

this is true for the belt too. In the end she plays a game where others make the rules, and probably can be changed in every moment. See the sister: probably even for her it should have been until wedding, but after she's still belted, just changed keyholder. Tight bands can very easily been imposed to her as the belt has been. I advise against making wall

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