Newbie's questions

Vanessa

Your ideas seem mainly good.

When do you plan to talk with him about it?

Sara2001

I agree.I think it can lead to some illness...

Cornertime is a good idea too.

Angelina it's an idea, but this kind of punishment never existed in our family before because we both find it very humiliating. but i will think about it

It is not bad.The breaking up punishment was a new one,so it would be replaced by another new one.

Sara2001 Isn't this one important aspect of a punishment, especially if it is for a major infraction?

I agree.It is one of the main purposes of the cornertime.

Angelina standing in the corner was not part of this principle

While in the corner,you're supposed to think about your offense and yout punishment.And it can be part of the punishment,with other parts,like writing an essay.

Angelina

Vanessa When do you plan to talk with him about it?

today, I spoke to him today

the positive is that in both contracts the separation from camryn has been removed 😃

the negative i have to pay a high price for it 🙁

if I am punished now, the following awaits me

6 months house arrest
for 4 weeks i have to wear the handcuffs at home
then I have to write a 50-page essay

it is very hard, fortunately it is more theoretical and there is no danger for my relationship

Vanessa

Angelina

Good there is no forced break-up used as a punishment anymore!Was your father hard to convince?

The punishment would be very hard,but still better.You should try to avoid getting it,however,it wouldn't be pleasant at all...

Angelina it is also a very theoretical punishment

Yes,and you seem to take care to never break the two rules which would be punished this way,so it is likely you never experience this punishment,happily.

Billy

Would you have to wear the handcuffs always when at home? Wouldn't this interfere greatly with your daily tasks? (e.g. homework etc.) Would it mean you are allowed to see Camryn while wearing the handcuffs?

Angelina

Billy Would you have to wear the handcuffs always when at home?

at least if there are no reasons against it yes

Billy Wouldn't this interfere greatly with your daily tasks?

for certain things (homework, cooking or similar) i would be free

Billy Would it mean you are allowed to see Camryn while wearing the handcuffs?

it is even desired, since I am dependent on help

i don't want to deepen this discussion too much if possible because it could attract strong fetishists, it is also a very theoretical punishment

Angelina

Vanessa

my father immediately agreed, because he too sees a great future in my relationship and would have been very reluctant to see it end

of course i try everything to avoid this hard (the hardest in my contracts) punishment

Vanessa

Angelina

Good he was very opened to take this punishment out of the contracts.

Logical it is the hardest one,as the forced break-up was the hardest one before it was changed...I guess you would be able to avoid it,you seems to follow very well the two rules related to this punishment.

Angelina

Vanessa

at least one rule I probably can't break 😂

Vanessa

Angelina

Sure,you can't break this one even if you want it a lot!😉

Angelina

Vanessa

it's about the fact that I could theoretically find someone to break through the equipment, but I wouldn't do that

Vanessa

Angelina

Understandable he puts this rule,but it is very unliklely you would try it,yes,impossible to hide.

Angelina

Vanessa

this is true, especially if the consequences are far too great even outside the actual punishment

Vanessa

Angelina

Do you think it would damage the relationship with your father,even if he would order a new chastity belt?

Angelina

Vanessa

I think unfortunately yes 🙁

therefore it makes no sense to use this option

Vanessa

Angelina

I think he put it because he wanted to make very clear it would be a major offense,and be sure you won't think it is worth breaking this rule.

And he probably didn't know how secure it is,and didn't know how you would react.

Angelina

Vanessa

i think so too, but i think my dad knows how secure the belt is. i think for my dad it's about having the absolute assurance that i'm not trying too hard

Vanessa

Angelina

When you fought it more than presently,was this purpose working?Or did you fight it as hard as you can,even with this rule?

And,I wonder,what did you fight the most?The belt,the bra or the thigh bands?

Angelina

Vanessa

i don't fight that often anymore, besides when i fight i try to cheat the belt without leaving any traces 😉

i now fight more with words than with actions

Vanessa

Angelina

I guess,even if you've to write your fights in your diary,it is not the case for the tries to cheat,right?If he caught you,would you be punished?

In my case,I do both,trying to cheat and fighting it,but no success for both...🙁

What do you mean by "fighting with words"?Trying to get some freedom by discussing with your father?It would be good for you,but I doubt he would agree...

Angelina

Vanessa I guess,even if you've to write your fights in your diary,it is not the case for the tries to cheat,right?If he caught you,would you be punished?

that's not really true, the attempt is not punishable, only if i would succeed i would be punished. besides, one of our contracts says that i must not be punished for anything i write in the diary

Vanessa What do you mean by "fighting with words"?Trying to get some freedom by discussing with your father?It would be good for you,but I doubt he would agree...

by simply trying to make the best out of my situation through conversations and good arguments and at least achieving minor loosening of the rules

Sara2001

Vanessa In my case,I do both,trying to cheat and fighting it,but no success for both...🙁

I stopped fighting physical but just emotional. Trying to cheat the belt leads to a VERY severe punishment, no matter how successful it is.

Vanessa

Angelina that's not really true, the attempt is not punishable, only if i would succeed i would be punished. besides, one of our contracts says that i must not be punished for anything i write in the diary

So he would accept you try to cheat on your belts?

Angelina by simply trying to make the best out of my situation through conversations and good arguments and at least achieving minor loosening of the rules

Does it worked well for now,except for the new rule about thigh bands?

Sara2001

I still fight it physically,personally.It is tolerated,so it's ok.

If caught trying to cheat in a more elaborated way,like by using a vibrator,or the string thing @Megan explained,I'm not sure they would accept.Maybe I would get a warning,and then,if I conitnue,be punished.

Angelina my father justifies it with the fact that nothing happened by trying. a long talk about the rule is still there because my father wants to know why i tried to break the rule

Not a bad reaction.

Saintprudence

If it makes you feel guilty,you maybe should talk about it with her.

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