Ines I only say that even if it is decided do not use the belt a single second more, the natural step is to give the keys to the husband, not to us. I think it is very similar for most of us.
I know that my way of thinking is very different from yours, still I don't think it's fair. Belting is something going from parent and daughter. If it end with marriage, they should free her, not the husband.
I know that for you it's very romantic, but for me it's another way to say that the daughter is just an item traded to between parents and husband, something that happened in the past. Patriarchy at its highest.
This is of course my personal way to see things. I'm very fond of ownership, but not if given by someone else.