Newbie's questions

Angelina

I would see it as a kind of in-between thing.

i think that the tighbands can be used for bondage as well, but this is not the original purpose. i think it is an additional restriction to make the belt even more secure and to remind the wearer permanently of the belt

going to work is possible, but it takes a lot of getting used to at the beginning, it also depends on how long the chain is and where the tighbands are placed

Saintprudence

I’m not sure what’s worse — the fact the bands don’t offer even the slightest hope of relief whatsoever, or that my bout of self-pleasure reminded me why I was addicted in the first place before my belting.

Angelina

Saintprudence

logically seen the first

emotionally seen the second

what is worse for you, you have to know for yourself 🙂

Saintprudence

My wife keeps half-jokingly (I think) suggesting that since I've worn them so well for the past week, I should stay thighbanded permanently. This quarantine can't end soon enough!

Angelina

Saintprudence

i hope that after the quarantine you will be quickly freed from the tighbands again, not that your wife gets any bad ideas 🤣

Vanessa

Saintprudence

As you still feel guilty,it is not a bad idea she takes more care to not let you do it again easily.But I'm sorry for you you got punished and have to wear the thigh bands.

Angelina in the beginning he didn't know it and thought it was a serious offense, but he got more information and accepts it now 🙂

Good he took care to learn more about it!🙂

Angelina your parents also use the tighbands and the bra as punishment instruments

Yes,but it is closely related to chastity;adding chains and this sort of stuff,they may feel it more like fetish use of it,or bondage stuff.

And these are only used as punishment if I wear these permanently for a decided duration.I can have to use these for the intial purpose sometimes(more the chastity bra than the thigh bands).

Saintprudence

She may decide you have to wear these permanently when you're at home,too...😉

Angelina

Vanessa Yes,but it is closely related to chastity;adding chains and this sort of stuff,they may feel it more like fetish use of it,or bondage stuff.

according to mysteel the connection chains also have a chastity reference, that we cannot pull the bra upwards, but i think this is just a marketing strategy 😉

Vanessa And these are only used as punishment if I wear these permanently for a decided duration.I can have to use these for the intial purpose sometimes(more the chastity bra than the thigh bands).

fortunately, I envy you

even though I understand that it is a hard punishment for you, because you don't usually feel these limitations

Vanessa

Angelina according to mysteel the connection chains also have a chastity reference, that we cannot pull the bra upwards, but i think this is just a marketing strategy 😉

Possible,yes.

Interesting to notice that the chastity bra,thigh bands and chains are in the "bondage" part of their site,however.

Angelina fortunately, I envy you

even though I understand that it is a hard punishment for you, because you don't usually feel these limitations

Yes,I am "lucky", compared to several of us here,who have to wear these permanently...It would be very awful for me!

Sara2001

Vanessa Yes,I am "lucky", compared to several of us here,who have to wear these permanently...It would be very awful for me!

I can tell you it is. Even if I wear my bra for Daniel, the combination of bra, belt and bands is very uncomfortable to wear 24/7. I think more than once a day how good it would feel to get rid of anything. Realistic I at least can look forward to get rid of the tightbands in a few years. I think they are the most restrictive part in day to day life.

Angelina

Vanessa Interesting to notice that the chastity bra,thigh bands and chains are in the "bondage" part of their site,however.

with the tighbands I can understand it because it is a kind of bondage (even if it is not the main purpose), but the bra definitely not

Sara2001 I think more than once a day how good it would feel to get rid of anything.

that's true, I also think about it at least once a day, often even more often

Sara2001 I think they are the most restrictive part in day to day life.

I definitely agree with that. 🙁

Vanessa

Sara2001

I can imagine it.When I've to wear my chastity bra,I'm impatient to take it off(and I think often too how good it would feel to not have my chastity belt on,too...).

Yes,at least,you'll be free of thighbands.No chance to be free of the chastity bra,at least for some days/weeks(for example when it is hot,or similar),when married?

Angelina with the tighbands I can understand it because it is a kind of bondage (even if it is not the main purpose), but the bra definitely not

Maybe it is less used for non-fetish chastity?Or they put it in the bondage part because they only want to have the chastity belts in the main part of the site.

Angelina that's true, I also think about it at least once a day, often even more often

Logical,I think.

Angelina

Vanessa .When I've to wear my chastity bra,I'm impatient to take it off(and I think often too how good it would feel to not have my chastity belt on,too...).

That's because it's an unusual feeling for you. For Sara and me it's unfortunately already routine

Vanessa Maybe it is less used for non-fetish chastity?

probably, only few buy the bra for the original purpose. i would have made a separate category for the bra and not put it in bondage

Sara2001

Vanessa Yes,at least,you'll be free of thighbands.No chance to be free of the chastity bra,at least for some days/weeks(for example when it is hot,or similar),when married?

I don't think this is very likely, he loves the chastity bra a lot, or better what it does.

Vanessa

Angelina That's because it's an unusual feeling for you. For Sara and me it's unfortunately already routine

I guess that,as you wear it permanently,and can't take it off,even if still unpleasant,the feelings can be different,yes...

Angelina probably, only few buy the bra for the original purpose. i would have made a separate category for the bra and not put it in bondage

However,as there is only one model for the bra,there would be only one item in this category,way too less...Chastity gear,with belt and bra would have been good,or put the bra in "accessories".Anyway,I think that,when the bra is used for the original purpose,it is more due to the ad they seem to put in the box,when they sell a chastity belt.

Sara2001 I don't think this is very likely, he loves the chastity bra a lot, or better what it does.

Too bad...🙁 Not possible to negotiate to wear it part-time only,while letting him decide when it would be taken off or not?

Angelina

Vanessa I guess that,as you wear it permanently,and can't take it off,even if still unpleasant,the feelings can be different,yes...

exactly, it's still an unpleasant feeling, but we hardly know it any other way

Vanessa

i could hardly put the bra in a category, so i would make a category of its own, even if it is just a product. but i don't want to interfere with mysteel's company policy right now 😉

Sara2001

Vanessa Not possible to negotiate to wear it part-time only,while letting him decide when it would be taken off or not?

I can't expect this

Vanessa

Angelina exactly, it's still an unpleasant feeling, but we hardly know it any other way

Not since months or years,at least.

Angelina i could hardly put the bra in a category, so i would make a category of its own, even if it is just a product. but i don't want to interfere with mysteel's company policy right now 😉

😉

Give them tips in exchange for a key for your belt! 😛

Sara2001 I can't expect this

🙁

Sara2001 I normally get a release nowadays, any 1-2 weeks he plays with them for a while.

Not much,but better than nothing...

Angelina

Sara2001

i have a question, some time ago you didn't get any more releases concerning the bra

it was because you were struggling to cope and had problems getting used to it

did you get a release in the meantime?

Sara2001

Angelina it was because you were struggling to cope and had problems getting used to it

It was for getting used to it, but not really for struggling. 🙂

Angelina did you get a release in the meantime?

I normally get a release nowadays, any 1-2 weeks he plays with them for a while.

Angelina

Sara2001 It was for getting used to it, but not really for struggling.

Yes, I can't always tell the difference. 😂

Sara2001 I normally get a release nowadays, any 1-2 weeks he plays with them for a while.

that's nice, good that you get occasional releases 🙂

Angelina

Vanessa Not since months or years,at least.

10 months, only opened for cleaning and 4 days ago a short break to play

but otherwise always locked 🙁

Vanessa Give them tips in exchange for a key for your belt! 😛

this would be the deal of a lifetime 😂

Vanessa Not much

I would carefully disagree with that.

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