First night training

Joh

Dakshina Yes, I know how they work but it makes a difference if your band placed at top of your thighs or a third above your knees.
How did you feel when you have to wear the bands with only a lock between?

Dakshina

Joh I didn't like them and walking with them made me uncomfortable

Joh

Dakshina I suppose you walked mostly with your lower legs because now movement was possible with you thighs.
But so far it sounds like it did not leave a big impression on you. A nuisance but not more.

Laura

Dakshina There is a lock between them

Why not a chain?

Dakshina

Laura I don't know if my mother chose this, she thinks it makes a safer belt

Ines

Dakshina

Laura Why not a chain?

Exactly.

Dakshina I don't know if my mother chose this, she thinks it makes a safer belt

If she used a belt, she knows that improvement on safety between a chain and a padlock is despicable.

Renita

Dakshina I bet, that chastity bra will be the next.

dorothea

Dakshina There is a lock between them

The whole time?
I have very little experience with the bands myself, but over several days and then only one padlock, that's bad. That would be extremely bad even for experienced people, I think.

Joh

dorothea How Bad is was ist depended on several Points

where are the Bands located
one or two D-rings on each band
how larg was the Lock
If two D-rings was a Lock in each oposit pair of D-rings locked

If the bands is at high point of your thighs with a medium size Lock you can Walk but Not spread your legs far.

Dakshina

dorothea I have a question, have you ever tried to cheat on a belt and your mother found out?

Angelina

Dakshina I was curious to find a way to cheat the belt but I couldn't. I was in my room once at noon trying to slip a piece of paper under the belt but my mother she came to the room and found out and I took the thigh bandages for 4 days at noon

thanks for the update, how do you feel now that you wear the belt 24/7? i think that your attempts should not have the bands as a consequence, i don't think that's good, unless it was agreed beforehand and you should (if you have to) have a chain in between, just as safe as lock, but a bit more comfortable

Susan

Angelina I totally agree. My aunt knew I would try to cheat, and I did, but she knew it would not be successful and it wasn't. I only wore bands when she asked if I wanted to help stop the urges. I cant imagine why anyone would be OK with them other than at night in bed.

Angelina

Susan

My dad was similar at first as I tried to find ways to outsmart the belt, but eventually we agreed that normal fights were normal. Unfortunately, at that point he was already liking bands and bra too much

youdontknowme

Angelina at that point he was already liking bands and bra too much

I have a feeling he also liked the belt too much.

Susan

Angelina I read some of your earlier posts and that seems way out of bounce to me, but I know you have reconciled with him.

@Jenna knew that I would try and cheat and accepted it as normal behavior. I did try and cheat, especially when I was with my ex-BF. Sadly it never worked. We did use the bands a few times after I came home from nights with him and the urges were extreme. I can't imagine a bra though.

Angelina

youdontknowme I have a feeling he also liked the belt too much.

Yes, I can't deny that

Susan I read some of your earlier posts and that seems way out of bounce to me, but I know you have reconciled with him.

reconciled is perhaps the wrong word, i try to understand why he did it and believe he did it with good intentions

Susan

Angelina I understand. It was a little confusing for me at the beginning, but I never doubted Aunt Jenna had good intentions.

Angelina

Susan I understand. It was a little confusing for me at the beginning, but I never doubted Aunt Jenna had good intentions.

This is an important point and that is exactly why I have sometimes defended your aunt here, even if I think her decision is wrong. I think it's always important to see why someone does something, it explains a lot of things that might seem inexplicable at first glance

Susan

Angelina I agree and I know she appreciated your defense, even if were iffy on it. Intent is always important and should always be considered.

Kaja

Angelina Crime is crime. It does not depend on mitive. Possitive idea does not make it less horrible.

Joh

Angelina This is an important point and that is exactly why I have sometimes defended your aunt here, even if I think her decision is wrong. I think it's always important to see why someone does something, it explains a lot of things that might seem inexplicable at first glance

Do you think it would Change your View on your father at that time if he started with domestic punishment instead of a CB to get you folowing his view? The Intension would be the same and it would be still a family matter so the hovernment would have no saying in it as you told us several time how yousee it.

curious

Kaja
Wrong.
Motive is actually what makes a crime a crime in the frist place.
Want an example from history?
Was the attempt to assassinate Hitler a crime? Obviously yes. Not only under Nazi Germany law but even under current laws killing someone is a crime.
But if your motive is to end a war where thousands are killed every day and the way to end that war is killing the dictator, does that not justify the killing and make it not a crime?

Angelina

Kaja Crime is crime. It does not depend on mitive. Possitive idea does not make it less horrible.

regardless of the chastity belt, i would disagree with this in any situation, it always depends very much on why someone does something

curious Was the attempt to assassinate Hitler a crime? Obviously yes. Not only under Nazi Germany law but even under current laws killing someone is a crime.

right, if someone killed Putin tomorrow, many would be happy, but he still killed, but we would still think differently about him than about a serial killer who kills teenage girls

Joh Do you think it would Change your View on your father at that time if he started with domestic punishment instead of a CB to get you folowing his view?

On the one hand, it was never about me thinking exactly like him, of course he would have found it better if I had liked the belt, but it was about asserting his will because he thought he knew better what was good for me. I can't answer your actual question exactly, we never had physical punishments, maybe I would see it differently if I knew it that way. The CB wasn't a punishment either. For me, punishment was always limited in time, the belt was a long-term measure

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