Difficulties ordering a belt.

Laura

Milord how many girls

I personally know around 10, but maybe more

Milord why noone is in this site?

Why do you think so? People read more than write especially on such a delicate topic

Angelina

Laura Yes and no. I was discussed a while ago since younger family members mostly worn mysteel

maybe it really is time for a new belt, how old is yours now?

Renita

Angelina maybe it really is time for a new belt

Or time to stop wearing 😃

Laura

Angelina how old is yours now?

Almost 15

Renita Or time to stop wearing

No, it's not an option

Milord

Renita

Oh, I never guessed you think on this like me. I'm happy

Milord

Laura No, it's not an option

Becoming a proper cat lady, lonely and depressed, requires a lot of dedication. Do you want her to stop after 15 years? Waste all this work?

EDIT: I tried to resist, but among everyone here @Laura your situation is the worst one.

Angelina

Laura Almost 15

already a bit old, maybe get a new one or as many say finally stop. it doesn't have to be forever, but maybe you should free yourself from these family constraints, you don't seem happy about it 😟
and if you're wondering why I think this way too, @MissBlossom has already written about it and I've noticed that what you write about yourself always seems more reserved then a few years ago.
maybe i'm wrong, but you gave me a place where i could experience so many positive things, thank you for that. if you need any help let me/us know ❤️

Renita

Laura No, it's not an option

For you or your parents?

Renita

Milord I never guessed you think on this like me

Not really. We are talking about different things. Her parents should stop supporting her in this.

Laura

Milord but among everyone here @Laura your situation is the worst one.

Why is it?

youdontknowme

Laura Sometimes it feels more like resignation than like enthusiasm. Unlike happily-belted people like Ines or people who strive for freedom like Alexis.

Milord

Laura

A person to be fullfilled (not happy, just having a life) at your age should be independent and owner of his or her own life
At 35 you should
Live away from parents, in your home
Have meaningful relationships
Have a significant other, or at least hope to have it
Have a job
Have a family
Have an healthy sexual life
Have satisfying hobbies

What you have? Just a job, and maybe hobbies
Nothing else.
Someone can be happy without all of this things?
Sure, if he chooses so:
A priest. An activist, a monk, a street artist, something else
But your status is not your choose, but your parents

All the people from misterpoll moved forward. Married, and no more here, unbelted
Other people here are looking forward, have at least hope
@WriterAlexis is working to get out and will likely go NC with her parents
@Ines is happy, with a boyfriend
@Sasha has a girlfriend

A lot of girls have been belted, have freed themself, and get out. Except you. And you are even missing the basic human desire that allow to endure: hope

What I think about you is that you are quietly desperate. So yes, your situation is the worse one

MissBlossom

Laura Milord but among everyone here @Laura your situation is the worst one.

Why is it?

Because you seem the most sad.

Laura I juts want to become a normal woman

MissBlossom In what way do you feel abnormal?

Laura Virginity

Laura

youdontknowme Sometimes it feels more like resignation than like enthusiasm

If I was not a chastity belts enthusiast I wouldn't run this forum

Milord E.g. lack of relationships. True, but it doesn't answer why my situation is worst

Milord

This is my perception, based on what I read. It's not mean to be offensive, and of course @laura own me nothing, not even an explanation. This is what it appears to me.

pestulens

Laura You have always been reticent to talk in detail about your situation, which is totally fair, but reading through what you have written it is easy to see why people would conclude you are deeply unhappy about it. Add to that, from our perspective, your situation has seemed relatively static over the past 5 years while others who were unhappy with their situation have seen it change and I can see where they are coming from.
That isn't to say that is the case, I assume there is a lot going on in your life we don't know about and that is your prerogative.

At the end of the day, people mean well but may be jumping to conclusions. Try not to judge them too harshly (or do, you are the site admin after all).

Milord

Laura If I was not a chastity belts enthusiast I wouldn't run this forum

I know more than one traumatized person running forum to find people in the same situation. It's human,but it hardly qualify as enthusiasm

Milord

Laura E.g. lack of relationships. True, but it doesn't answer why my situation is worst

Lack of hope makes your situation the worst. Everyone else one way or another will get out.
You are the only one locked in indefinitely.

Laura

Milord You are the only one locked in indefinitely.

Is this your definition of "worst"?

Milord

Laura

Laura, again, lack of hope makes you the worst case. Not that you are the worse, but that your situation is the worse one among the others

Maybe you are the happiest person in the world, and you will never had a single regret

But from your messages it seems the exact contrary

Laura

Angelina nd I've noticed that what you write about yourself always seems more reserved then a few years ago.

Yes, because I don't like what's going on with the forum. And it makes me sad

Angelina but you gave me a place where i could experience so many positive things, thank you for that

Thank you for these words

James

Laura Yes, because I don't like what's going on with the forum. And it makes me sad

What don't you like, Laura?

Angelina

Laura Yes, because I don't like what's going on with the forum. And it makes me sad

What exactly don't you like? Maybe we can all help together so that you can identify more with the forum again

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