Dress code

Vanessa

Even if I like to do it especially for my partner,I've always liked to be looked at!🙂

It's good for self esteem to know we please,even if not flirting.

Angelina

i feel a bit slutty in front of EVERYTHING NOW WHERE I AM IN A RELATIONSHIP; I WOULDN'T DO IT MORE, but there are a lot of boys and girls looking after me too 😉

Vanessa

Angelina

Why are you "screaming"(writing in caps)?

I still like to be looked at,even when in a relationship,but I would accept to not dress too sexy except with him/her,if it hurts him/her when I dress in a way which would make other people look at me,with sexual thoughts.

Angelina

Vanessa

that was an accidentally sorry 😂

i also like to be looked at, but since i am in a relationship, i don't pay that much attention anymore 😉

Vanessa

Angelina

No problem.

I think it is always pleasant when we know other people think we're attractive,but it is a bit less important when in a serious relationship,right.

Angelina

Vanessa

but I agree with you, it feels really good (sometimes) 😉

Vanessa

Angelina

😉

Avery

Vanessa Some similarities with my dress code...

Does these restrictions frustrate you,too?

What happen if you disobey?

It is somewhat frustrating. But we had a school dress code in high school that was even worse (no bare shoulders, no bare tummies, no short skirts) so in some ways he is lenient. In fact he IS lenient. I don't have to wear a bra for instance. Of course I'm too flat for many to notice. I would not defy him nor do like girls who leave the house in one thing and change to something else in the car or a bathroom or someone else's house. I have a big stake in him trusting me and t's not worth it to cheat on a shirt or some pants.

Joh

Avery I have a big stake in him trusting me

Trust is the base for good relation. As you wrote it is not worth to break.

Sin When you think about it, we're basically a curvy stick (spine) floating on a wobbly base (sacrum) that's balancing on ball joints (hips) held up by a pair of hinges (knees).

Not only that. You have on the right and left side of you hip your legs. To not fall to one side if you lift one foot you have to move your centre of gravity to the other side. This is one of the problem to get robots walking well on two legs. Three legs, no problem.

Sin just teach yoga

I started with yoga and it helps with my back problems. The only problem is it starts sooo early.

Vanessa

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Avery we had a school dress code

Ok,never got one,so I may feel differently to have one due to my parents' decision.

Avery I don't have to wear a bra for instance.

Good!

In my case,it would be severely punished...

Avery leave the house in one thing and change to something else in the car or a bathroom or someone else's house.

I did,and still do,it often,mainly in my best friend's house!😉

Avery I have a big stake in him trusting me and t's not worth it to cheat on a shirt or some pants.

Understandable,but not easy to accept to not wear clothes you would like to wear.

Angelina my father should never know that 😂

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Joh This is one of the problem to get robots walking well on two legs. Three legs, no problem.

Boston Dynamics manage it well,with the Atlas,however.

Angelina

I read it too.

Laura

Avery I don't have to wear a bra for instance

I always have to wear a bra even at home

Avery

Vanessa In my case,it would be severely punished...

In my case few would notice.

Avery

Vanessa I did,and still do,it often,mainly in my best friend's house!

Good. Glad you can manage it.

Avery

Vanessa Understandable,but not easy to accept to not wear clothes you would like to wear.

Now that I'm at university with my own room there it;s not such a problem though in winter one has to wear more clothes anyway.

Vanessa

Avery Good. Glad you can manage it.

Most of the time,yes.

Avery Now that I'm at university with my own room there it;s not such a problem though in winter one has to wear more clothes anyway.

Sure,it helps to have your own place!🙂

Angelina

Joh Yes, it does but yoga is the best I found for myself.

ok, it was just an idea. i hope it helps you. 🙂

Sin All these young kiddies supposedly wearing thigh bands 24/7 are gonna be a gold mine for me in ten years time!

i really don't know whether to laugh or be sad now 😉

Vanessa Most of the time,yes.

Have you ever been caught and punished?

Vanessa

Avery

I don't understand what you mean...

Avery

Vanessa I don't understand what you mean...

Maybe I'm confused on what we were saying. Having my own place only helps me wear certain things because I can take my belt off to put them on. Like the bikinis I want or pants cut low or shorts that show part of my bum. I doesn't matter.

Vanessa

Avery

OK,I understand better.

I meant more not having a dress code to follow!😉

Angelina Have you ever been caught and punished?

Yes,and pretty severely(especially as I've planned to do it and tried to deceive them).

Angelina

Vanessa Yes,and pretty severely(especially as I've planned to do it and tried to deceive them).

understandable, it is a form of fraud. did you still continue to do it afterwards or was the punishment too much of a deterrent?

Vanessa

Angelina understandable, it is a form of fraud.

Yes.

Angelina did you still continue to do it afterwards or was the punishment too much of a deterrent?

Generally,I obey for some time,to avoid it being considered as a "repeated offense".

For most of the offenses,it is considered a repeated offense if I do it a second time in less than 1 month after my last punishment for it,and it would make the punishment more severe.

Some offenses are always considered as a repeated offense,like smoking,being drunk,etc;..,no matter when was my last punishment for it.

Angelina

Vanessa Generally,I obey for some time,to avoid it being considered as a "repeated offense".

interesting, thanks for your explanation, because i assume that's why you have to wear the belt permanently now 🙁

Vanessa

Angelina

Yes,my parents finally thought it was better to prevent such offenses,instead of punishing these too often...

Angelina

Vanessa

i understand that, but what i don't understand is why you weren't told. if i remember your posts on misterpoll correctly it took you almost a year to know it was going to be permanent, i don't think that's fair.

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