Introductions-2

l0ckedFlower_bud

Hello there!
I'm Anja, 18, nearly 19 from Austria. Im a transwoman and locked for quite a while now. This is due to a few reasons with some of them having to do with my parents, my partner and my own morals. Found this page only a few days ago and after typing and retyping this message countless times, I decided to finally introduce me here as well. 😊

Damien

l0ckedFlower_bud Welcome Anja.

pestulens

l0ckedFlower_bud Welcome, people will probably ask you a lot of questions, feel free to answer as much or as little as you care to.

Milord

Should probably move this discussion to another tread to avoid clogging up the new intro thread.

Rina

l0ckedFlower_bud

Welcome!

l0ckedFlower_bud some of them having to do with my parents

What has made you wear a chastity belt? Are your parents accepting that you are trans but also expects high level of modesty (I saw many families that require chastity belt in this forum usually don't expect boys to be belted / caged but expects girls to), or other reasons, such as protection, or dealing with dysphoria? (I know globally, trans women are more likely to be exposed to sexual assault etc...)

l0ckedFlower_bud my partner and my own morals

So you believe wearing chastity belt fulfills your moral belief, maybe you value premarital chastity, or as a symbol of fidelity to your partner?

Angelina

Milord So there is not an agreement here.

read carefully what I wrote, I meant an agreement between parents and children that the belt is not worn, i.e. an understanding of the parents without the involvement of state authorities

l0ckedFlower_bud

welcome to the forum 🙂

l0ckedFlower_bud Chaste as locked

sorry if I missed it, but who has the keys?

Milord

Sasha I think that to deny this need a level of hypocrisy well outside my ability.

Milord

shinydiamond77 out of curiosity, may I know what kind of irreparable damage inflict to themselves the 99,9999% of the girls that are unbelted? In which way removing body autonomy from your daughters has made them more successful, more happy and more fulfilled than the other girls?

Laura

Rina I saw many families that require chastity belt usually don't expect boys to be belted / caged but expects girls to

My family is such an example

Milord

Rina (I saw many families that require chastity belt usually don't expect boys to be belted / caged but expects girls to),

Out of curiosity. You saw many families? Because I don't know a single family in real life that will even consider belting a daughter. Not a single one.

l0ckedFlower_bud

Rina hi there ^^

To answer your questions, yes my parents are accepting of me being trans, but always instilled the value in me to save myself up not exactly for marriage, but for an impirtant other person. So i came across chastity myself, but actually got my first cage together with my partner, who shares my values. 🙂
Also my parents are aware that i am chaste, but not exactly involved in it, but they do support me.
Plus the cage, and hopefully sooner then later the belt actually help with my dysphoria as well.

And for your second question, its more a sign of fidelity for me. And also that i do not fully trust myself to be unlocked.
Hope that answers your questions, but youre always free to ask more ^^ am a pretty open person

Rina

Milord Out of curiosity. You saw many families? Because I don't know a single family in real life that will even consider belting a daughter. Not a single one.

To be more specific, family of members here who are belted by parents, not people in real life.

Milord

Rina but not in real life, and not even on other forum about chastity or anywhere else on the internet. Just here, right?

C-B

Sasha Your case too?

Rina

Milord Just here, right?

Yes, just this forum.

youdontknowme

l0ckedFlower_bud Also my parents are aware that i am chaste,

Chaste as in abstaining from meaningless sex or chaste as in locked?

l0ckedFlower_bud

youdontknowme Chaste as locked, and thanks to that abstaining from meaningless sex

youdontknowme

l0ckedFlower_bud interesting. May I ask how you brought the topic up and what their initial reaction was?

l0ckedFlower_bud

Angelina
Hia.
So there are 3 keys for my cage, the main one is owned by my partner. My parents have one in an sealed envelope for cases if emergency. And i have one, but its inside a "plastic box" that fits exactly 2 of those chastity keys, and is sealed with a numbered plastic tag. That one is mainly in my handbag, if some kind of emergency happens. Because thanks to the plastic seal it can be easily checked if i retrieved the key.

Marder

shinydiamond77 Excellent post. I wish you would be writing more often.

shinydiamond77 I don't post here anymore because people have clearly shown that I'm not welcome here, so why bother.

I wonder who could be meant by this 🤣

l0ckedFlower_bud

youdontknowme
They actually found my second cage, due to me not being really careful and forgetting to put it away. And they brought it up later, so we talked quite long about the subject, and how i really want this for myself. In the end their first reaction was surprised and a bit confused but over all supportive 🙂

shinydiamond77

Angelina are you planning to do the same for your younger daughter?

Yes.

Angelina anyway, i hope to read more from you soon, i always found your view of things very interesting

Sorry, but I'm not going to be posting much, if at all. There isn't much to post anyway - I don't think there's anything I can say that I haven't said already.
I'm glad you found my posts interesting, and I hope you can apply what I've said to hanatan to your own situation, too.

Angelina

shinydiamond77 and I hope you can apply what I've said to hanatan to your own situation, too.

i see tell you haven't been on the forum for a long time, i'm married now and don't wear the belt anymore (or almost, i took part in the Locktober for fun with my wife as keyholder) 🙂

l0ckedFlower_bud

may i ask if you live with your partner or your parents?

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