Newbie's questions

Esteban

Angelina my father will unlock the tighbands for me before the sport and put them on again after the sport. Condition is however that I remain the whole time in the field of vision of my father.

In fact you wear the thigh band permanently with the padlock and the chastity bra.
I deduce that among all the girls, it is unfortunately you who have the most strict regime in matters of chastity.

Angelina

Esteban

not quite, i wear the padlock only in the evening and at night, during the day i have a chain (i managed to change it recently 😉 )

but you're right, I probably have the strictest regime although Vanessa and Sara are also not far away 🙁

Vanessa

Angelina the control of the diary resulted in nothing special, my father was relatively satisfied, however, he says that he still finds my fights too much, however, at present no further consequences threaten 🙁 😉

Good;I hope he'll accept there would be much more fights,wihtout consequences,when you'll be allowed to be intimate with Camryn,too.

Angelina then i told my father that i would like to do sports, i told him that in january my gym class ends in school and i would like to jog or walk, because i would like to do something for my health on the one hand and on the other hand i would like to spend at least one hour a week without tighbands.

we talked about it for a while and came to the conclusion that from next sunday, sunday mornings, we go walking for one hour. if we keep up with it physically, we will change the whole thing to jogging.

Good too he accepted;it was risked to add it was for not wearing the thigh bands during it too.But it'll be helpful for your health,too.

Angelina Condition is however that I remain the whole time in the field of vision of my father.

Logical.

Angelina i think it is a good solution and i am curious how it will run next sunday or walk 😃

Yes,it'll be interesting,and it is a good compromise.

Sara2001

Angelina my father will unlock the tighbands for me before the sport and put them on again after the sport. Condition is however that I remain the whole time in the field of vision of my father.

That's good news. I think it will help you a lot. I would love to have the same opinions but my father thinks we can do enough sports in our fitness room with the bands in place and that I walk enough during the day by going to work and back 🙁

Ines

Sara2001
I will not opine about someone's criteria about health, sport and cardiovascular state in young girls, because I would get angry, and if I am angry I sleep badly, and if I sleep badly I do not make good tests....

Vanessa

Sara2001

I'm sure it'll be helpful for her.Too bad your father doesn't agree...

Ines I do not make good tests...

You're right.Concentrate on your studies for now!

And good luck!🙂

Or,as we say in french,if we're superstitious and think saying "good luck" can bring bad luck on studies,work,etc...:"Merde!".😉

For the actors,it is a bit different;for a similar reason,french people may say:"casse toi la jambe"("break your leg").

Angelina i think it's (almost) impossible to do sports reasonably with tighbands 🙁

Maybe,at home,yes.But not easy.

James

Angelina Hey, remember the exercise conversation we had months ago? I’m glad that worked out.

How do you gym currently?

Angelina

@Sara2001

i think it's (almost) impossible to do sports reasonably with tighbands 🙁

@Ines

good luck for your tests 🙂 and don't get too angry 😉

@James

currently i have sports lessons once a week in the school, but at the end of january it will be the last time, so i make an alternative now 😉

Sara2001

Angelina i think it's (almost) impossible to do sports reasonably with tighbands 🙁

You can do some things, but you are right, most sport activities are impossible.

The point is that I can not just ask my father to open my tightbands for sport. As I said I am not allowed to talk about it directly.

In our family it's working with talk about situations, like "I would love to do more sports". Answer: "You can use the machines in the basement". "I think jogging would be a great way to stay fit". "At first let's see what else you can do in the basement". And that's the end of the zalk.

James

Sara2001 I really don't like that. A girl should be able to do whatever sport she wants.

Angelina

Sara2001

a pretty stupid rule, talk is important and especially the direct talk about such situations is very important 🙁 I find it absolutely incomprehensible and my father sees it exactly so . if he does not trust you then he should do sports (with you ) my father does that too 😉

Vanessa

Sara2001

What would happen if you answer something like "But it would be more effective if I've my thigh bands off during it?",while taking care to not be disrespectful,for example?

Sara2001 If my chastity equipment restricts me from doing something, he never reduces the equipment, not even temporary but demands to not do it. The only exception was sports class in school for legal reasons.

If it makes your work way harder and can impact the quality of it(so your apprenticeship or you career),while not making it impossible,what would he decide?

Ines

I think sports are good,even for a woman in chastity,yes.

Angelina

Even if I'm not at ease to talk about it with my parenst,if it is necessary,or if I've a question,for example,they accept we discuss it.

Angelina

I agree.During maintenance,it is not the best setting for discussing it...

Sara2001

James I really don't like that. A girl should be able to do whatever sport she wants.

For my father security and not question his descision that I wear the tightbands 24/7 comes first.

If my chastity equipment restricts me from doing something, he never reduces the equipment, not even temporary but demands to not do it. The only exception was sports class in school for legal reasons.

Ines

James
I think it is even responsibility of key holder. If the girl is a bit lazy, key holder has to make she does some sport.
I like do it, but I am not a radical, but some activity is mandatory. Specially since girl have worst circulation than men.

Sara2001

Angelina Direkt talk about this is possible but only during maintenance. During normal times it's not appropriate.

Angelina

Sara2001

you cannot talk normally and objectively with your father during maintenance because you are in a very bad position in this situation

your father wants you to be locked up so he has to be able to talk to you about it at any time.

Sara2001

Vanessa What would happen if you answer something like "But it would be more effective if I've my thigh bands off during it?",while taking care to not be disrespectful,for example?

Outside of my maintenance session where I am supposed to talk about all these aspects, I would most probably earn a punishment for taking about my chastity equipment without being asked. My father prefers that it is always below the surface. Only exception would be something health related that can not wait until the next maintenance session.

Vanessa If it makes your work way harder and can impact the quality of it(so your apprenticeship or you career),while not making it impossible,what would he decide?

It already makes my work harder. I have to invest almost 3 hours every day to go to work and back because the train station is far away and I can only make small steps with the tightbands. If it would make my job impossible, I would have to search for another job. My chastity situation definitely comes first.

Vanessa I agree.During maintenance,it is not the best setting for discussing it...

Even if I definitely would love to be able to talk more open about it, I think it's working well.

Angelina

Sara2001

wow 😮 I find it very worrying that your father puts your chastity above your professional future, sorry but I would never accept that 🙁

how is that supposed to work during your maintenance ? you are in a very low position, in my opinion no reasonable conversations are possible 🙁

Vanessa

Sara2001 Outside of my maintenance session where I am supposed to talk about all these aspects, I would most probably earn a punishment for taking about my chastity equipment without being asked. My father prefers that it is always below the surface. Only exception would be something health related that can not wait until the next maintenance session.

Very severe to be punished only for talking about it(respectfully)!

Sara2001 It already makes my work harder. I have to invest almost 3 hours every day to go to work and back because the train station is far away and I can only make small steps with the tightbands. If it would make my job impossible, I would have to search for another job. My chastity situation definitely comes first.

I think it is too hard too.Having to quit your job instead of taking off the thigh bands during it is way too much,in my opinion!

Sara2001 Even if I definitely would love to be able to talk more open about it, I think it's working well.

Don't you think it would be better if you can talk about it in less stressful moments?

Would these rules be similar,or less stricts,when married,with your husband?

Angelina

I agree with you!

Sara2001 He says it doesn't effect my professional future, I just have less free time. He thinks that is acceptable for a female.

Not if you have to quit your job as it can't be done with thigh bands.

Sara2001 Before the spanking there is a conversation about the last week. We talk about the things he has in mind about my situation and how it should change or not. Then we talk about the things I have in mind about my situation. No descision is made, then I get my maintenance spanking to remind me of my place. He normally informs me about the decision after he had time to think about it

"Good" it is done before you get spanked,but I still think it not the best moment for it.

Sara2001 I don't think I will ever have a job like this. If I would choose something like that he would probably not allow it.

I hope it won't happen before you're married,as he seems to be a bit less strict(and hoping he won't change after being married and be way more strict).

Angelina

Good your father would manage your devices based on your job.

I hope for you too you'll get married before the end of your studies.

Sara2001

Angelina wow 😮 I find it very worrying that your father puts your chastity above your professional future, sorry but I would never accept that 🙁

He says it doesn't effect my professional future, I just have less free time. He thinks that is acceptable for a female.

Angelina how is that supposed to work during your maintenance ? you are in a very low position, in my opinion no reasonable conversations are possible 🙁

Before the spanking there is a conversation about the last week. We talk about the things he has in mind about my situation and how it should change or not. Then we talk about the things I have in mind about my situation. No descision is made, then I get my maintenance spanking to remind me of my place. He normally informs me about the decision after he had time to think about it

Angelina

Sara2001

as long as it doesn't restrict you professionally, it's ok, but what if you were doing a physical job, a job where you have to walk all day ?

if this form of conversation is ok for you and it has worked well so far, i don't want to get annoyed about it anymore. but i still don't think it's right 🙁

Sara2001

Angelina as long as it doesn't restrict you professionally, it's ok, but what if you were doing a physical job, a job where you have to walk all day ?

I don't think I will ever have a job like this. If I would choose something like that he would probably not allow it.

Would it be different for you? What if you ask your father if you want to work in a Kindergarden?

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