Newbies! What do you wish for from the forum?

Sasha

Angelina This is a great idea, hopefully Laura gets some good ideas from this thread.

Angelina

Sasha hopefully Laura gets some good ideas from this thread.

that would of course be nice, even if i understand if users have inhibitions.

oceandeviantcn

focus on female chastity

Milord

oceandeviantcn

Hi. You should present yourself in introduction thread

Padre

oceandeviantcn
I think there should be room for any gender. Anyone can have questions, desires, or just want to tell and read about experiences.

Laura

oceandeviantcn focus on female chastity

Don't we?

Angelina

oceandeviantcn

I would be delighted to receive an introduction from you 🙂

why do you think so? i personally never had problems with men in the forum (and in the belt), but i've read this criticism a few times. what would you do differently?

oceandeviantcn

Laura Yes! I appreciate this very much. So keep it!

oceandeviantcn

Angelina Thank you. My reason is very simple. Nowadays, you can find many male chastity forum, such as chastity mansion, etc. To the best of my knowledge, however, there is no more active forum for female chastity (in English) except this one. Therefore, I hope this forum to focus on female chastity. The contents of male chastity and others like emphasis on "I am not force to be in chastity" are ok, but should never be overwhelming than female chastity.

toad

I'd like to see a return to civility. To my mind this used to be a safe place for young inquisitive women. Now i often see people doubting their sincerity and motives. The generous heartfelt help seems to have been replaced by acusations and hurtful self-justified speech. I'm all for men in chastity (i am one) but i do think the needs of the young women need to come well before the needs of the males. Let's make this a safe and loving place again. thank you.

Angelina

toad I'd like to see a return to civility. To my mind this used to be a safe place for young inquisitive women. Now i often see people doubting their sincerity and motives. The generous heartfelt help seems to have been replaced by acusations and hurtful self-justified speech. I'm all for men in chastity (i am one) but i do think the needs of the young women need to come well before the needs of the males. Let's make this a safe and loving place again. thank you.

it's a pity that i can only give one like, this post speaks from my heart, thank you 🙂

oceandeviantcn

yes, i agree, even in fetish/kink forums it's mostly about male chastity, i think a bit more focus on female chastity again would help. do you have any ideas on what we can do to achieve this?

toad

toad everyone could be mindful of the indended purpose of the group and act accordingly. I said the could......will they? Doubtful

Laura

oceandeviantcn To the best of my knowledge, however, there is no more active forum for female chastity (in English) except this one.

https://www.beltedgirls.com/forum/

oceandeviantcn

Moreover, discussions on force and reluctant used are stupid.
NO MORE boring thread about this!
Firstly, in many countries, such as the USA, if a girl doesn't want to use chastity belt, then simply come to police for help. The discussions on this are meaningless.
Secondly, if a girl is really living in a cultural that wearing chastity is necessary (it might even be just family culture), then why not show respect to their cultural? Why it is wrong to require girls to wear chastity belts? Why should everyone take your values as standard?

Milord

oceandeviantcn please, we already had our fight on how for some of us blatant violations of basic human rights cannot be justified as cultural diversity (what about infibulation? Stoning cheating women? Incarceration of homosexuals?).

If you feel the need of discussing there is a thread here.
https://unwedchastity.org/d/1051-curious-vs-milord

But honestly I already went through this, so I pass

As for parental belting, feel free to read here
https://unwedchastity.org/d/1006-why-it-is-wrong-for-a-parent-to-use-chastity-on-offspring

And of course to add your ideas

Kaja

oceandeviantcn I hope that it is joke. Or do you think that Honor killing is the same example and no problem?

oceandeviantcn

Milord Your thinkings are always arrogant and it seems like that you never learn to repsect other cultures. All you know is "human rights", but never thinking what are human rights and why people should stand with you.

Milord

oceandeviantcn

Welcome. Happy to have you here.

oceandeviantcn

Laura Thank you! I know this forum, but it is not active as this one.

oceandeviantcn

Kaja Let me give you an example. Why are you alive but the people in Gaza are dying? Don't tell me they SHOULD have the right to live, because in reality they REALLY don't. If you have some "human rights", it's not because you SHOULD have them, but because someone has paid the price, such as soldiers and police in your country.

pestulens

oceandeviantcn I am going to suggest you might want to look into the meaning of the English word "rights".

Joh

oceandeviantcn I recommend you leave this Kind of discussion Out of the forum or ppost it in Valadars topics.

Laura

oceandeviantcn If you want to talk about politics I will enroll you into hidden group. Otherwise political discussions are not allowed.

Kaja

oceandeviantcn You did not amswer my question. Do you agree with honor killing in muslim society or not?