My daughters potential chastity

Milord

PigtailSam you are very close now. But abuses change this very fast. Btw, do you have other daughters or sons? Because you said your “oldest”
In case you have what will you do?

Milord

PigtailSam my wife is in chastity. It will not prevent sex, as long as I hold the key.
Anyway you can see that in the only place on all the internet where belting a daughter is acceptable most of us are still against. This alone should suggest that it’s really a bad idea.

Now, if I have to follow my guts, I’m pretty sure that it will end with her belted, lot of suffering, and how happy you are about her accepting to be tormented by her mother.

Joh

PigtailSam I think as long as she can not see she has a problem you can not help her.

Reduce their pocket money and support to the minimum. Be there when she asks for help, otherwise let her beat her head against the wall. If she comes to the realisation that she can't do it on her own and asks for help, you can help her too.
Some people come to this realisation quickly and others very slowly. That's just the way it is.

Philip

pestulens It really is not premature. If you just do a little analysis on this persons writing style statically they are identical.

PigtailSam

Philip It really is not premature. If you just do a little analysis on this persons writing style statically they are identical.

Not sure where you learned writing analysis. I pulled up that other person profile to see what you were taking about. They were belting nieces, not daughters. They also cared about sinning and religious reasons. I could care less about religious and sin. I just want her to not end up pregnant and finish college.

Philip

PigtailSam Really?

MissBlossom

PigtailSam what would be the typical activities that would allow if off for both of us? (After the initial break in period)

Cleaning breaks, swimming, exercise, doctor's appointments, going places with metal detectors (government buildings, concerts, air travel, etc.), the occasional day or night off for good behavior or mental health, etc.

Two good questions for the keyholder to always have at the ready when the wearer asks for a break are "are you in any discomfort or distress?" and "is this a want or a need?"

In years past, there were times when I really wanted a break just because and it was kind of embarrassing to admit "want."

There were also times when the belt combined with other life stressors really was too much for me and even just a couple of hours out of it was enough to let me reset emotionally. My husband always puts my well-being first and takes it very seriously when I say "need." Of course, I only say it when it is really true, and it's been many years since I've had to say it, partly because I've gotten better at wearing a belt and partly because he understands my needs better without me needing to tell him.

The fancy steel belt I was looking at claims you can wash yourself with it on don’t doesn’t need to come off often.

See https://unwedchastity.org/d/1098-time-between-unlock for a discussion of times between cleaning breaks. The consensus seems to be that once a day is best and you really shouldn't go longer than a week at a time. Obviously you will need more cleaning breaks during your period, probably multiple times a day.

I don’t mind a bit of discomfort. How do you poop with it on.

Going is the easy part. Cleaning up afterwards is the part that will be more or less of a challenge depending on the rear configuration of your belt. If you don't have the Florentine style you may want to carry wet wipes with you.

The one my husband liked has a bird that goes ups bum to prevent anal sex as well.

Hehe. Yeah, he loves the idea if he's already fantasizing about extra accessories. lol

I did ask what he thinks of it. He says he doesn’t care if i wear one or not, but he would still why the same amount of sex.

He's just playing it cool. Bring it up again while you're in his arms and see what happens to his heart rate and breathing rate! lol

PigtailSam

MissBlossom Hehe. Yeah, he loves the idea if he's already fantasizing about extra accessories. lol

Typo, wire up but crack, Not “bird”

MissBlossom

Philip Ah welcome back Jenna

I am looking forward to this fantasy story.

I try to give people the benefit of the doubt most of the time.

@PigtailSam if you really are @Jenna, please don't do this.

PigtailSam

MissBlossom if you really are @Jenna

I’m not. I had to search the profile to see what you’re taking about.

Kaja

PigtailSam There is one solition. The word is contraception. We are saying it all the time but your ears are stuffy and your mind is clouded.

MissBlossom

PigtailSam Typo, wire up but crack, Not “bird”

From what I read, that's the option that allows for the most activity while wearing the belt, but also the one that's the messiest to clean up after going number 2.

Also very important to clean fully every time to avoid a rash.

This seems like the option with the heaviest burden, and thus with this option all of my comments about bearing the burden with her go double.

PigtailSam

“> Sasha Let her crash and burn, and be there to help her pick up the pieces. But beyond making her aware of the consequences, she's presumably a legal adult, it's time she acts it and gets to experience the fallout of bad choices”

Some things like pregnancy can not be undone. She doesn’t care about consequences. I’d rather her not fail college, but that is not as big a deal as getting pregnant

Helena

PigtailSam Does she accompany you in the measurement?

Milord

PigtailSam
It's insane to think that someone who will not accept an anti-pregnancy system that much less invasive can accept a chastity belt, the most intrusive system ever devised. It will never works.

Kaja

PigtailSam Abortion.

Helena

PigtailSam What kind of belt do you have in mind for her and are the measurements there?

PigtailSam

Helena I was thinking this one from fancy steel. https://fancysteel.com/collections/women/products/fs2-womens-chastity-belt-high-waist

Maybe upgrade to the more ergonomic one later. Production time is 3-4 week on this one but 90 day on the ergonomic one.

Damien

https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/depo-provera/about/pac-20392204#:~:text=Depo%2DProvera%20is%20a%20well,ovaries%20from%20releasing%20an%20egg.

Helena

PigtailSam Sounds good, but why don't you try MySteel or NeoSteel?

Helena

PigtailSam I think My Steel models look more comfortable and safer

CathER

PigtailSam try a hip style if you can. Works with more clothes.

PigtailSam

Milord It's insane to think that someone who will not accept an anti-pregnancy system that much less invasive can accept a chastity belt, the most intrusive system ever devised. It will never works.

Insane is a bit strong. But a chastity belt can be done at home. An injection or the one a doctor needs to do has to be done at a doctor. They won’t administer it unless she is completely agreeable to it. Also birth control doesn’t prevent std. chastity would

Laura

Milord Anti pregnancy system goes inside, a chastity belt stays outside. That's the difference

Damien

PigtailSam birth control doesn’t prevent std. chastity would

You cannot prevent oral and anal sex with a belt, so the risk of STD remains unchanged.

PigtailSam

Damien unless she has a cut in her mouth she can’t get any of the really bad ones like aids through oral. We were considering a belt with a wire up butt crack. Doesn’t that prevent anal?

Milord

PigtailSam help me understand better. You are planning exploiting your own daughter on the base that she loves you too much to ask help from authorities?

If it is the case, how you can even imagine that this will work? I mean, it’s doomed to failure. One way or another you are damaging her, or yourself, or both.

Also, you are not considering what will happen after. You say she loves you. Let’s see how her love will resist when she will demand you to be opened and you refuse, when she will beg for release, and all the issues you will have. Say goodbye to your family peace

Lastly: you don’t trust her enough to take care of herself, but you trust her enough that she will keep secret how her family abuses her?

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