Newbie's questions

Vanessa

Angelina the question is rather what happens if lea is caught, what are the consequences? therefore she has to talk to her parents as soon as possible about the duration of the punishment and whether the cb will be used for future punishments and if so for how long.

clear high risk, but we must always compare risk and consequences

It's not easy...She can't ask "What would happen if I try to pick the lock of my belt and you caught me doing it?"...If they haven't told her a possible punishment for trying to cheat with it,she can only try to guess it.

A chastity belt can be quite expensive,so,even if they don't plan permanent wearing,I think they thought they may need to use it more than once...

Ines I was feeling bad for Laura. I was moderator in a forum, and I was thinking in the work that awaits Laura

Yes,this thread especially is pretty long,and talk about a lot of different topics...

But,to avoid too much works,@Laura could do a thread called "newcomers " for,at least,Billy and Lea,and another one,for Esteban and his ideas.

Laura

Vanessa But,to avoid too much works,@Laura could do a thread called "newcomers " for,at least,Billy and Lea,and another one,for Esteban and his ideas.

This topic is "newcomers", for me it's not a problem if people share something here. It's better than if say nothing at all. I will split it to separate topics because the stories are different or merge to a topic we have already. And it's always nice to read existing topics and follow up there.

Vanessa

Laura This topic is "newcomers", for me it's not a problem if people share something here.

Right,it could be the one for newcomers.And if they can post a bit here before they use other topics,to be used to write and read this forum,it could be useful.

And a topic "introductions" with a lot of answers can give the idea there is a lot of people here and make hesitating people join us.

Laura my parents are not happy that I wear pants most of the time

My parents don't like it too,they think it is not ladylike...

Lea I ask them and they told me i will wear it as long as it will be necessery. They need to be sure that i stay virgin until marriage.

Oh,not a very good answer.Not as bad as if they told you you'll have to wear it until marriage,but if they are the ones to decide when it is not necessary anymore,it can last a lot...

Raziel Welcome to the forum, but since you have a negative experience from the belt, try not to give your family ideas by mentioning thigh bands, bra, or whatever.

Yes,if they haven't thought about it,no need to give them such ideas...

Raziel she should have her own key hidden for when she is alone.

Or in something she couldn't open without it being noticed.Box with a plastic lock with a serial number written on it is effective.

Angelina but exactly these questions @Lea can ask, because they are important questions that have to be clarified, but I agree with you, it is difficult if the relationship to the parents is not so good but exactly that I do not know

Sure,but it would make her parents know she already think about ways to cheat with her chastity belt.They would not appreciate it at all(logical...)and could increase the severity or duration due to this.

Lea Parents also thin kit help to change my attitude.

What attitude,and what they expect from you?

Lea So it is not so bad!

Not pleasant to have a strict dress code,even more at my age...And I can't be as sexy/seductive as I would want,and nor as my friends are...

Johnathan

You've already make a thread for it,A hello,quick presentation and a link to your thread would have been better(and easier for you to look at the answers).😉

Laura

Lea As for me I don't have a special dress code more than required to hide the chastity belt. However my parents are not happy that I wear pants most of the time

Lea

Laura Yeah so they want you to wear skirts only?

Lea

Angelina Ou i see so you are not able to stretch your legs widely? I ask them and they told me i will wear it as long as it will be necessery. They need to be sure that i stay virgin until marriage.

Raziel

Lea Welcome to the forum, but since you have a negative experience from the belt, try not to give your family ideas by mentioning thigh bands, bra, or whatever.

Billy Welcome here as well. I don't see the probelem if a woman wears a belt, but I think she should have her own key hidden for when she is alone. If you do find a woman that doesn't mind, great! Good luck to you for when you find the right partner to share a chastity lifestyle though. 😏

Angelina

@Ines

yes it is a lot of work but maybe @Laura should get support, then it is easier maybe from you ?? you already have experience 😉

@Vanessa

but exactly these questions @Lea can ask, because they are important questions that have to be clarified, but I agree with you, it is difficult if the relationship to the parents is not so good but exactly that I do not know

@Laura
pants can be prevented with tighbands

@Lea
so yet permanent, that I am very sorry for you 🙁 if you have fears or worry, you are welcome to talk to us 🙂

I can stretch my legs but not spread them 🙁

Lea

Angelina I can t imagine to wear it for so long time. Parents also thin kit help to change my attitude. :/. Ou i understand how many cm you can stretch? Aren t you limited during walking?

Angelina

Lea

my legs I can always stretch only not spread, I'm not sure what you mean, tighbands complicate the walk strongly 🙁 .

but stretching is possible only that the legs are tied together (at least the thighs)

Lea

Vanessa So it is not so bad! I have t owear certain clothes like "home uniform" they think at the begining it help me to be more modest and change my attitude. :/ I also start new forum about it (https://unwedchastity.org/d/108-dress-code )

Lea

Angelina Do you wear your tighbands daily? Isn t it visible?

Angelina

Vanessa

lea of course should not tell her parents about cheating or any tricks but she must know clearly how long she must stay in the cb, it would otherwise make her mad 🙁

Lea

Vanessa They think i need to be tame. From their point of view i wore sexy clothes and were to provocative, they ask me to be more modest. I understand you, i know that feeling when your friends can wear sexy clothes etc. 🙁 How old are you?

Vanessa

Angelina

Sure,but it seems they're not open to tell it to her now.And even that they've not decided it for now.

Angelina

Vanessa

I hope @Lea will be back soon when she has spoken to her parents, I hope the uncertainty is not too bad for her

Vanessa

Angelina I hope the uncertainty is not too bad for her

It is never easy...

Lea

Yes,and it was especially hard when I've to compete with other women to seduce a potential boyfriend/girlfriend,too.I start with a disadvantage if I can't wear sexy clothes...

I'm 24 years old.

But,as @Ines said,to ease the work of @Laura,we should continue this talk in this topic: https://unwedchastity.org/d/108-dress-code/10

Angelina in your opinion should we not answer any more if someone asks just because we are in the wrong topic ?

I think we should still answer.Otherwise,we would betray one or the purpose of this board:help people who have to wear a chastity belt(and cage),and offer them a place to discuss it freely.

Ines

Lea

Have you notice that in the forum there are a lot of threads? Seriously, a lot more that the one in which you desiderate to write.

Angelina

Lea

if you hide the tighbands well it is not visible 😉

@Ines
in your opinion should we not answer any more if someone asks just because we are in the wrong topic ?

please don't take it personally it's great how you are working for Laura 😉 but for me personally it's much more difficult to answer in 30 different topics than to answer directly below the post 😉

is nothing against you, is just my opinion so please don't be angry 😉

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